The true benefits of wearing adult diapers are hard to explain and can truly only be realized by actually experiencing wearing a diaper. Not many people can remember the feeling as a child when they use to wear diapers so being able to describe the true feeling of diapers is one of those hard to explain things.

It is a sense of freedom, comfort, security, and relaxation.

Adrian in Diapers in Public

Standing in my backyard in a diaper is one of the most liberating feelings to me even after all these years. Something about the crinkle, the freedom and the comfort that one must realize by only trying it. It is like a peaceful serenity.

There are many benefits to wearing diapers, physically and emotionally, that I think many people would appreciate in general. Obviously, taking that first step and saying you will try a diaper is the hardest part. If you are a spouse, loved one, friend, etc reading this then understand you must not judge. For many adult babies and diaper lovers it is the sense of freedom, comfort and security that helps them to relax. Below are listed some great benefits of wearing adult diapers:

  • Comfort of wearing diapers
  • Helps to relax you
  • Convenience of using a diaper
  • They can be attractive to many people
  • The Crinkle (the sound a diaper makes can only be described as comforting and heavenly to many people)
  • Sense of security and safeness
  • Being different and unique
  • No danger to wearing diapers – completely harmless
  • Of course, there is a sexual aspect but for many this is not the main reason to wear diapers

There are numerous other reasons to wearing diapers that I feel many people cannot fully appreciate until they just put a diaper on. It is like describing what something taste like…you can describe a bunch of things related to it but there is nothing like tasting something in order to fully appreciate it.

I encourage you if you are reading this and have not tried out a diaper and are looking to judge – keep an open-mind and give it a shot. The true benefits are hard to describe but if you can keep an open-mind and give it a try then you may too realize even more benefits than you initially thought to wearing diapers.

Meanwhile, enjoy the diaper picture and I am going go lay out on my back porch in my diaper and enjoy the beautiful summer before it is gone!

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43 Comments

  1. abdl86 August 21, 2015 at 9:16 am - Reply

    What a awesome blog post. Keep up the good study 🙂

    • Kwan Ming September 6, 2015 at 3:14 am - Reply

      Actually I can remember what it felt like to wear diapers when I was a baby/toddler all those years ago in the 1980’s, I also remember in detail alot about my early childhood years.

      My first memories started when I was 18 months old and very much an only child in our family, this was before my younger brother was born he is 5-6 years younger than myself and was born in 1986.

      I wear diapers at night because it gives me the feeling of comfort and security I hadn’t experienced since I was a baby,

      But also because they make me more relaxed and less stressed out and a whole lot less grouchy about the small things in life I can’t control either because of my disabilities or through my day to day life.

      I have also realised how much more dignified and independent my life has become because I don’t have to worry about rushing to the toilet/rest room every time I get the urge and this is as specially true at work where I work in a busy restaurant kitchen as a kitchen porter and can’t leave my post/work station every 5 minuets or so.

      I have to wear diapers because I have a weak bladder and if I didn’t wear them I would have more accidents and that would have a degrading effect on my levels of dignity and would have the effect of holding me back from the things I enjoy most in life, I don’t view wearing diapers as babyish because I wear them 24/7 and so far haven’t turned into a baby/toddler again although the fact is I can see the attraction in doing so if you choose to be honest with yourself and acknowledge that side of your inner personality.

      Any way these are just some of my thoughts on this subject.

      As ever

      Kwan Ming.

      • Kwan Ming June 16, 2017 at 6:16 am - Reply

        Well for me personally speaking I did not have what you would call a good childhood because of being the victim of bullying, no sorry survivor.

        wearing diapers brings back the feel of comfort and innocence that I once had when things were simpler but I also wear them because of my disabilities and over active bladder as mentioned in my earlier blogs.

        I am not ashamed or embarrassed and why should I be to wear them from time to time as it’s s way of managing my problems which are annoyingly intimittant and are getting worse with the passage of time.

        I was 30 when my life changed and I am now nearing 38 this October on the 21st in 4 months 21 days aproximately, although I do enjoy m6 birthdays as they remind me that I am still alive and that’s worth celebrating in it’s own right anyway.

        Like many people on this website I had an early interest in wearing diapers as per my replies but never thought that there would be a day when it would actually happen although this doesn’t mean that I wished or even wanted to be incontinent that’s not something anyone should do, in some way my body made the decision for me.

        I have no regrets about how I choose to live my life and I have no I’ll feelings towards anyone unless they are cowards and bullies, not that I am accusing anyone as that would be something that I wouldn’t do.

        Yours sincerly
        Chinababy888

  2. A.J. August 21, 2015 at 10:06 am - Reply

    I’ve always found that wearing diapers even when I was a kid helped me relax and feel safe and comfortable. I’ve been judged and made fun of so many times I’ve lost count, but I just ignore those individuals. Wearing diapers just makes my life dealing with incontinence so much happier even though others choose to make fun of and judge.

    • Kwan Ming December 18, 2015 at 3:48 am - Reply

      You don’t ever have to feel bad about wearing diapers as it’s non of other peoples business what you wear, personally I don’t worry about what other people have to say about me, it’s my life and I’ll live it the way I choose to.

      I am currently on vacation in the Philippines until January 2016, and have tried many brands of adult diapers recently and I don’t have any issues with that fact as I choose to wear them, next year if I do go on vacation by myself I will try to find a hotel/hostel where I can stay that is children free, I don’t have a problem with them it’s just I like my privacy and if I find somewhere suitable for me then I will make sure that I take plenty of diapers with me at all times.

      I may even bring my teddy-bear with me for comfort as I don’t like being lonely as this depresses me and causes me to become dangerously upset with myself, this stems from years of bullying and abuse from people who I thought where my friends but actually where out to hurt me.

      If your ever in the Philippines let me know if where in the same area at the same time so we can meet up in-person if you want to we could find somewhere private and chat about what we have in common with each-other.

      By the way most if not all of the diapers over-here are plastic-backed but very good quality and I can recommend brands for you if your unsure about what to buy.

      Anyway got to go now as I am late for dinner so I will chat with you later

      Yours sincerely Kwan Ming ??.

  3. Isx2250 August 21, 2015 at 12:57 pm - Reply

    What great blog post. I love it . It so true. Thank you keep this up. I enjoy that .

  4. Shauna August 21, 2015 at 4:37 pm - Reply

    I have loved wearing diapers since I was small. I still love them and wear them as much as possible

  5. Bill August 21, 2015 at 9:47 pm - Reply

    I am not incontinent but I love to wear diapers so I can be wet as often as I want to. I love reading your blog and I have to agree that the feeling of wetting myself is thrilling, sexy, exciting and fun. I regret I had not tried wearing diapers many years ago.

  6. rocket81 August 21, 2015 at 10:50 pm - Reply

    I have always liked diapers from childhood up, but within the past couple years have started to go 24/7, now it’s hard to imagine life not in diapers. I appreciate reading your blog and seeing that there are many of us who enjoy this part of our lives and it doesn’t limit life but enhances it.

  7. Andrew August 24, 2015 at 1:45 pm - Reply

    I want to show my gf this but idk how she’ll take it. I still haven’t told her anything about this

  8. Alex August 24, 2015 at 4:51 pm - Reply

    I love this post. “Freedom, comfort, and security” really are the best parts of being diapered, which for me is in the privacy of my bedroom late at night. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  9. Marcus Lukens August 25, 2015 at 12:13 am - Reply

    GREAT post! I’ve been fighting the ‘stigma’ of wearing adult diapers for years, and much of what you have said is the same as my arguments. Convenience, comfort, security. And there should be NO shame in having to wear diapers, any more than having shame because you need to wear glasses for poor eyesight.

  10. Adam Charles Lewis August 25, 2015 at 2:34 am - Reply

    OOOOH! I LOVE this!!!! I used to walk around in nothing but my diaper in mid-day, during the peak of Tourist season in Manitou Springs, Colorado…..until I moved out…. I did all that from 2009 until 2011

  11. Tommy J. Ray August 25, 2015 at 2:59 am - Reply

    Really awesome blog.

  12. Craig August 25, 2015 at 1:06 pm - Reply

    I want to date a girl that wears diapers but I can’t find the girl that wears them 🙁

    • Bill August 25, 2015 at 8:57 pm - Reply

      I hear ya. They’re out there but it’s not easy to find them. I found one once through a singles magazine. We had hours of pee fun.

      • A.J. September 3, 2015 at 12:35 am - Reply

        When you find on though it’s true bliss! Met my girlfriend back in 2010 she was changing me one night and the thing I never thought she would say was “Would you diaper me?” I was so happy I diapered her right away and she’s never looked back! I wear for incontinence she wears diapers 24/7 for fun, comfort and convenience! We’ve been a diapered couple ever since!

        • Tom Campbell September 4, 2015 at 9:45 am - Reply

          All I can say is WOW. To be so fortunate and not a girl friend or wife that wants nothing to do with the issue, touching you or being a part of your diapers whether for fun or as required. As for me its now a requirement that comes with old age.

        • Bambino September 18, 2015 at 5:46 pm - Reply

          That’s great A.J, I’m happy for you! Most of us would love to find a loving accepting partner!

  13. Thomas August 25, 2015 at 7:11 pm - Reply

    There are male adults wear diapers too.

    • Bill August 25, 2015 at 8:45 pm - Reply

      Right, and I’m one happy customer who does. I am not incontinent but I love to wet myself. So I wear Depends often so I can indulge in my fetish at will.

    • Kwan Ming February 14, 2016 at 7:08 am - Reply

      Your all very correct in saying that diapers aren’t just for babies anymore, but sadly ignorance is still common place in society, I find that I don’t have any problems with people who wear this form of protection as I am one of them myself infact I recently returned from a skiing holiday in Alps d’huez fance and had a wonderful time.

      Whilst out there I discovered that you can buy adult sized diapers from the S.P.A.R supermarket in town although the price was a little bit steep to say the least but maybe one day if I go there on my own I may buy them, I didn’t this time as I was with friends and it would have been embarrassing.

      I did however get the chance to try some adult sized diapers whilst abroud in the Philippines and Hong Kong I’ll review them later on for you so you know what to buy and what to avoid in terms of the over all quality of the products and other factors, most of the diapers in the Philippines and Hong Kong are plastic backed which is no problem as I prefer them but again I’ll review them all in detail at a later date.

      I know from experience it can be very daunting and even embarrassing to find yourself having to go back to wearing diapers because of a health problem or disability and buying them for the first time can be a little bit confusing as there are so many names to choose from as the manufacturer’s don’t always call their products diapers out of fear or reluctance to make people feel babyish for wearing them, but the fact is that you don’t have to be made to become forced into that mentality my advice would be just be yourself and don’t worry about what other people who don’t know you may call you, being the victim of a bully is never a nice thing but if you ignore them and don’t back down they will move onto some one else to bug.

      Also there are thankfully plenty of websites that offer support for people just like you and I who have found wearing diapers a necessity or have choosen to embrace that side of their inner self that has told them to return for what ever personal reasons that person maybe experiencing, as I have seid on countless times I will never judge anyone as specially the disabled as I am one of them it’s also worthwhile mentioning the various charities that also offer support for victims of abuse including from bullying bouth here in the U.K. but also abroud in the U.S.A alot has changed since the 1950’s & 1960’s.

      I was lucky enough to be born in the early 1980’s as per my earlier stories but have also been fighting against bullying for all of my life as I am disabled and have been a and still am a survivor of constant bullying over the years and yes I have issues with this fact but I will never stop being myself and I will never be made to bowwer my head to cowards no matter who they are in society and I will never have any plans to back down on this subject.

      But on to the more positive things in life and that includes wearing diapers and having friends who understand me for who I am and not what I am labelled as, I am very thankful for them for their support and mentoring as it made me strong when I was at my weakest point and made me who I am today, there are good people out there in society just as there are the minority who are bad, life is like a living embodiment of a ying yang symbol one side full of happiness and the other of misery and pain but don’t be swayed by this fact.

      If you embrace the fact you are yourself and nothing will change this then your already the victor and you should be proud of yourself for over comming insurmountable odds and surviving life as it’s not always kind and to accept this is one of your biggest strengths.

      Don’t let the diaper hateres out their get you down they are the ones who are wrong and it will come back to haunt them karma will see to that although one bit of friendly advice is that you shouldn’t judge your enemies or bullies either as hatred is like the embodiment of the dark side in Star-Wars once you start down that path there can be no return so don’t let revengeful thoughts ruin your life.

      Yours sincerely

      Kwan Ming

      • Incontinent Seattle February 14, 2016 at 10:36 am - Reply

        I totally agree, unfortunately. Ignorance is all too common. I know people who if they saw me wearing a diaper, would think I’m crazy, or think there’s something wrong with me. I’ll never understand the negative attitude towards diapers. Not everyone who wears diapers is physically disabled, mentally challenged, nor are they ABs or DLs. Astronauts wear diapers when they embark on their space walks, when they do maintenance on satellites, etc. I’m sure there are other examples of able-bodied, old, young, anywhere in between, who wear diapers, cloth diapers, disposable diapers.

  14. Nila August 25, 2015 at 9:06 pm - Reply

    I totally agree with you. Diapers are way better than adult underwear. Diapers give you the freedom, comfort, Convenience and security of knowing that you can do anything and not have to worry about finding a bathroom. That’s why I am diapered 24/7 and wouldn’t have it any other way.

    • keeth85 February 14, 2016 at 12:24 pm - Reply

      Yes nila I fought the idea for years now I am try24/7 and feels amazing I don’t do adult diapers I’m more into pampers in day and luvs at night

      • chinababe888 May 21, 2016 at 7:33 am - Reply

        Glad you can still git into those keeth85, I personally think that wearing diapers no matter whether there adult sized or baby/toddler isn’t the issue most people are uncomfortable with I have been wearing diapers since 2010, and can tell you there’s still nothing else that gives me the same comfortable feeling.

        The problem is most people are pre-conditioned to learn from an early age that diapers are just for babies and that a person wearing diapers past 2 yrs of age is weird and other nonsense like this.

        The fact is probably anywhere you go that lie or falsehood is systematically told to children and what’s worse is people actually believe it.

        Personally I don’t judge anyone who has had to or choosen to wear diapers, in my-case I choose to surrender myself to a life being diapered because of incontinence problems and my disabilities, as per my earlier stories about the subject.

        I often think that the world would be a better place if everyone was respected for who they are and that choosing to be protected wasn’t a taboo, I also sometimes wish that I could become a baby once again so that I didn’t get so much stigmitizum for wearing them at night/during the day.

        I am in my late 30’s and will become 36 this october in 2016, I feel that wearing nappies/diapers should be up to the person or user to decide for his/herself wether it’s appropriate to do so.

        But I am also against forced diapering of people who don’t want to wear them because lets face it not everyone is like us, laying here in bed whilst wearing diapers makes me more relaxed and less stressed out with life.

        Next year I am moving in to a house of my-own and hopefully I can get a job so I can afford to buy diapers and wear them with pride in the privacy of my own bed-room.

        I also will try to order some vintage adult diapers from ebay.co.uk so that I am well stocked up on supplies.

        Anyway got to go now

        Yours sincerely

        Chinababe 888

  15. Tom Campbell August 26, 2015 at 10:06 am - Reply

    Add age, muscular dystrophy, diabetes and being mostly wheel chair bound, the wearing of cloth diapers or a good disposable almost 24/7 is now a real necessity. No problem coping with the problem however. It all presents definite security whether at home or running errands.

    Tom C

  16. Autism Michelle August 29, 2015 at 11:53 pm - Reply

    Hi Adrian I just started bedwetting at the age of 20 I’m wondering if I should go back to wearing diapers at night I have worn diapers recently when I went to my girlfriends house and I had an accident and her and her mom put me in a diaper for the night it was comfortable and I wanna ask my parents if they can put me back in diapers and can I wear a diaper under a jean denim skirt when I’m at home or friends houses I want it to be easy for whoever is checking my diaper to easily be able to do so

  17. Wetnights September 3, 2015 at 9:16 pm - Reply

    I’ve put up with urge incontinence for five years, but only three years ago did I face it head on and start to use protection. Very absorbent pads during the day (unless I was going to be out and about for a longer time) and can usually rely on them for one good wetting. At night, I’m diapered up in 24/7s that get me thru the night, albeit with a very soaked diaper in the morning. To spice up the experience a little, I’ll often wear women’s bikini panties underneath my diaper which really amplifies my experience! I love to wet. I get a bit randy as a result, but there are ways to relieve that tension! So, here’s to us who enjoy wetting ourselves in diapers and to helping some folks new to wearing diapers feel comfortable.

    • Bill September 3, 2015 at 10:17 pm - Reply

      Great story. I am not incontinent but I just love wetting myself. When I was a teen, I used to unzip my pants, get a stiffy, and let it poke out. To make this easier and more comfortable, I would wear my tightly whites backwards – leaving plenty of room for “expansion”. Then I would pee in short spurts wetting the entire back panel of my undies. I would wank myself into my per soaked undies. Then I would just hang out in the woods by a river until I dried enough to zip up and go home.
      Now as an adult, I have two pair of “play” pants. They are men’s briefs but no fly. They are heavy pink cotton so they show off my wet spot very nicely. Over them I wear a Depends and wet for hours, sometimes waiting until I start leaking before I clean up. By that time my wet spot goes all the way up to the elastic waist band in the front and about half way up the back side too.
      I like to wet more now as an adult than I did as a kid.

  18. Earl September 5, 2015 at 2:29 am - Reply

    I love your post. Everything you mentioned. But I love more of a thick crinkly diaper, or a nice abena, a x plus diaper, for some reason a more bulkier diaper I love the best. They hold more and just feels better. I don’t mind a little bulky diaper under jeans in public sometimes.

    • Patrick September 8, 2015 at 3:11 pm - Reply

      Earl, I’m like you, I’d rather have thick diapers (bambino bellisimos) instead of thin diapers (depends). I like this blog. The thicker diapers can prevent my thigh muscles from rubbing each other.

      • Earl. September 14, 2015 at 6:24 pm - Reply

        I’m in love with my secure x plus diapers right now. They are from total dry protection plus. Bought them on sale Labor Day online. Omg. They are thick. The diaper is so thick I can’t even put my legs together. I waddle a little when I walk. Usually if I buy cheap brand diapers like from Walgreens or cvs. I will double diaper myself. I can’t just wear one diaper if it’s not thick. It doesn’t make me happy.

  19. Bill September 7, 2015 at 4:46 am - Reply

    I had an accident when I was 48 and enjoyed a makeshift diaper for about an hour – I was working and couldn’t make it to the bathroom two floor up. There was thick hand towel near by so I stuffed it into my jockey shorts and slowly let myself pee. At first I was shocked that I did that, but soon enjoyed the wet towel and dry pants (after an hour my trousers where showing my wet condition). About two days later while having lunch at home I came across one of those scandalize talk shows. The theme was about Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers. I felt comfortable about me being a diaper lover…I began wearing diapers diapers when my family were out for the day. I am now 71 and about seven years ago I made the yellow river in out bed…I was having sleep problems. Ever since the following night I have been wearing diapers to bed. My wife has accepted my occasional night time accidents – Yes the doctors I visited sade there was nothing they could do. On some Saturdays I will wear a diaper all day changing my wet diapers when I need. My wife smiles and pats my diapered behind. For the last two months I’ve been diapered 24/7. She smiles.

  20. Josh Ebert September 26, 2015 at 4:18 pm - Reply

    Got a question I started wearing recently at night cause sometimes I bed wet not much but enough for me to feel icky in my boxers. I started wetting maybe nov- Jan and it continues to this day when I put one on I wet as if I was incontinent I feel the pee flow out and cannot control it but when I’m in boxers I can control but now every now and then I drizzle a little in boxers. I have cp which effects my muscles it makes them weak I had it since birth I always had a shorter time able to hold then other ppl but now I’m starting to wet? Could it be that or maybe stress incontinence I’ve been stressed nonstop almost idk just wondering if u know why?

  21. A.J. October 5, 2015 at 1:22 am - Reply

    Thank you!XD

  22. Car Nut Seattle October 12, 2015 at 1:20 pm - Reply

    I have to agree. I don’t have to stop what I’m doing just to run to the head to pee. I can just pee in my diaper and change when I’m able to.

  23. Ponymousse October 19, 2015 at 5:33 am - Reply

    Please continue to evangelize the convenience of diapers! I’m too shy and don’t have a social outlet to do so, but i hope to participate in the future.

    People are stuck on the idea that diapers are purely medical, but outside of that, they’re quite wonderful.

    It’s especially hard for me to tell others about the benefits of diapers because my enthusiasm spawned from a sexual association. It didn’t before as I remember just innocently wanting to wear diapers because they felt good. Now I want to wear them because they feel “GOOD” (and other reasons). And for that I feel a bit ashamed to speak about them in public. Hell, just saying the word without medical or baby context is hard.

  24. keeth85 November 19, 2015 at 11:51 am - Reply

    I agree I have lived with this secret for many years now finding this site gives me relief to no theres others out there in my situation jst the feel n otherwise nowing that I dont have to run to the bathroom is an exciting feeling you are not alone keep wearin them proudly im not 24/7but I sure want to

  25. Magic Medical December 12, 2015 at 4:51 am - Reply

    Adult diapers are largely benefited to the people who have mobility problems who are sick or using handicapped or dementia.
    Apart from old people, disable people and patients, adult briefs are also used by healthy young people at work, where the timings are restricted by the company to attend the nature calls. Also adult briefs are useful at while traveling.

    The main advantage of these adult diapers is disposability.

  26. Randy kelbough July 21, 2016 at 5:10 am - Reply

    Hi Adrian wearing adult diapers has changed my life for the better i was nervous at first but as i got use to them i wouldn’t be with out them they sure have put me at ease and I don’t have to worry when i go out and when I’m at work thank you for all your information i use attends waistband diaper most of the time

  27. Sneezy August 5, 2016 at 2:50 am - Reply

    I have developed urge incontinence following a very acute UTI, and find it convenient to wear a diaper even when at home, since I don’t want my furniture becoming all smelly and stained. I am a large person and struggled getting a good fit until I realized I could wear the product backward. My belly is bigger than my butt, so it made sense to try them backward, and it worked! Regardless of brand or size, I find they all fit me better worn backward. Prevail and Depends are the brands I usually wear.

  28. Sneezy August 5, 2016 at 3:04 am - Reply

    I meant to include that the addition of a bidet to your bathroom stool is an excellent way to maintain good hygiene, especially if diarrhea is ever an issue.

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