I spend a lot of time on different forums and talking to many different diaper lovers and the main topic is that people are scared to tell their girlfriend/boyfriend or whoever is close to them about their love of diapers! I know this is a very hard subject and it is very hard for many people to talk about but I really don’t think anyone should be scared! If diapers are as big of a part of your life as they are of mine your life would not be complete without that person knowing and accepting you. If they love you and the truly love you then they will accept it!
One of the BIGGEST mistakes that I keep seeing people make is that they want to wait until they are married or later to tell their significant other! NO! A relationship is built on trust and understanding without that there is no relationship if you wait and tell this person until you are married or later down the road there is this HUGE time slot where they will realize that you were not honest and it will destroy the trust.
On a happy note, don’t be scared! Love who you are and it will come! And if you ever have anything you would like to talk about or any questions just send me a message and let me know!
Will be back soon 🙂.
I would whole heartly agree. I have been married for 5 years now to my wife as of this past Thursday and she has known about my diaper interest for nearly a year before we got married. She to herself is a little girl and though she used to wear diapers quite often, hasn’t really had time for it, or the body I guess since having two kids. If you ever want to be ‘whole” and carry on a relationship with your spouse, then you need to be able to tell them everything. I know that my wife, even if she wasn’t a baby girl herself…would still have accepted me for who I was. And for that matter, I didn’t know prior to telling her that she was…but I wanted to be honest with her and it just came out one night durring some talks….a few drinks…and a quick trip to the local “food world” for some snacks and a quick trip down the diaper aisle.
I feel I really need to tell my fiancee about my urge to wear diapers from time to time. We have been together for almost 2 years and are due to get married in a just over a year, also she is pregnant with our first child which we are thrilled about. I’m just so scared how she’ll react, we are deeply in love and maybe it wouldn’t be a problem. I dont want to ruin our relationship yet at the same time realise I need to be honest with her
Really good post, thank you.