Today I would like to address this issue of trust in the ABDL community.  There really is a major lack of trust in the community and the problem is that there is a good reason for it.  Its not like people are just not trusting in general most of the time it usually stems from happenings within the community.  I just wish everyone could be a little more trusting sometimes and realize that there are people who are fake and then there are real people.  The real people rarely come out and talk because a lot of times they really just want to talk and not talk about “what diaper are you wearing” type of questions.  They (including myself) enjoy just real talking.

A social life of some sort is very important.  Please people at least give others a legitimate chance to prove to you who they are for not only their consideration but also for your safety so you know who you are talking to.  These are just some of my opinions in this regard and I do like talking about diapers but you can only talk about them so much and then the conversation must fall on something a little different…like “how was your day?” or “did you see that movie last weekend?” – ya know like you are talking to a good friend type of conversation.  Just my thoughts!


By |2007-12-14T20:56:15+00:00December 14th, 2007|Uncategorized|2 Comments


  1. ABKevy - Kevin January 5, 2008 at 11:38 pm - Reply

    Well I must say that was a very intelligent and true post.

    Lots of us out there could take a friendly reminder from this post.

    Having been an ABDL since I was basically no longer a baby, and a member of the ABDL AWARE community since I was 8 years old, I’ve had 12 years to surf the community starting from its infancy, when one could essentially see all ABDL related sites in an afternoon, or day.

    I’ve encountered numerous different types of Impostors, and Frauds.

    AND for a while it made me really upset, discouraged, and paranoid. But now with easy ability to upload pictures, and voice, it definitely makes trusting people a little more easier.

    If anyone likes to chat, with me I am straight, but my yahoo messenger id is: tobeindiapys

    Anyone who might be fairly new to our community, OR Anyone who might have some important questions they’d like to ask someone who can help.

    Feel free to msg me at yahoo, or email me [*best bet for quick response leave me an offline message through Yahoo*]

  2. Outrider January 7, 2008 at 6:13 am - Reply

    I think this was a great post also. That having been said, what is like for you wearing 24/7? Would you object to giving us insight on that?

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