Ok, so I know it has been awhile since my last post and believe me it has not been on purpose. I have just been extremely busy and the time I am in front of a computer I am getting necessary/work things done for the most part. I apologize for the lack of posting. A lot has happened since I last posted it seems. Bambino Diapers came out with their large Teddy diapers and brought back the original tapes which everyone seems excited about. They also made announcements that they are bringing back the old tapes for the medium Teddy diapers as well which is also exciting. I liked the stretch tabs and never had issues but I like their old tapes just as much too. So, positive either way because I love the new design.
My next post I am in the middle of working on and it will be a good one…informative, true, and unfortunately probably negative to certain groups of people within the ABDL community. It just frustrates me sometimes to go around to the various communities and here others slandering people in the community. It is just inappropriate and uncalled for – it amazes me there are people out there like that. I mean I talk to a lot of people and I know when people are lying, people are telling the truth, when things are fabricated, etc etc but I am not going to go on some accusatory rampage or belittle that person just because I “think I know”. What kind of world do some people live in? Do these people shit not stink? Certain people think they are God’s gift to the world and they KNOW all because they heard someone say this or that, or whatever so it must be true. Are those people really that gullible and ignorant? I truly hope not…anyways I need to stop – I am saving most of it for my next post. I have a few other good posts in the works too.
I hope everyone is having a great diapered week though! Mine is busy and hectic but I just take it day to day..
Hey there Adrian. Imformative, True, Negative, and groups. When you do post any topic on your site I think you kinda know when to hit each of those items when needed I think. Can’t wait to see what you have for your next topic is going to include.
This past Saturday I did have plans to go a AB/DL munch that I’ve mentioned a couple of times. I missed again. Late morning at work. Changed cloths at my gym before hitting the road. Took me a while to get to the town of Bloomington. I got lost and was tired and hungrey and missed the target time to be there. Its monthly so there are other chances to attend one if not all the time. Yeah, even so I missed that munch I did have a back up plan to go up to Indianapolis for a while just to chilled and walk around the mall there.
Monday I did get a sample pack of the large Teddy Bambino. They are alright. besides the pictures you have of the teddys on your site of the tape tabs, I could tell the one that I got were of the tape tabs currently on the classico and bianco. Yeah, as good quality that Bambino’s have I feel that they could have more prints over the whole diaper than just the front panel alone.
Well I think thats all for this reply and can’t wait to see what you have to say in your next posting.
I have to agree, and it’s true of many online communities, that a lot of the ABDL community can be unduly harsh, abrasive, and even just plain mean. I’ve tried to participate in a few but was unable to continue because the general atmosphere was just too aggressive and reactionary for me to want to keep dealing with.
“The more people i meet, the more i like my dog” i saw that on a bumper sticker a few days ago and have to say i agree. Not all, but a certain group of people are the meanest within the ABDL group. They sicken me. I wanted to thank you for your previous posts about Bambinos. My first packs arrived today and im gonna try them for tonight and tomorrow. Collect your thoughts and write an awesome post as you usually do.
Glad to hear it was just you being busy that kept you away, was worried you’d lost interest or something bad happened. But, hey, being busy means you’re being successful, right? And that’s a good thing.
As far as the topic, I think that’s just people in general, not just this community, I post on alot of forums about alot of different topics, and you always run into people who are like that, that are just in it to denigrate other people, or show their superiority and all that. Just have to ignore them and move on, I think.
But, lookin forward to the next post, glad things seem to be going well, your blog’s always one of the bright spots of the day, 🙂
I emailed Bambino about the tape problems I was having with the Teddy tapes. Seems like they listened to the consumers. I’ve had the original Teddy tapes break even when applied so loosely that the diaper wouldn’t even stay on when dry. When they got wet and I didn’t have anything on but the Teddy they went directly to the floor. When the tapes break in bed I had leaks.
@Charlie Yeah as I mentioned, I’ve certainly seen it in other communities. I think it tends to be worse in the smaller more niche and malighned groups. I too post in a lot of other communities and just don’t have the time to find the right ABDL community for me.
Really glad you’re back Adrian.
I read your blog with great interest. You seem to nail all of the issues that are happening right on the head.
Right now you are probably the only person that is keeping me involved in the diaper community. It is because you are so practical and because you live as a diapered person 24/7 you know what happens – you have been there. Kudos to you!
It’s been a great soggy week for me
This community can be brutal, the only folks that should be “called out” are folks that promote the stereotype that this fetish/lifestyle is associated in anyway to pedophilia, folks that impose their fetish on others without consent, and those who pretend to be someone they are not, like the profiles of “sexy ABDL lesbians” that pop-up on social networking sites, folks that use images they don’t own to trick folks into sending pics/money/whatever. The scene should be totally open to all forms of expression, I’m ostracized for being a transperson quite often by AB/DL’s, and vice versa.
Regardless of what subculture you’re in, insensitive and closeminded people will still be around… haters gonna hate, lets just work towards overcoming our differences and accepting each other, spread the love, we can do it <3
Just to confirm, its not possible to order Bambino diapers in Europe. I placed an order here in Holland through B4NS.com since they normally ship world wide, however my order for a case of Bambino classics was refunded and they sent me a email saying sorry not possible to ship outside US or Canada. Anyways, just wanted you to have the facts in case the subject comes up again. At least we have Tena diapers here which are really great – my favorite is the Maxi. 🙂
Greets and sweets, DL.
I am really excited about the new Teddy’s….Right now I am probably going to have a new home in a couple of weeks, which I am very excited about, and plan on buying the sample of the large. I hope they add the small and x large sizes soon, as I can wear large, the x large are better fitting.
As for the goons of the community, consider the source of the madness…
These folks that threaten to expose you, or harm you or make your life miserable in the community are the people that have the social skills of a buffalo. Wait, I take that back, buffalo are very charismatic, and fun to be around. Anyway, all they have is their anonymity and 0 accountability. Put them face to face, and they will be nice as pie, until they can get back behind their keyboard and then be their tough self again. All in all, these people really don’t matter. In fact, I would be willing to bet that in reality, they are the very things they accuse other people for, as it is said that bully’s pick on the people they fear the most.
Anyway, keep your chin up.
Love the blog,
LOL I know for sure that my shit stinks! Your shit must stink too. Be proud of it ;]
Let’s all unite, we have a quite big group of decent people in here :).
p.s.- Amanda? Did you blocked me on msn? O.o
Please post again
not astonishingly in my rare and random searches in abdl i still stumble over persons like you sites like this – since internet exists …
be assured you are rare amongst all rubbish hanging around in this “scene” and i would rate you (trhu your words and thinking) as wonderfully natural.
be further assured that all of these topics you write about they are legitimate and intellectual and show a big heart with deep thoughts
you are not alone – but not too numerous ;-))
When more people in a group start to come together, each of them brings their own unique viewpoint. So as to your comment about possibly offending people, well, that’s always going to happen. It’s like buying certain types of medicine and it saying “results may vary” on the box. You never know how people are going to react or think but hopefully everyone keeps an open mind, which seems to be the case with most of the people who frequent this site. That is why I enjoy this blog so much, you start the conversation and get us thinking about things then, give us the freedom to express our viewpoint(s). In the end, not everyone will agree with things that you say but that just opens up the opportunity for everyone to see something they might have overlooked when it comes to this community. I do not have incontinence but have learned so much about what goes on in the life of someone who has it. It has made me more humble. Adrian, thank you, and thank you to those who share your unique opinion(s).
On a different note, I frequent this site daily and since there have been few posts lately, (which I completely understand that you have a life outside of this site) those who are checking posts, how about those Boise State Broncos! 😀
Ty for all the great info everyone – this sounds like a great comunity !!
I went to a local drug store that was supposed 2 have a good supply of Adult Diapers not only did they have junk the ppl there dont kno anything about them
-> we should ask Homecare Supplyers 2 carry Bambino Diapers !!
I wanna try Teddy’s sometime but I’m gotta wait a while hopefully B4NS will have them by then since theyre the only place I can get Bambino’s from in Canada atm
In my opinion: if a company sells us an item – then tells us shipping will be delayed cuz theyre stock just ran out – we should get a discount 4 our next order
Good one there about Medical Supply stores carrying Bambinos. If they ever do, would insurance cover them?! Ha!Ha!
it’s been too long. I hope everything is alright. cant wait to read what is coming up next!!
eagerly awaiting your next post and seeing what you have to say about the community