Today I wanted to stop in and talk about something that is close to my heart. I have many many people reach out with lots of questions about my story and how I came to be confident in who I am. As you all know, I’ve worn diapers for a long time. It has been something that has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember and in some ways I know that has helped shape me into who I am today.

It hasn’t always been easy though. The world isn’t always a happy and accepting place as unfortunate as that its; however, the sooner you recognize that and accept it the easier it is to get past that.

Not everyone is going to understand. Whether you wear diapers for a medical reason or you do it out of love it doesn’t matter. You have to have the same confidence to truly live the life you were meant to!

I get it, I do. It sounds crazy. It sounds cheesy, but I promise you there is nothing more rewarding than being confident in who you are and what you love!

Don’t get me wrong – I’m not one that parades it around. Do I walk out of the house in nothing but a diaper? No. Do I parade around at work in a diaper? No. I’m a normal woman, with a profession, friends, and family. I do the same things that everyone else does in this world I just do it wearing diapers. I’m confident enough that I don’t worry about if someone else sees. I’m more than open to talk about it and I’ve found the peace with who I am.

I understand though that not everyone is there. I wasn’t always there and it took me many years but you can get there and I promise you the sooner you do the more enjoyable your life will be! It makes me sad to hear people who feel like they always have to hide. To feel like they can’t be themselves, because I know that is the worst feeling in the world.

I like to look at it like this: you have ONE life. ONE. At the end of that life do you want to look back and wish that you’d done things differently? You don’t have a re-do so why not do it now. I get it though –  not everyone is “nice”. There will be people that don’t understand why you love the things you love and that’s okay. For every person that doesn’t understand or may even be unkind there are two more who will embrace and accept you for you who you are.

To truly be confident in who you are – diapered or not you have to let go of the fear that others will not approve. It takes time, it’s not over night, but slowly and surely as you step out of that fear you begin to truly live.

If you are over reading cheesiness – I’ll stop now BUT I just want you all to remember you only have one life, you are only given one body – so LOVE what you LOVE! 

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By |2017-08-23T00:14:12+00:00August 23rd, 2017|Uncategorized|14 Comments


  1. Shauna August 23, 2017 at 12:36 am - Reply

    Great job!!
    Very well said!!
    All the best

  2. Gary Hames August 23, 2017 at 1:34 am - Reply

    Very well said!

  3. Luvis2bwet August 23, 2017 at 1:37 am - Reply

    I’ve worn a diaper every single night for about eight years due to urge incontinence and taking Med’s that ensure I empty my bladder whenever I pee. Surely has improved my sleep as I wet at least seven times a night. I get up soaked normally but don’t leak because of the rig I wear. Honestly, I’ve come to really enjoy wetting…..thankfully!

    Adrian, may I ask if you like to wet in your diaper as well? I’ve just come to the point of admitting that I am a true diaper lover, and thankfully that takes care of handling my urge incontinence while at the same time satisfying my fetish. There must be a bunch of women and men out there who are in my boat….

  4. Randy kelbough August 23, 2017 at 3:53 am - Reply

    Very good job I use to worry about what people would think of me because I have to wear adult disposable diapers and I learned if people don’t like me for the way I am that’s their problem I have learned to enjoy life I don’t have to worry about having accidents any more I have a new freedom wearing adult diapers I can go out in public and not worry about accidents or trying to find a washroom in a hurry thank you Adrian

  5. Isx2250dl August 23, 2017 at 6:18 am - Reply

    Very True… I agreed 100 percent . Did wonderful job.

  6. raymond noyce August 23, 2017 at 8:54 am - Reply

    hi really like your site have a question I’m into wearing diapers plastic pants love wearing and using them. but when I have a poo in them I cant get them off quick enough I feel guilty
    but I love the feeling and want to keep them on. any thoughts ray

  7. shawnie August 24, 2017 at 12:31 am - Reply

    Thank you Adrian that meant allot. I don’t normally speak out. I have followed you for years now. Going thru struggles everyday have since 1997. Reading this gives me more hope that I’m not the only one with indeed true struugles. Things truly embarrassing , won’t be unless you let them. I didn’t wonder far until I met my wife in 03 she’s been my inspiration thru it all as well as you and peter thanks for all you do


  8. Diaper 73 August 26, 2017 at 5:08 am - Reply

    This is why I like your blog and subscribed to it. It’s nice to be able to talk about things like wearing diapers and why we wear.

  9. John August 29, 2017 at 1:15 pm - Reply

    AMEN, Adrian. You are SOOO right. Thanks for giving everyone who read this post, hope, peace, and joy.

  10. Chris October 12, 2017 at 3:02 am - Reply

    After pushing aside my desire to wear diapers again at 13. Now at 30 that part of me has come back. I have been at odds with myself over the past month and a half. I finally accept that its a part of me. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. I like Diapers, and starting tomorrow I’m gonna go buy some. I’ll wear them in the comfort of my room.

    I’ve tried to fight who I am deep down but this part of me won’t go away. This time I wear diapers again, but only at home

  11. chris October 22, 2017 at 4:41 am - Reply

    Chis again, and i’m happily wearing Diapers. It feels wanderful, and when i wear them in public. All forms of social anxiety seems to dissapear. I feel no worries, as i was embarassed for buying Adult diapers for myself. thankfully the employee at Walgreens didn’t seem to care that i wanted to wear diapers. he read right threw me even though i said it was an errand for someone else. However i’m happy as my inner child got what it wanted above all else. Now i need to test how druable they are to piss tests. Thankfully i got a 30 pack of Adult Diapers for less than $14. Screw it i’m gonna wear them regularly.

    In fact thankfully the bus stop near the Walgreens has a private bathroom so i put on my diaper right then and there. couldn’t be more excited.

  12. Gay Diaper 1973 December 27, 2017 at 3:32 pm - Reply

    I just recently ordered online some cloth diapers. I look forward to trying them on. While I love wearing diapers, I’ve never liked having to throw away diapers after every use. My bladder control has aways been iffy at best, and my bowel control isn’t much better.

  13. DateCGL May 29, 2018 at 8:57 pm - Reply

    I can’t tell you how important this is to everyone, in and out of the community. I run an ABDL dating site (well, it’s more than ABDL but you get the general idea) and a lot of people are looking for confidence in their partner. Not necessarily like courage but just confidence of self. The person saying, “I am X and I’m okay with it!” Self-acceptance and self-love can be really hard for some but, you’re right, it’s really crucial for the ONE life we get here.

    Thank you for the reminder 🙂

  14. Diaper_73 January 16, 2019 at 3:21 pm - Reply

    @ DateCGL I agree. I’ve been wearing diapers since I was an infant. While most people would find me crazy to actually like wearing, I actually like wearing.

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