There are a lot of things I do enjoy about wearing diapers but of course there are those things that I would say are “icky” feelings.  One of those that just happens to be waking up in a wet diaper.  Though it does feel nice to wake up wearing a diaper, wearing a wet diaper that has been absolutely soaked gives me this icky feeling and I just want Peter to change me.  He knows that I don’t like the feeling waking up in one so he makes sure to always check when we wake up to see if I am wet and he changes me pronto.  God bless him 🙂

It is kind of ironic you could say because I wear diapers all the time and use them for both forms of incontinence (urinary and bowel) which in itself to most people is unsanitary.  But, I am like the cleanest person you will ever meet.  I wash my hands and use disinfectant all the time and I hate my room being messy and things out of place.  Obviously, those are just a few small examples but I am a neat freak and a clean freak which is probably funny coming from someone that wets and messes her diapers which is probably the ultimate “unclean” thing to most people.  But, to that I have a response!  Urine is actually sterile and basically just water and salt – so its not really dirty (at least that is what I tell my neat freak self)  Poop is very dirty and though I will admit that I enjoy the feeling of a messy diaper sometimes – I prefer not to be in one for more than an hour.  Peter probably does not want me in one for that long either because then I typically get  a diaper rash and he always says I complain about it…I don’t think I do that much but whatever.

Anyways, everyone has their quirks and preferences…I guess waking up in a wet diaper just makes me feel icky, hot, and dirty for some reason that I can’t explain.  But, its such a great feeling to be changed and into a cool fresh diaper.  Anyone else got any quirks or special preferences that you think may be different when it comes to diapers?.

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  1. Miakoda October 7, 2009 at 10:46 am - Reply

    My quirk… I can’t STAND leaks. That makes me feel icky.
    …and I have to be PERFECTLY dry when I go to bed. I change as the LAST thing before bed…. After my teeth, after my contacts, I put the clean diaper on and lay down. I don’t even want a drip in there. Once I’m IN bed, whatever. It’ll hold till morning.

    • Kwan Ming September 16, 2015 at 7:43 pm - Reply

      Dear readers I’ve been wearing diapers almost 24/7,since 2010 and much prefer this rather than wetting the bed at night like you I have problems with incontinence mostly with excess amounts of urine which really can ruin my day.

      In 2010 I was 30yrs old when I decided to take control over my weak bladder and return to being more akind to a toddler, like you I hate that cold wet feeling as well as the unpleasant smells associated with a used diaper, but I haven’t got a choice in the matter because I am reliant on wearing diapers and while many people who don’t know me might wrongly assume that I am part of the so called adult baby crowd, but I can tell you the reason I wear them is all to do with my disabilities and not just for a sexual arousal as that’s Just not my style.

      I recently watched a documentary about adult babies on TV and found it interesting because some of the feelings they expressed are some of my views as well but this doesn’t make me one of them, although any one who is has my full support and understanding for choosing that way of life, for myself I wear them out of nassicarity and not for any other reasons.

      My favourite diaper at the moment has been the new Tena Slip (Super) veriety as it provides me with comfort and security and have saved me from embarrassing situations countless times since making the switch nearly a year ago to them from less absorbent products that simply didn’t work for me.

      I know that I will probably most likely be wearing adult sized diapers for the rest of my life, But I have no problem with that because I don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing them as specially as they are making me a better more healthier person in the process.

      Anyway got to catch up on my sleep as its past midnight at my present time zone in the UK so I will finish up by saying good night and good bie for now.

      Yours sincerely
      Kwan Ming ??.

  2. Miakoda October 7, 2009 at 10:51 am - Reply

    My quirk… I can’t STAND leaks. That makes me feel icky.
    …and I have to be PERFECTLY dry when I go to bed. I change as the LAST thing before bed…. After my teeth, after my contacts, I put the clean diaper on and lay down. I don’t even want a drip in there. Once I’m IN bed, whatever. It’ll hold till morning.

    Waking in a wet diaper, even if it’s a soaked saturated bludging mess, doesn’t bother me as long as it didn’t leak. I’m just happy it’s soggy instead of the bed. Waking up messy is ok. It’s when I wake up with a sick messy diaper, the runs, that makes me feel icky and dirty.

  3. SabrinaC October 7, 2009 at 1:47 pm - Reply

    Gotta agree with Miakoda….LEAKS!!!!!!

  4. Diaperbadboy October 7, 2009 at 2:37 pm - Reply

    I can’t stand messings

  5. Penny October 7, 2009 at 6:36 pm - Reply

    While I can’t really deal with number two, pee has never bothered me. I’ve met a few people who were completely grossed out by it, but it really is no big deal, especially if you drink a lot of water. And, as someone who changes a LOT of wet diapers for a good range of people, I can safely say that it usually just smells like disinfectant anyway, so you don’t even have to worry about odor.

  6. julia October 8, 2009 at 2:42 am - Reply

    I can not stand poopies either. The thing that makes me feel bad when wearing a diapers is when it over flows and leaks. When I need my diapers I empty my blader all at once. Im not sure if thats what you al experiance. However when it happens the diaper does not absorb fast enough and it goes down my legs and over the top of the front.

  7. Nia October 8, 2009 at 8:04 am - Reply

    I also agree with Miakoda. I don’t like leaks. It also bothers me when my diaper gets wet and the bum gets saggy. I am ok until the sag happens then it has to get changed.

  8. Andy October 8, 2009 at 11:43 am - Reply

    For me I don’t mind a messy nappy or a wet nappy, even when it is full to the brim of both. It confirms the fact that the nappy worked and there are no worries. I am not incontinant, I just enjoy wearing nappies, so unfortunately my brain hasn’t yet been able to tell my bladder or bowels that they can release when I am asleep. Unless I wake up half a sleep in the middle of the night I go then change in the morning. So I am still waiting to be able to wake up unknowingly wet or messy. I also have the same problem as Julia, I only wee when my bladder is full but I also have a large bladder, however I am able to control the rate at which I wee so I can slow it down a bit but I would rather not have to and just go and not think about it.

  9. Hugo October 8, 2009 at 12:27 pm - Reply

    Sometimes i prefer waking up in a wet one, beacause that means we are safe in it. But poop? No please!!! I hate, the smell, the feeling, ist’s horrible! Altough i can’t say the samething about piss. I mean, like you said, it’s almost water and salt.
    Well, i do not use diapers for too long because i practice many sports and things like that, and hangin’ with friends with a diaper on it’s not much confortable, besides, if they would notice it they wouldn’t problably just laugh about’it. So i prefer usiong them at home or sometimes at school, when we have those not full days. Some of my friends do know that i have this love for diapers and they are just cool, they’r just the ones that i feel confortable using diapers.

    See you! XXOO

  10. Scotty:) October 8, 2009 at 4:46 pm - Reply

    Yeah, I definitly agree, waking up wet isnt a problem,
    its when try to get up up and it like.. drips till I get to the bathroom.
    But i have all travertine tile floors so:) i guess.
    but for an 18/m its a hassle within itself!! lol.
    Also. I work the graveyard shift in a resturaunt for 10 hours a night, 5 days a week as a server,
    sometimes in my down time ill accidently snooze till our cook wakes me.
    and well.. yeah, but i doubt ill be wearing at work anytime soon,
    all the other servers are unpredictable, always awake and exited girls.
    im not about to do that to myself. lol. :cc
    looks like ill invest in more red bull:u

  11. lilstevie October 9, 2009 at 11:28 am - Reply

    I have to agree with all the responces above. Going to bed feeling all snuggled up securely in a nitey time diaper and waking up in a puddle just sucks. Especially if you`ve just changed the sheets and they smell so fresh and clean. So my pet peeve is leaks.

  12. Diaper Lover October 9, 2009 at 2:43 pm - Reply

    Good article!

    I agree with the many sentiments that LEAKS SUCK!

    I can generally diaper after my morning shower and, if I watch my liquid intake, not re-diaper until the following morning. I guess because since guality diapers are relatively expensive, I want to get the “maximum good” out of one.

    Needless to say, by bedtime my diaper is pretty wet, but it doesn’t really bother me or inhibit my sleep for some reason. I live alone, no spouse or girlfriend, so any odor “under the sheets” has only me to bother. Good diapers chemically neutralize much of the urine smell anyway, so it mostly smells like powder and rash cream. Though there usually is a waft of urine by morning, it is almost soothing to me. Don’t ask me why. I could see how that could be intolerable to a bedmate though.

    I use my morning “poop” as the coup de grâce. I change out of that diaper and take a shower shortly thereafter because poo does cause diaper rash in a hurry!

    I do have to disagree with your comment that “poop is very dirty”. Sure, it can smell bad (if you are eating healthy though, the odor is minimal), but think about what it is; it’s basically the solids extracted from a slurry of what you’ve eaten over the last day or so and some digestive fluids. It can’t be any dirtier than what you ate or drank, right? If it comes out of your body, it had to get in there somehow in the first place! All your “poop” had to go through your mouth first. Just something to think about, disgusting as it may seem.

  13. Hugo October 9, 2009 at 4:21 pm - Reply

    I have to disagree with you Diaper Lover, besides, i am a vegetarian, so, why does my poo smels bad? The food i hate just turns in poop because your stomachal acid do it, so, that acid contains thousands of and thousands of bactaries causing bad odor and stuf like rash. So, that is the why i don’t like poop.

    Stay tuned!

    ps- i am portuguese so my english may be poor

  14. Crinkly October 9, 2009 at 8:20 pm - Reply

    I don’t mind waking up in a wet diaper at all, as long as it’s not leaking. Waking up wet seems the natural way if you wear diapers. It seems a waste if my diaper is dry in the morning. Or if my diaper isn’t wet enough to change by the time I go to bed, I’ll just leave it on, since I can just get up later to finish it off and remove it then if I know it won’t be leak free for the rest of the night.

    Adrian, it surprises me that even though you love wearing diapers that you don’t like waking up wet. Is it only when your diaper is soaked that you don’t like it? What if your diaper is just partially wet, like maybe half way?

  15. william October 9, 2009 at 10:54 pm - Reply

    i use for both as well and like you I dont like being in a wet or messy diaper for too long.

  16. rocker fan October 10, 2009 at 2:43 am - Reply

    iv never had a leaky diaper becouse i dubbel my atends i take a razer blade and i slice a bunch of holes in the botem of it and then the one with the holes in it go’s in to the one that is un cut and then it is dubbel the diaper with less changs it works for me and it all ways has.

  17. rocker fan October 10, 2009 at 2:44 am - Reply

    fell free to e mail me adrien

  18. robert October 10, 2009 at 1:35 pm - Reply

    i wear diapers 2 work i wera diapers 24/7

  19. Cally October 11, 2009 at 2:27 pm - Reply

    Waking up in a wet diaper is something I like too. But do you have any idea how hard it is to pee lying?

  20. Jks16 October 11, 2009 at 9:18 pm - Reply

    Oddly enough I don’t mind waking up in a wet diaper… It is MUCH better than waking up with a cold wet spot on your bed!!! That I don’t like at all. Another thing that really feels ikky to me is when it leaks and it is running down your leg..
    But heaven, for me at least, is getting put into a fresh, dry, clean diaper 🙂

  21. enco October 12, 2009 at 8:58 pm - Reply

    Although wet diapers are ok when they’re warm, cold ones are far less enjoyable so I would agree that an hour to an hour and a half would be it. I LOVE sleeping or waking up in a diaper with a BIG load of poop! I’m not incontinent so don’t go in my sleep, but if I do number one or two in my diaper before bedtime, I usually don’t ‘make it’ until morning.

  22. Charlie October 13, 2009 at 10:04 pm - Reply

    I like waking up in a wet diaper…What I dont like is a cloth backing, Idk, I just subconsciously feel like its going to leak more often, and it doesnt give me the crinkle I like so much…

  23. Bella November 9, 2009 at 6:00 am - Reply

    I understand a lot of what you are all saying, and agree with all of it as far as facts go. Urine is sanitary for the most part, however (correct me if I am wrong please) I believe it is highly acidic (or highly base) which is hard on your skin after a prolonged amount of time. Also, feces is “sanitary” to an extent. When it leaves your bum, certainly. But many things happen when chemicals and compounds come in contact with air. For one, feces is a breeding ground for bacteria. Like Hugo said, even a healthy diet can lead to a foul odor poop. However, the term “healthy diet” is also very variable. I mean, sure, there are certain 100% unhealthy things. But in my experience as an omnivore, I have more solid poops when I eat a lot of meat and protein rich food. My solid poops are less foul then my less-solid ones. When I eat a lot of fruits, vegetables and nuts, certainly that is a “healthy” diet, but also one that both facilitates metabolizing in my body, and alters the consistency of my movement. Think of it this way: odor is actually particles of what it is you are smelling that have broken away into the air. Surface area of the “object” controls how much can break away. So a liquid, or even a soft squishy movement will have more surface area than a nice neat log, and will put off more particles… thus smelling worse. All science aside, I love wet and messy diapers, and often try to make sure I have done both before I go to sleep. I have only gotten diaper rash from spending upwards of 18 hours in a messy diaper. Perhaps I have tough skin.

  24. Bella November 9, 2009 at 6:05 am - Reply

    Also… when I first started, I hated messing myself. It was required by my “carer” however, and I grew to enjoy it, even asking to be changed “a little later” so as to allow time to play in my messy diaper. The smell itself seems there to remind me of my status in the situation. Even if I don’t like the smell, I like what it stands for: my helplessness and need for a carer to take care of me. Though at the point of discomfort, it becomes a fun game to convince the carer of why a diaper change is a great idea! In my case, this has never been denied, but often toyed with. Especially when I ask to stay in it for a while, then soon after change my mind. It is all a part of the game, and as they say… different strokes for different folks. Eat healthy, and love your diapers!!!

  25. Billi November 14, 2009 at 3:39 pm - Reply

    Hi. I just came across this “blog?” and like it very much. This “Waking up in a Wet Diaper” was also enjoyable in reading every one’s thoughts – they were mature and adult responses whether you are incontinent or just plain enjoy wearing a diaper. I am partially incontinent and partially what is called an adult diaper lover. I am Diabetic with some neuropathy damage. When I use a sleep aid I wet the bed – so my wife and I decided it would be best to wear a diaper at night, which I do. When I do wake up in the morning wet I have come to enjoy it as nothing I can change – I am in a sleep state so strong I just go.

  26. diaperdave November 17, 2009 at 9:57 am - Reply

    I too wear cloth diapers 24/7. Every morning when I wake up my diapers are soaked. Thank GOD for adult cloth diapers and plastic pants. Ever since having a stroke in the mid 80’s I have had absolutly no bladder control and little bowl control. Consequently I am in diapers 24/7. You can’t beat the feel of a properly fitting cloth diapers, plastic pants, and Johnsons Baby Powder.

  27. blind dl November 17, 2009 at 4:48 pm - Reply

    Adrian, WHat are your opinions on taking caire, and preventing diaper rash?
    I am a dl who is able to practise this fetish since august.
    WHat should I use.
    Babypowder or a diaper creeme?
    Do you use babypowder or mentol powder for adults?

    Thanks for your thoughts about this.

    Blind dl.


  28. diaperdave November 24, 2009 at 1:02 pm - Reply

    I wake up in a soaked diaper every day. Due to my incontinence I go thru 6 or more cloth diapers every day. I wear double overnite clothdiapers and so far no leaks. For me it would be very uncomfortable not to be well diapered. I would not dare to try to wear anything else.

  29. joe November 26, 2009 at 10:51 am - Reply

    I have been urinary incontinent for over 19 years now and while getting up every morning in a wet diaper did take a little getting use to, wearing a diaper took some time getting use to, I can not stand getting up as if I didn’t have a diaper on at on and the sheets and bed is completely soaked. I have a protected mattress but it isn’t the normal hot plastic, rather one that fits like a regular sheet. My night clothes are wet and I wake up freezing.

  30. Charlie Donahoe December 11, 2009 at 10:52 pm - Reply

    I just started diaperingaa anwent ot bed the other nite with a fresh diaper,
    . I peed during the nite while sleeping on my side.OOPS! ileaked, soiling my sheets and pad. What a mess. I wear plastic pulloms. Any ideas on how to prevent this?

  31. diaperdave December 30, 2009 at 11:47 am - Reply

    Charlie, sounds like what you need is adult cloth diapers with proper fitting plastic pants. After trial and error you will find the right thickness of diapers to use and wetting anything other than your diapers will be a thing of the past.

  32. Monsieur LaPlage January 19, 2010 at 2:50 am - Reply

    To settle the question, approximately one quarter of the mass of human feces is bacteria

  33. Brian July 12, 2010 at 12:46 pm - Reply

    I’ve tried sleeping in a diaper many times. I slept in a pair of fitted briefs one night, but was dry when I woke up.

  34. simon August 18, 2010 at 5:08 am - Reply

    I often wake up with a wet nappy on it beats the many times I have woken in a wet bed. It is also being fair on my wife.

    I suffer from nocturnal enuresis which is why I resorted to wearing nappies. Most leaked which I hated. Only terry nappies and plastic pants seem to do the trick. I really hated the feeling of waking up wet, I somehow felt inadequate and the humiliation of having to wear them.

    Something actually changed all that and that was my wife. She started coming on to me when I was in my nappy. She would feel me through the wetness as we got intimate. The first time I wanted to go and get out of them and clean up before going further but she insisted that I stayed in them. We made love and it was wonderful.

    She helped me to understand that I have a problem that nappies are the sensible solution and that she loves me no matter what.

  35. steven goodwin August 18, 2010 at 11:04 am - Reply

    i wet the bed and i still ware diapers every night

  36. DL4life September 6, 2010 at 12:32 am - Reply

    there’s nothing harder than being 23 and toilet trained, but having to go while standing up/in bed…but theres nothing better than the feel of a fresh diaper :), and i love waking up in a wet one, wear double if you want for sure no leaks

  37. scooterscottii November 13, 2010 at 7:17 pm - Reply

    I cannot wear a diaper without wetting it. I have become obsessed in an exciting and pleasant way. My mommy/wife loves it when she discovers me in my wet diddies because she knows her baby will be good and take care of her too.

  38. percyyannabeth November 28, 2010 at 12:40 am - Reply

    i love diapers, but im always afraid there gonna leak! :O i barly have problems with the front just mostly the side.. and sometimes i cant sleep with my diaper on! i love them, and waking up wet is fine.. i hate pooping tho, i love the feel, and then sitting inin is okay, but when clean up comes around ugh i hate it!

  39. Joe June 24, 2011 at 7:09 am - Reply

    I am not incontinence, however I love wearing diapers especially at night. The diapers I wear a a snug fit and they are the thickest, biggest and most comftorble diapers an adult can get.Because I am not incontinence I owly wet my diaper when I am semi or fully awake. I love the warmth of the piss that surrounds my body and I love the heaviness of a thickly/fully wet diaper. The feeling is so divine that it even helps me to get to sleep. Rash does not seem to effect me as I use a lot of diaper cream and baby powder. As far as poo is concerned, when I poo it feels warm and comforting to have it squished up against my body especially if I am already wet.

  40. Rockhopper October 4, 2011 at 4:13 pm - Reply

    i know diapers are awsome tillyou wet your self in public

  41. Rockhopper October 4, 2011 at 4:13 pm - Reply

    till you in the other story till you has a space in it

  42. Bobbiesue01 April 25, 2012 at 12:57 pm - Reply

    I have worn cloth diapers allmy life 24/7. I’m now 64 and very happy. I wear cloth diapers 95% of the time. I wear pre-folds and at night I wear a pull up diaper that is thic all around so it dose not matter wither I’m on my side when I wet I don’t have leaks. I never know when or were I will go pee or poop it’s just happens. So going out with a diaper bag is a must. I have the greatest wife ever. She is so supportive and has always been there for me no matter what. She has changed me in just about ever way possible back of our car even on the beach one time. So as you can see I’m not like you guys but I do enjoy my diapers very much. Sex in diapers is out of this world and I have 3 kids to prove it.

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  44. Josh June 26, 2012 at 6:10 pm - Reply

    Deeng, i love waking up in a warm wet diapee, its like super comfyy. Even messing my diaper and going back to sleep for a bit is pretty comfyy

    Maybe because im use to Goodnites, i just got 2 cases of bambinos so i guess we’ll see how this plays put.

  45. Kwan Ming September 17, 2015 at 2:12 am - Reply

    Waking up in a cold & wet diaper

    Like you I dislike waking up in a wet diaper but it’s better than waking up in a wet bed as that’s even more embarrassing, I as you know have been an advocate for adult diapers ever since 2010 when I was diagnosed with OBS/weak bladder syndrome.

    I prefer a dry diaper over a wet one any-day and night but know that’s not always possible as specially given my disabilities by disablities I mean life long high functioning autistic spectrum disorder and permanent but minor nerve damage caused by childhood epilepsy and a horse riding accident in 1997 when my horse threw me off his back when I was under instruction during a riding lesson which left me with a damaged or scarded bladder.

    I have been wearing my diapers virtually all the time since 5 years ago and am just about to go on holiday abroud to the far-east for 4 & a half months, but am going to get some diapers on arrival into Hong Kong so that I can visit the tourist attractions without fear of having any embarrassing moments and feeling comfortable at the same time.

    I currently wear the new Tena slip (super) adult diapers which are fabric or cloth backed, but prefer the original or tredional plastic backed ones as they seem to be more absorbent although I accept beggars can’t be choosers and will wear any type of disposable adult sized diaper as long as it keeps me dry and comfy, the reason I wear disposable ones is because I happen to be allergic to certain fabrics and most types of plastic if they contain latex, and have very sensitive skin, even as a child I had these problems.

    I understand the need to wear them all the time and have accepted I will most probably be wearing them for the rest of my life and this doesn’t bother me as it was my choice to return to wearing them in 2010 after I turned 30yrs old, since then I’ve never looked back and will continue to wear them as long as I live, right now I am about to turn 35yrs old on the 21st October 2015.

    Anyway must go as I have to get ready for work soon and I thank everyone for being so supportive of me ever since finding this wonderfull website by accident almost 1yrs ago whilst being bord and trawling through the internet.

    Yours sincerely
    Kwan Ming ??

  46. Mike July 7, 2018 at 11:31 pm - Reply

    I like when I’m wearing a diaper, the comfort, the warmth, the safe feeling. I also like wearing a wet diaper whether during the day or when I’m waking up. I don’t generally pee in one huge amount whether I’m diapered or in underwear using a toilet so I don’t have to deal with the problem of flooding. Leaks depends on how large and where/when. I certainly wouldn’t want it at work but I’m pretty open to anywhere else. As for a messy diaper I have to be in the mood for that. Sometimes I love that squishy feel, other times I don’t want that. Changing into a fresh diaper always feels good too.

    • Mike July 22, 2018 at 10:26 pm - Reply

      I can even sometimes enjoy a cold wet feeling diaper sometimes.
      What I don’t really care for is how often I can enjoy wearing a diaper being I have a roommate who definitely wouldn’t understand. I’d love to be able to go out the door wearing a diaper when I want to and use it instead of a public restroom (speak of yuck, public restrooms are my eeewwwj.
      Also can’t seem to locate someone in my area to enjoy the habit with.

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