Adult babies are simple but complex. We bask in our uniqueness.

Whether you are an adult baby or someone looking to learn about adult babies then this cheat sheet on adult babies should help demystify a few things. As you read this, stay grounded, stay objective and keep an open mind. If you do those things than you will better understand and appreciate what an adult baby or diaper lover is all about.

Behold the Ultimate Cheat Sheet on Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers

Adult Babies Are Not Into Children

This is the first point. I will make this very clear to everyone. Adult babies and diaper lovers have no interest or attachment to children. Period.

What Does ABDL Stand For?

ABDL stands for Adult Baby / Diaper Lover. It is a popular abbreviation to represent the ABDL community as a whole.

What is an Adult Baby?

Adult babies are those that are into the more babyish aspects. Examples include dressing like a baby, eating like a baby, playing like a baby, wearing diapers, etc.

What is a Diaper Lover?

Diaper lovers are those specifically that just love to wear and use diapers. They don’t necessarily enjoy the other adult baby or babyish aspects.

Is Being an Adult Baby or Diaper Lover Harmful?

No. By itself, being an adult baby or diaper lover is in no way harmful to the individual or people around them. Obviously, certain actions an individual takes can change that.

Allowing oneself to be completely engrossed into the ABDL lifestyle can be harmful on social abilities but most ABDL’s live a completely normal life with the adult baby or diaper lover side of them still being a huge part of their lives.

Do I Have to Wear Diapers?

No…you don’t have to – but 99.9% of ABDL’s wear diapers as it is the focal point of the topic of adult babies and diaper lovers.

Where Do You Get Adult Diapers?

BambinoDiapers.com ; XPMedical.com; ABUniverse.com ; Awwsocute.com

You can also buy them from your local grocery store or drug store.

How Many Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers Are There?

Hard to estimate but judging by traffic amongst websites and communities – millions around the world!

Are There Social Gathering for ABDLs?

Yes, all over the country! You will be surprised to find how many adult babies and diaper lovers are just around your one area.

Check Here for Groups:

Fetlife.com

DailyDiapers.com

What is Special About Diapers and Wearing Them?

For many adult babies and diaper lovers this is hard to explain. The feeling of wearing a diaper is indescribable. Between the feeling of security, comfort, look, feel, and dependence. It is also a wave of emotions that brings you back to that feeling of innocence when there weren’t as many stresses in life.

Is there a Sexual Side to Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers?

For some. For some in the ABDL community – it is partly sexual but for MANY – there is nothing sexual about it. They just enjoy the innocence of wearing diapers, using them and/or acting like a baby. It can be relaxing for many.

What Should I Think if I Am A Parent of a Adult Baby or Diaper Lover?

Be understanding. That is what I would tell you. Being understanding of someone that is into the ABDL lifestyle or community is important. Many ABDLs in the community have had bad experiences with “coming out” about their diapers and this can cause far more harm than good.

By accepting your adult baby or diaper lover and supporting them in some way…you are saying…I may or may not fully understand but I Love You and I support you. Obviously, some people are more comfortable with it than others but it is important to try and understand – try to help in whatever way you feel comfortable. This is a much better route to take then trying to forcefully stop them or criticize or put them down.

Will He/She Ever Stop Being an Adult Baby or Diaper Lover?

This question is debatable. But, many ABDLs feel that once you are an ABDL – you will never fully lose it. It will always be some part of you…that depends on how much one embraces it or is allowed to engage in it. That is why it is better to support rather than not. You will get a lot further with someone by supporting rather than putting them down or not being accepting.

Can Diapers Help Relieve Stress?

For many – wearing diapers is a way to relax and relieve yourself of the stress of life occurrences. A way of returning to some level of innocence, comfort and security.

Can It Be Expensive to be an Adult Baby or Diaper Lover?

That depends. At first it may seem expensive but it is all about what you choose to spend your money on. I always advise people to go with Premium Adult Diapers (i.e. BambinoDiapers, Dry 24/7, etc) instead of store brand diapers because they will last you longer and you will not have to worry about leaks as much.

Buying extraneous other things like adult baby clothes and objects like pacifiers and bottles are all reasonably priced. Many can be picked up at a dollar store or places like Wal-Mart such as pacifiers, wipes, bottles, etc.

How Does Changing an Adult Diaper Work?

The same way as a baby diaper! Duh. No difference. There may be a few more tape tabs on certain diapers but no difference.

Cleaning up an adult baby or diaper lover’s “mess” may be a little more of a job but having the right products and tools help to negate this little issue.

Where Do ABDLs Change Their Diapers in Public?

Many change in restroom stalls, family bathrooms, cars, woods, or anywhere else private.

Is It Hard to Change Your Own Adult Diaper?

At first it takes a little getting used to but most people will agree that it becomes very easy the more you do it. Most people master changing their own adult diaper.

Can You Get an Infection From Wearing Adult Diapers?

Many people think you can get an infection from wearing diapers…more specifically a urinary tract infection. For women, this is more common only if you use the diaper for defecation (pooping). For men, it is not as much of a problem.

If you are a female and use the diaper for defecation then my advice would be not to sit in it for hours upon hours. And, also to make sure you or whoever changes you cleans you up really well.

Are Adult Diapers Comfortable?

Yes…most people remark about just how comfortable adult diapers are the first time they wear them.

Will People Notice I Am Wearing a Diaper?

Most people will never know you are wearing a diaper unless you want to show it off for whatever reason. Unless you are wearing tight clothes…people finding out is very unlikely unless you wear tight clothes, short skirt or you bend over and your shirt rides up.

Do Many People Care If They Notice You Wearing an Adult Diaper?

No. I would say in my experience 95% of people don’t care and most people associate it with a medical condition anyway.

Advice For Telling Others About Wearing Diapers

If you are looking to tell another person about your adult baby or diaper lover habits then my advice would be to make it sound like it is not a big deal while also communicating how much it means to you. Sound hard? It isn’t.

You express to them that this is who you are and explain all the reasons it makes you feel good, relaxes you, and the positives it brings you. But, without coming across like some sexually or socially awkward person. It is all about presentation and how you present it to them.

This list will hopefully be continually updated with other “need to know” basic as time goes on and suggestions are made to include. I want this list to serve as a reference for many years to come and hopefully help out all the new and old adult babies and diaper lovers

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89 Comments

  1. Jason March 9, 2014 at 7:12 pm - Reply

    Good advice for anyone who wears diapers for whatever purpose. Like most people who wear diapers, I’ve pooped in my diapers, but I don’t sit in it for very long. I change as soon as I can.

    Unless it’s someone I know I can talk to, I simply don’t mention that I’m wearing a diaper. I change my diaper anywhere that’s private, like a restroom stall that’s big enough to accommodate a wheelchair or a power scooter.

    It can get pricey, but not as bad as some might think. I usually buy two bags of diapers, that’ll usually last a month before I have to buy more diapers.

    • ericklydiaperman2 June 8, 2014 at 9:18 pm - Reply

      Aw, Adrian, it feels soooooooo wonderful to be a fresh, clean diaper, please let me know tour thoughts on this blog.

  2. Spargano March 9, 2014 at 9:04 pm - Reply

    very nice, Adrian! I think it is a good thing to have. Incidentally, for the cost aspect. If one looks at diapers as a hobby, the price is just like any other hobby. Cars, computers, models, shopping, dresses, shoes, etc. Each hobby can cost a lot or a little.

    With the “will it ever leave?” no. I have never heard of it happening. It is an addiction, and one we cannot shake. Nor should we. As addictions go, cigarettes, drugs, piercing (not those within reason), alcohol, etc. are expensive and potentially life threatening. Diapers or baby paraphernalia is one of the safest kinks/hobbies/addictions one could have.

    Maybe you could have on each of your factoids poles(extremes) of both ends for the spectrum so people can tell people “I fall closer to this end of the spectrum”

    Very worthy effort and I wish you luck on it!

    • Jason March 9, 2014 at 10:49 pm - Reply

      I agree. For me, my hobbies include music, movies and travel.

  3. Bambino March 10, 2014 at 10:28 am - Reply

    Very nice post! While I don’t understand the AB thing, it doesn’t bother me either to each their own. I’m more of a DL. So everything you mentioned on the DL side was good! As I mentioned in a previous comment, I just told a neighbor the other day and he was like wow…..never noticed. If you make it no big deal, others will act the same way. It’s not the for front of my life and I have many hobbies but can’t do without them. Yes.. They are comfy..glad I need them I wouldn’t change this about me either.

    • Jason March 10, 2014 at 10:39 am - Reply

      I agree. I’m not into the AB scene. I’ve known people who are, but I’ve never participated in it. I’m sure I would if someone asked me, and I might enjoy it.

      • Bambino March 10, 2014 at 10:54 am - Reply

        Hey….. At least your open to it. Not me or my cup of tea. No harm no foul!:) Although..I’m sure some have thought that of me and said I’d never wear those. They may have preferred a catheter or other options. But as a wearer since child birth I think Adrian is right, 99.9% I’ll remain this way. Once in a while I wish I didn’t have too wear when it’s really hot out and I get sweaty or I’m at the beach and have to make changes. But, now I’ve truly grown to love my diapers and accept this part of me. I would feel naked without them now.

        • Jason March 10, 2014 at 11:11 am - Reply

          I can do it if I had someone to help with it. A daddy. πŸ™‚

          • Bambino March 10, 2014 at 3:17 pm

            Lol…have you been looking? Adrian attached two web sites to visit.:) you can go to a munch. I’ve never been, then you can report back and let us know how that goes. Hey…. There’s another good topic to post about here. Maybe Adrian will write about any experiences with those.

          • Adrian Surley March 10, 2014 at 5:01 pm

            Never been to a munch – they have always fallen on times I couldn’t go or we’re too far.

          • Jason March 10, 2014 at 8:56 pm

            Bambino; If she did leave any websites, I didn’t see any. What’s a “munch”?

  4. Mike S March 11, 2014 at 8:42 am - Reply

    I do consider myself both an AB and DL, but I do not delve too deeply into babyish things. I tend to like the nurturing and caring aspects of being an AB and feel more like an older toddler when diapered in the presence of my wife. She has embraced my diapers as a way to increase our intimacy and bond together and I love being treated like a little boy at times. I have always been attracted to diapers and the attachment formed while I was diapered as a a older child for having too many accidents due to IBS and at night for bedwetting. It just clicked and I developed very strong feelings for diapers. The AB feelings evolved over time and probably started soon after I was out of daytime diapers and felt jealous of the attention and care I noticed other toddlers receiving from their moms. I wanted to be returned to diapers and got my wish numerous times when my mom diapered me for flare ups of my IBS. I was in heaven when put back in diapers. This probably sounds very odd, but this is how I feel and how I got to the point I am at with my ABDL self.

    • Bambino March 11, 2014 at 10:44 am - Reply

      Mike, thanks for sharing! That makes perfect sense and can relate, not odd at all! I also think that’s great your wife has embraced it as well!

      • Mike S March 12, 2014 at 8:44 am - Reply

        Bambino, thank you for the support and it is nice to feel accepted for whom you are inside. I like being treated like a little boy when I am diapered as the ultimate form of submissive and escape from my stressful and demanding adult life. I try to be very balanced in both worlds and not have either impacted by them. It is the best I can do, and I believe my wife’s acceptance is based upon how diapers and being treated like a little boy at times makes me happy and has a positive impact on our relationship and my personality overall.

        • Bambino March 12, 2014 at 9:51 am - Reply

          Your welcome! I think that’s great and I hope that continues to bring you two closer! What special intimacy!

          • Mike S March 14, 2014 at 9:09 am

            It is a very intimate time for us when I am diapered, checked or changed.

  5. dottyorange May 20, 2014 at 4:45 am - Reply

    Hi everyone! I wonder if you can help. As a woman keen to explore every sexual avenue with my boyfriend I had been researching forums watching various different types of porn for inspiration if you like..
    Now after weeks of suspecting I had hit upon something with my boyfriend I did some reading into abnl lifestyles/fantasies etc. But without pushing I wanted him to open up and communicate with me. Trust is so important!
    Today he came out and told me he’d been thinking about and wanted me to ‘look after him’ but he didn’t like to use the expression “like a baby” can anybody identify with this?
    I’ve had no mention of nappies, bottle feeding, dressing up. But this is just the beginning i guess. Although he likes to suckle me which I find really sweet.
    Im really wanting him to be able to explore these thoughts and feelings but I think he’s freaking out a little. Any advice on how to make him feel as ease or how to help him feel okay. He said he feels like a freak. Which I don’t understand. We are all so different. Any personal experiences welcome. Thank you!

    • PuddingPudding June 8, 2014 at 3:42 pm - Reply

      Hello! I think the fact that your boyfriend doesn’t like to use the expression β€œlike a baby”, might be because he feels ashamed. I might have the same problem. I was sooo embarrassed about the fact that I wanted to be treated like a baby or wear diapers… I even saw it as an disease, instead of a fetish. Which is really bad! But I’m finally learning to accept who I am and what I like. So I should suggest that you make your boyfriend very clear that you don’t mind him liking those thoughts and that you want to please him in that way too. And since you say he likes to suckle on you, maybe try a bottle or thumb sucking? What I like myself too is when my boyfriend dresses me up. For example, when I go to bed he sometimes undresses me and puts me in my pajamas’s. πŸ™‚ I hope these little tips help!

    • Skizics August 17, 2014 at 10:46 am - Reply

      You might try one of the websites that try and help parents of adolescents and teens understand and cope with their child’s emerging ABDL tendencies. There are a lot of them but Google should help you narrow down the search.
      From my own experience I can say that I was extremely embarrassed about (Both) my Need to wear diapers (like Adrian I’ve been incontinent since birth) and my Desire to wear diapers. I tolerated and dealt with the former but went to great lengths to keep the latter a secret and it’s my guess that your boyfriend hasn’t a clue about how to express his feelings (even if he isn’t an ABDL). The fact that you are exploring new things in your relationship gives you an opportunity to try something new… Like Babysitting… Just pick a night and become β€œthe girl next door” who’s watching the neighbor’s kid for a few hours while they go out to dinner. Unless you’ve never babysat before the routine hasn’t changed in decades… give him a bath, pin on his night diaper (they called them double diapers in my day), give him a small snack and a glass of water, and read him a story… If he falls right into the routine your boyfriend could very well be an ABDL.
      Hope that helps.

    • NewMommy March 26, 2015 at 10:56 pm - Reply

      Dotty Orange,

      I relate to much of what you said. I met my boyfriend online and at that time he mentioned his interest in ABDL. He had told very few people and gotten mixed responses. He was extremely nervous to engage in any Abdl activities and was even nervous when we discussed it. I would ask him questions based on what he had already mentioned and then take it one step further. For example, you know he likes to suckle (it’s so nice) and that he wants to be taken care of…if you are pretty sure he means ‘like a baby’ then maybe you mention that part as a question. Perhaps having you verbalizing the more embarrassing (vulnerable) aspects of his desires will make it easier for him to discuss. That way all he has to say is yes or no. I found that as my baby and I built trust, he was able to tell me all about it. I think it is important for ABs to feel secure, safe, and in a trusting environment. These are deep seeded feelings that they have most likely never or rarely discussed. I suggest getting all cuddled up and close. Hugs, kisses, suckling, etc. if he feels safe with you being honest will be safer for him. Also, remind him a lot that you care and want to make him happy. Being reminded of your openness to his needs will also help him. ABs need security, reassurance and love…just like real babies. Hope this helps and good luck!

  6. John July 18, 2014 at 2:16 am - Reply

    I really appreciate this written out in the form of a “cheat sheet.” I feel that I fall in line more with the DL side of things, though I have dabbled in the AB side just a smidgen (like sucking on a pacifier or holding a teddy bear). At this point I am looking to inform my current girlfriend as I have hidden this part of myself away from her since we started dating. I feel that she might already have an inkling that I enjoy it as I have worn them for medical reasons before and said something like, “Hey, these aren’t half bad.” I have avoided officially telling her, though, so this helps me organize my thoughts immensely!

    • Jason July 18, 2014 at 9:57 am - Reply

      I agree. I like to think I’m 10% AB and 90% DL. I’m more interested in wearing diapers and using them for their intended purposes than acting like an infant, being treated like an infant, talking like an infant, etc. I’ve never thought of myself as a baby, per se, not even an adult toddler. I’m like a little boy, between the age of 5 and 10 yrs, who still needs diapers because he still wets the bed. πŸ™‚

  7. Grant September 2, 2014 at 1:24 pm - Reply

    I am nervous about some one finding out when buying.

  8. james heinrichs (@adultbaby83) December 9, 2014 at 11:06 am - Reply

    hi I james I have been a adult baby since I was born and I love it I tried to stoping being a adult baby but I couldn’t so I am one forever yes its hard to find a girlfriend but im fine with it this is part of how I am. I wear diapers just about 24/7 and love it I just found a mommy on abdlmatch.com I have been looking for a mommy for about 10 years now I have oneand it makes me feel more like a baby and I love it

    • Jason December 15, 2014 at 7:18 pm - Reply

      I’ll have to check that out for myself. I’m looking for a daddy to change my diapers and to treat me, not like an infant or a toddler, but a little boy who wets himself, and needs to wear diapers. πŸ™‚

      • Tony January 8, 2015 at 1:07 pm - Reply

        Where ya from Jason?

        • Jason January 8, 2015 at 2:23 pm - Reply

          I was born in Seattle, Washington, I grew up in Kirkland, Washington, and I currently live in Gig Harbor, Washington. How about you? Where are you from? πŸ™‚

  9. Kyle Miller January 15, 2015 at 1:50 am - Reply

    I been into diapers since i was around ten, I had a bad bedwetting problem and always got made fun of for it. My family threw me to the side as if i was a outcast due to the issue. As years went by, i slowly progressed into beeing a adult baby.
    I then was more enclosed to myself due to be scared of people. My parents found out about my secrets and didn’t take it so well.
    But as soon as i hit high school i finally made a few friends. (Mainly girls )
    They accepted me for what i do and till this day i enjoy talking to them.
    Im 20 year old male, and my name is Kyle πŸ™‚
    And all i have to say is,its okay to be a adult baby. Because i’m being myself and nothings going to change that.

  10. Darryl February 1, 2015 at 6:35 am - Reply

    I prefer cloth diapers, they are a little pricey to start but you can wash them and they will last for quite some time depending how much you use them. don’t forget the vinyl pants.

    • Jason February 7, 2015 at 7:10 pm - Reply

      I agree. I’d wear cloth diapers and plastic pants if I had someone to help pin them on me.

      • darryl February 9, 2015 at 11:17 am - Reply

        would you like me to pin a thick cloth diaper on you then pull them vinyl panties over it.

        • Jason February 9, 2015 at 11:54 am - Reply

          I’d like that.

          • darryl February 9, 2015 at 12:27 pm

            ok when and where would you like for it to happen?

          • Jason February 9, 2015 at 12:37 pm

            What do you mean?

          • Jason February 9, 2015 at 1:32 pm

            Where do you live? I’m from Tacoma, Washington. And as much as I like to travel, I can’t just pack up and leave and fly across the country.

          • darryl February 9, 2015 at 4:06 pm

            in Kentucky, sorry for sad news.

          • Jason February 9, 2015 at 4:45 pm

            Sorry to disappoint you. If there’s someone who lives in the Seattle/Tacoma area, and wants to meet, I’d be more willing to oblige.

          • Sofia February 9, 2015 at 6:44 pm

            Jason

            You like pin cloth diapers. I cam definitely put one on you if I lived near you.

            πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 9, 2015 at 7:28 pm

            I’d definitely like that. Where do you live, Sofia? I’m from Washington state.

          • darryl February 9, 2015 at 8:43 pm

            hi sofia, I’d like that, I’m in ky..

          • Jason February 9, 2015 at 9:26 pm

            It’s too bad we live so far from each other. It’d be fun to meet in person and hang out, chitchat, walk around town, change our diapers when needed, etc. πŸ™‚

          • darryl February 9, 2015 at 9:39 pm

            it sure would be a blast. hell maybe someday it’ll happen!

          • Jason February 9, 2015 at 9:49 pm

            That’d be fun. Have you visited Seattle, Washington?

          • darryl February 10, 2015 at 6:47 am

            seattle, many years ago when drove truck..

          • Jason February 10, 2015 at 10:51 am

            You drove trucks? Cool. Did you ever wear diapers during your drives?

          • darryl February 10, 2015 at 11:01 am

            sure, why not. been DL ever since I was young.

          • Jason February 10, 2015 at 11:09 am

            I agree. Besides that, when you’re on the road, there aren’t that many places to stop and take a leak. Therefore, why not wear diapers. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 10, 2015 at 12:32 am

            Hey Im going to sleep Jason. Good Night <3 πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 10, 2015 at 12:38 am

            So am I. TTYL. πŸ™‚ <3

          • Sofia February 10, 2015 at 6:18 pm

            Jason

            I haven’t tried diapers when Im in a car on long trips. But it sure is nice staying on the road and not have to stop for restrooms because you have your diaper thats protects you.

            πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 10, 2015 at 7:36 pm

            I agree. The less bathroom breaks one has to take, the better.

          • Sofia February 10, 2015 at 11:55 pm

            Jason

            I don’t live near you, therefore Im far away from the state Washington. Darn πŸ™

          • Jason February 10, 2015 at 11:59 pm

            Oh well. It’s still fun chatting with you. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 12:03 am

            I wish there was a safe way for me and you to meet. I can bring a lot of diapers for me and you so that way no leaks in the car and not have to stop for restrooms. You drive Jason and I provide the diapers and snacks for me and you. LOL!!!!

            πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 12:08 am

            I agree. If you were to visit Seattle for a few days, I might be able to come to visit and we could hang out wearing diapers. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 12:09 am

            Jason

            Aww thats so sweet of you Jason because I really like you, Bryan and Wetnights even though y’all are older guys.

            Its really fun getting your diaper changed by a young woman like me. Right Jason? πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 12:16 am

            I could do that and enjoy it. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 12:19 am

            I’ll make sure you stay comfortable in the car so you can enjoy a long trip without any pee or leaks on your seat. If you need your diaper changed just pull your seat down and I will clean your crotch and put a fresh clean diaper on you. If you get tired, thirsty and hungry no worries Jason I’ll get you a soda and some chicken strips with fries. MMM YUMMY Right?

            πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 12:28 am

            Nighty Night, Sofia. TTYL. <3 πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 12:24 am

            I guess you could use one of my plushy pillows and one of my plushy dolls to make you comfortable in the car too. LOL LOL!!!

            πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 12:33 am

            It’s too bad we live so far from each other. I’d love to diaper you and put you to bed. And you could do the same for me. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 12:26 am

            Ok Im tired so Im going to sleep Jason. Good night. Sweet dreams and be diapered. <3 πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 2:20 pm

            Jason

            Of course I would want you to put me into bed and diaper me up. Only you could put me into bed because I can’t lift heavy things and big guys. πŸ™

            I am thin and petite and theres no way I can pick you you up and put you into bed but I can definitely diaper you up.

            πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 2:27 pm

            I’m like a big teddy bear. I look intimidating at first, but I’m as gentle and sociable as I can be. I’d need someone bigger and stronger than myself to be able to pick me up. Otherwise I’d have to get into bed by myself, which I can do. I can diaper myself, but I’d rather have someone diaper me. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 2:47 pm

            Well I would love to lift you up Jason and put you into bed but I can’t. My arms and my back would break. Ouch πŸ™

            It would be very easy for you to lift me up. I only weigh like 120 lbs. But don’t worry Jason Im not anorexic . Im a healthy young woman at a good weight.

            Would you lift me up like a little princess and put me into bed?

            πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 2:56 pm

            I agree. I’d be way too heavy for you to lift me. I’m not very tall. I’m 5’5″ tall, and I must weigh approx. 230lbs. I could probably lift you easily enough.

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 2:58 pm

            We should also get some baby powder so when finishing showering we put some baby powder on each other and then diaper up. That would feel so babyish. Wouldn’t it Jason? πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 2:59 pm

            I would certainly like that. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia February 11, 2015 at 3:07 pm

            Im going to work Jason. I’ll see you later at night. πŸ™‚

          • Jason February 11, 2015 at 3:19 pm

            Ok. TTYL. πŸ™‚ <3

  11. Sofia February 11, 2015 at 11:57 pm - Reply

    Hey Im going to sleep, good night Jason. Sweet dreams and let me put some baby powder on your crotch and diaper you up. πŸ™‚

    • Jason February 12, 2015 at 12:09 am - Reply

      I’d like that. πŸ™‚

  12. Sofia February 12, 2015 at 12:16 pm - Reply

    Oh and by the way Jason, I only work like 2 to 3 days a week, therefore I have lots of free time which is why Im here a lot. πŸ™‚

    • Jason February 12, 2015 at 12:23 pm - Reply

      I work 4 days a week. A couple days I may work two shifts, resulting in 4 hours of work. πŸ™‚

      • Sofia February 12, 2015 at 12:25 pm - Reply

        You have a lot of free time too Jason?

        • Jason February 12, 2015 at 12:53 pm - Reply

          All together, I work twelve hrs a week. On two of those days I work single two hour shifts, while the other two days, I work two 2 hour shifts.

      • Sofia February 12, 2015 at 12:30 pm - Reply

        I know you’re a DL Jason, but would you like to be a half adult baby if you were with me?

        I think it would be fun. πŸ™‚

      • Sofia February 12, 2015 at 12:38 pm - Reply

        You don’t necessarily need to crawl on the floor in just in a diaper or babbling like a baby to enjoy my version of AB. πŸ™‚

  13. ryan davies April 28, 2015 at 4:14 am - Reply

    eney ab/dl from norwich uk i love my nappys i fit in pammpers size 6 but love my big adult nappys M so can flud and not worry n yer i crnt where when it gets to hot insummer well to swetty lol, but big nappy beer n hoddie at night is the best way

  14. ryan davies April 28, 2015 at 4:20 am - Reply

    im a DL thats now joing the army haha at last eney way the best place to bye adult nappys ia inconsiditcouse.com sos crnt spell put it in google it will come up, i luv my lilly heathcear classics hold so much its unreal n ther Β£8.04 + post but really good prices hoped it helped fealo AB/DL some where love ya all

  15. robby April 29, 2015 at 5:12 am - Reply

    I am 21 and have loved wearing diapers and don’t want to stop wearing diapers ever now but at the same time I feel it’s led to becoming more of the adult baby lifestyle and I don’t know it’s just a feeling I love and want to keep doing it it’s just feels so different sometimes and how to tell someone that I do wear diapers and like them

  16. David June 5, 2015 at 10:13 am - Reply

    Hello.
    i am an ab. My problem is i have 3 real kids and my family is so judgemental. How can i aproach the situation without forcing who i am to my family. Plus i want to explain to my kids but am afraid of having a mental or another detrimentalaffect on them. I want to be able to be open from drinking a bottle of formula to wearing onsies and sucking on a binki. Does anyone have any suggestions

    contiplating coming out or just hiding like i have been that includes using my diapers.

    Confused baby boy
    baby tiger

  17. DL/A June 23, 2015 at 11:00 am - Reply

    im 32 and DL male 6’1″ and muscular build …. im not AB only DL …. thanks for posting im not comfortable with myself so i get online while wearing watching fake videos that turn me on looking for authentic ones that provide somethig i can relate to ….. i feel alone even though my wife is supportive it took her a long time to get use to the idea ….. she doesnt exactly wear with me but doesnt mind me wearing , i cant bring myself to put a diaper on until after my sons bed time , she will lay on a diaper in bed as we are intimate and for good reason but wont tape it up ….. i recently realized i like to wet and thats something new to me but ive not told anyone that …. does anyone have experience with admiting they like to wet and how i could get my wife to wet too ? ? ?

    • Jason June 28, 2015 at 1:56 pm - Reply

      I’m 42 yrs old, and I don’t know whether to consider myself AB, DL, or both. I’m mostly into wearing diapers and using them for their intended purposes. But if I find a daddy who wants me to play baby, then i’m AB and DL.

  18. Jonathan October 31, 2015 at 9:18 pm - Reply

    hey jason im from washington state too and im a daddy πŸ™‚

    • Jason November 17, 2015 at 7:33 am - Reply

      Whereabouts in Washington state do you live? I’m from Gig Harbor.

      • Jonathan December 12, 2015 at 4:27 pm - Reply

        I’m in federal way

        • Incontinent In Seattle December 23, 2015 at 12:50 pm - Reply

          I know where Federal Way is. I live in Gig Harbor. I have some friends who live there.

  19. Bobby J Bauer December 22, 2015 at 5:43 am - Reply

    As long as I can remember I’ve been a DL I would not mind trying a AB part. I had problems using public bathrooms as a kid so I had bladder problems and bowl problems as well I had a hard time holding them in when I was in 1 or2 grade i aalways had yellow or brown spots or marks in my underwearand i was in foster care with my brother we have been in foster care most of are lives I’m 28 now and my DL came in because I was threaten to be put back in diapers if I could not stop haven accidents well not much to say they put me back in diapers and made me us them to there full Potential they even start make me sleep with a bottle of milk I was about 3 at this time fully potty traind but still had those problems any way I had to go to school in my regular underwear and the min I put my foot in the door my foster mom was right there with a diaper my tedy and a bottle of worm milk mixed with Laxatives so I had to poop and it would only take 10 mins in to the bottle and I would poop and pee and I would have to stay in my diaper tell the bottle was gone. When I got older 10 and my teen years I really wonted to be put in diapers and I did what ever I could to put one on if that meant buying them and keeping them at my fort in the woods or stalling them then when I was 12 I had night wetting and my newer fosterparints put me in good nights but they would not hold all the flued I put out so my foster mom took me in to the doctor and they put me in diapers Aegean well as life went on I’ve still cloven my diapers but when I hit 21 I did not expect For what happened to happen I got hurt at work and had to have back sugary and ever scents then I’ve been in and out of diapers ever scents because some how the sugary messed with my bladder and I lose controls of it from myback problome now but I would not give them up I’ve been looking for someone how will help take care of me do to I can’t work now I’m going for ssi hoping to get approved but I live in my truck with my dog and I’ve had to us my diapers for there full us my gf is understanding about the medical point of it but not the other I have not told her yet scents she has five kids of her own and I have a son that I don’t see right now but will solo I hope bit if anyone is looking for a DL to change like a mommy in my age group or even a little AB like a tedy bottle pasofier and good diaper change I am always looking for someone to give me those things and look after me help me and be a good mommy!!

    P.s. sorry for such a long message

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