I think I have some terrible stomach bug tonight cause I Feel so so so so sick. I came home from work feeling fine just a few hours ago, then I made some spagetti and Peter and I ate when he got home. About 30 minutes after I finished the dinner I was so sick. Peter could barley even handle changing my diapers it is so bad and so far he has had to change them THREE TIMES! I feel really bad for him right now but I have no idea what is making me so sick! Hopefully this bug will pass soon though so I can get up off this changing pad and go back to doing my normal routine! Peter and I are going to have to take our trash out tonight that is for sure!
Work seemed really really long today. I was busy but for some reason everytime I looked at the clock only 3 minutes had past. But thankfully it is over and we are so so so so close to the weekend I can finally feel it now! I hope everyone is having a great week..so I had a question for my readers because I want really badly for my readers to get more involved…Has anyone seen your diaper in pbulic? and what has been the reactions? Peter and I’s diapers are seen a lot in public and honestly thus far we have never got any rude comments or anyone even asking, for the most part people just leave it alone. So i’m just curious what you all have experienced!.
I am so sorry to hear about your stomach. I have stress-related IBS and so I can empathize with your situation.
As far as being seen in public… I normally wear jeans, a t-shirt (tucked in), and an overshirt (unbuttoned/untucked). I am sure that people have seen the back of my diaper when I’ve bent over and my shirt wasn’t fully tucked in. Since I wear molicares it is probably more noticeable as it is purple, but even then I haven’t gotten any comments about it. I don’t ever intentionally show them off to anyone.
That is an interesting question! I sew my own clothes so I am free with my designs and style. I sew shortalls w/a 3″ inseam and snaps on the crotch which I wear as my normal summer( in public) wear…This leaves little to the imagination if I sit or bend over…I also wear cloth diapers (that I also sew) so the bulk is noticeable.
I never had bad remark when my diapers were noticed. I wouldn’t care anyhow if I did get such a remark.
I did have an interesting experience…I approached my wife’s GF since she is a professional seamstress. I confessed about my AB and she said she knew all along that I was diapered but thought it was medical! She was OK and has been a great help w/ sewing and altering.
I should also say that my wife is very AB too!!
OH! I do sew for other ABs!
I enjoy wearing my diapers in public often, but sometimes it all depends upon where “public” is as to how much I play it up or let it be seen with the wife. For the most part, it’s just a normal thing, but at times…when we are away from town, or in an area we don’t normally go we might make it a bit more obvious by her comments or her actions towards me. With my old disposable diapers, you of course could tell from the crinkle..but even then that wasn’t to noticeable in a nosiy public environment. My cloth pocket and AIO cloth diapers that I wear now can make things a bit more obvious from the outside view (pants or shorts) but they also make them 10x more noticeable when they stick out of my bottoms now as you can see the prints or bright colors under a white shirt, or if the shirt rides up the fabric of the diaper tends to make it stick to the diaper instead of sliding down the plastic layer of a disposable. Several times I know my diapers have been on display, either on purpose or by accident. One of my most favorite times was at a walmart one evening with my wife. Because i’m taller, I always get the ladies, and sometimes older gentlemen who ask for help with something on a upper shelf. One evening wearing my diapers and an already short shirt, I was asked by a young lady and her mother in one of those hoverround things if I could get something for them. I of course help them out and have to reach the upper shelf and then back some to get what she wanted which pulled my shirt probably half way up my back, leaving at least 3 inches or so of my diapers fully exposed. No comment was made, other then a gracious thanks from both women, and a very cute look from both of them. My wife snickered a bit as we started back down the isle and I hadn’t even thought about my diapers showing until she made the comment that they were very…very visible.
One other time…in Montana back in 06, we had been driving for hours heading north to Alaska and decided to stop off in some town for dinner and a hotel. It had been sometime since I last changed but that was why I double diapered w/ an insert as well. We setteled on some BBQ place to eat and got there just as the rain storm that had been chasing us finally caught up and dumped on the area. So it was nice to watch it rain from our window seat, but that…along with our drinks were making me need to pee even more! I hadn’t brought a change with me, and the rest of my diapers were in the trunk, so getting to them would have required me to go back in this heavy rain storm, open the trunk and get everything soaked just to get to them, so that plan wasn’t going to happen! I figured they would be fine until I could get to the hotel after dinner. Well……they didn’t last that long! They started to leak, little did I know, sometime durring dinner. So when we got up to leave I had this huge diaper leakage marks on the rear of my green khacki shorts. There was no doubt what I had done and I was so embarrased. I had nothing to cover it up with and had to walk through this very well lit place to get to the car of course! Amanda thought it was too funny, and right then scolded me for not having changed my diaper in the first place. This was fine of course..we were passing through and that was all part of the fun…being able to do what ever without worring about someoen knowing us! I got several looks, and even more head turns as I walked outta there carring my son in his wet diaper as well! Once we left, I just placed one of my dirty shirts on the seat and drove the two blocks over to the hotel we wanted to stay at. Amanda didn’t let it end there though…she said as punishment I had to go get the room from the front desk myself. I couldn’t do it…I just sat there to afraid to get out, and she finally made me go. It was so humiliating being there like that, my diapers sagging in my shorts, the leaking, everything clearing pointing to the fact I had on some diapers and not just caught out in the rain storm. But of course…all of this excites me shall we say, and so it made for some fun times later that evening we shall say..and leave it at that 🙂
I’ve been wearing 24/7 for a few months now… and I just know that people must have seen my diapers showing at some point. Heck, when I change in the bathroom at work you can hear me untaping my Attends from across the hallway. Also… when I walk into the front office where it is super quiet you can really hear my diaper crinkle.
Thankfully people are considerate. I typically wear baggy shorts and a long t-shirt so it’s not like I’m trying to show anything off on purpose. But if I happen to bend over and anyone has seen my diaper sticking up they haven’t said anything.
I think most adults are going to be mature about it. The assumption is always that the diapers are for a medical need and people just don’t discuss medical conditions. It would be like walking up to someone in a wheel chair and asking them WTF happened… just plain rude.
I know many AB/DLs have a fear of being “discovered” wearing diapers in public… but it’s really nothing to worry about. In my experience most people will just ignore you… and there are other stranger things out there.
sorry to here about u being sick, hope u get to feeling better soon. have a good day
deeply appreciated info. on being diapered in public and using them for there intended purposes.i am trying it myself in some stores and other public areas but to assure some kind reactions i dont just pee them, iam also experimenting slowly pooping them.so far i had no reactions from anyone at all accept a few dirty looks. thank you very much for your blog,i do plan to send mour detils and keep you informed
I’ve been wearing diapers to work, the gym, and even to the store all week so far, and it’s either nobody’s noticed (kind of doubtful because it makes some noise when I change in the bathroom and when I’m on the treadmill at the gym) or nobody cares.