Wearing a diaper in public can truly be a terrifying and stressful situation at first. I know because I was forced to get used to it from a young age. Let me tell you that there are certain tricks that I have learned to tell myself that have really simplified the habituation process of getting use to wearing a diaper in public. Overcoming that fear and stress of the various things you worry about which may range from everything of “I might get caught” to “what if I wet or mess my diaper and someone notices”. These things can all be dealt with as long as you sit back and think about the possible situations, prepare yourself for them and mentally handle yourself appropriately. Here are my keys mentally with wearing a diaper in public:
- Be Confident: You have to be confident when it comes to wearing a diaper in public. If you give off signs that you are uncomfortable or doing something ‘strange’ then others pick up on that. If you are wearing a diaper and carry yourself like its nothing and just normal than others will pick up on that as well. People will most likely associate it with a medical condition and it will completely be looked over and not a big deal.
- You Will Never See Them Again: This is a trick that has helped me out immensely. Ok, so someone happens to spot you wearing a diaper…honestly, what is the likelihood of you ever meeting or seeing that person again? So, what is the worry? You have no relation to them, no ties or anything of that regard so what is the big deal? I recognize that to an extent if you are truly trying to hide it from a certain person (aka: parent) then use common sense in regards to wearing a diaper and what not.
- Be Prepared with Supplies: Being prepared and having all your supplies ready for if something were to happen while wearing your diaper out in public will really help you better relax. For example, if you poop your diaper in public then you want to make sure you have an extra diaper, baby powder, plenty of wipes, and just in case a extra set of clothes in case the smell gets into your clothes for some reason. This can all be mitigated by wearing plastic pants which really helps cut down on the smell of a poopy diaper. But, being prepared with supplies is key.
- Have a Plan: Formulating a plan before going out in your head will make you not only more comforted but also more confident. If you poop your diaper here, or wet your diaper there, or if someone you know comes up to you…these are all important aspects to take into consideration. But, if you address these situations beforehand and know how to react and what to do then it reduces down a lot on the worries and stresses.
These are some of my keys that I learned from and truly helped me get accommodated with not caring about another person seeing my diaper and what not. Obviously, it doesn’t come over night but with practice and keeping these keys in mind they can really help you get use to wearing diapers in public not only safely but more comfortably..
This is great advice which I think people need to hear. Thank you.
As a bed-wetter I really don’t need to go out in diapers… but i often go out as a sweet, pink lolita girl. Just imagine a tall blond girl happily wearing doll fashion on a tokyo train. It’s similar in that you must learn not to care what others think about you… it is different in that you don’t have to worry if people can smell you…
I am confident enough to go out in diapers if I wanted to, but I am not confident enough to change myself in public when needed… I don’t really know how I could manage to diaper myself without laying down. How do you change yourself in public? what tips do you have regarding that? I simply ask because I don’t know… and I do want to one day go out in diapers because they make me feel so happy.
your soo right. I rememebr the first time i went out in public diapered i was freaking but you get used to it and its not that big a deal. 🙂
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Greetings. Carrying extra supplies, while frequently associated with backpacks and handbags, does not necessarily have to include said items. I literally carry my laptop everywhere I go (except the shower) and keep tons of stuff in the case. Quite frankly, most of the stuff I need and use on a regular basis, along with a few unnecessary favorite items in my collection of odds and ends, are stored there. Though I don’t know whether all laptop or notebook cases would accommodate a diaper as well as mine have, both of my cases have been able to incorporate one or two diapers and small amounts of related accessories with no noticeable difference. People expect computer cases to bulge anyway, which mine certainly does, and it is not too unusual for people to take their computer cases with them when entering a bathroom due to the likelihood that the computer will be stolen if left unattended. This may be worth trying for those who have laptops or notebooks and keep the computers in a case with extra pockets or compartments. Have a pleasant day.
Jks16- IF it’s possible you can lean against a wall and hold the diaper up on your bum that way, and reach down between your legs to pull it up… I’ve used this technique a few times myself, and it will work in a cinch, it’s hard to get used to it though, because you have to re-adjust the tapes a few times to get them just right… laying down is my preferred method though.
As for what to carry supplies in- I know that here it’s really hard to carry large bags around to stores and such because when workers see you with them they automatically assume you’re there to steal something. I’ve found that leaving my bag in my car until it is needed, and then going to get it, then heading to a restroom from there is the best/easiest thing to do… I’ve never pooped myself in public, and I always make sure I wear enough stuffies/thick enough diapers that I wont leak, just because I’m not confident enough to do that in public… yet.
One of my favorite public activities was golfing while diapered. I don’t golf any more and never was very good at it, but when I did, doing it diapered was wonderful! I golfed with a close friend who knew fully about my diapers (although she wasn’t a wearer herself). Nothing quite like walking down the fairway while filling a diaper!!! And besides, you’re out on that course for a long time anyway.
I am quite comfortable wearing a diaper and plastic pant in public. I just returned from an unemployment center (diapered). I do not care is the waist band of my plastic pant is exposed. No one has commented if they saw it. Probably just as good as I had some leakage that would have shown if I was not wearing a diaper, as it is I am still not needing to change.