You are probably looking at the title of this post and thinking, “Well that is a strange title”.  But, I wanted to discuss a feeling that I think many adult babies and diaper lovers can relate to.  When I have a diaper on, I absolutely love when Peter will come up behind me when I am just standing there or if I am laying down and just pat the seat/bottom of my diaper.  An action that is in essence so simple sends a rush of feelings to my head and I just love it.  I know he likes it when I do it to him too.  I think it is a feeling of security and safeness that makes me like it so much.  But, I will admit I like the crinkle sound when he pats my butt…I know…I’m strange.  But, I know there have got to be other people out there that love that feeling and the crinkle sound it makes when someone pats their diapered butt.

I think there are a lot of small things with diapers that I like.  Of course, there are the big things that I enjoy but I think the small things with diapers are really what make the feeling of wearing diapers even more special to me.  Not many others things can not only relax me but also make me feel happy at the same time.  I mean there are other things of course, but not as many as you would think.  I know, random post, but this was something I got to thinking about and noticed every time it happened and how I felt so I wanted to see if others had the same feeling or had other small things that they really loved about wearing diapers?.

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  1. William January 11, 2010 at 9:43 am - Reply

    I couldnt agree more. With or without diaper still very exciting to pat someone on the butt.

  2. Tommy-ABDL January 11, 2010 at 10:20 am - Reply

    Yes this is something the community can relate to, the act of someone patting your diaper/nappy like that is enjoyable, because it makes you feel cute and innocent, and the crinkle noise adds to it.

    You are not alone in that factor, adult babies love it ^_^

  3. SabrinaC January 11, 2010 at 10:55 am - Reply

    OMG I so no exactly what you mean. When my bf pats my bottom it’s like pushing a button to release feeling of bliss, if only for a second or two.

  4. rebaka staley January 11, 2010 at 5:21 pm - Reply

    my mom pats my butt alot and it does feel good to me and i think she is also checking if im wet.
    hi adrian, love u


  5. Michael (U.K) January 11, 2010 at 8:41 pm - Reply

    I have to agree the feeling of being patted on the bottom is amazing when wearing diaper but without a diaper it is just annoying lol

  6. Nia January 12, 2010 at 8:54 am - Reply

    I think that is one of the most relaxing things in the world. The other thing I like is when my SO checks my diaper by pulling the back waist band out.

  7. Jks16 January 12, 2010 at 11:50 am - Reply

    I live alone, so i have never been padded on the bottom… but i can image it being absolutely wonderful beyond words. You really got me thinking, and there really are a million wonderful little tiny things about diapers that add up. Too many to talk about in one comment. : ) you gave me a great subject to write about on my blog : ) thank you

  8. DJ January 12, 2010 at 1:56 pm - Reply

    I completely agree! Its awesome, and my little brudder absolutely loves it hehe.

  9. Anne January 12, 2010 at 2:00 pm - Reply

    Hi Adrian – Hey, I see a link at the end of this post for “Satisfaction of a Messy Diaper”, but the post is not all there. Can you re-post that? It was originally posted last June or july, I think. Thanks!! Anne

  10. iyo January 13, 2010 at 12:26 am - Reply

    I agree there are so many little things about diapers that add up to a wonderful experience. I too love to be patted on the butt while wearing one. I love the crinkling noises it makes when that happens and when I move, and love the constant awareness/reminder of not wearing pants. Keep up the great posts!

  11. Nick January 13, 2010 at 1:26 pm - Reply

    Oh my gosh, I love that feeling. Makes me feel so naughty! And if you’re living alone, you can just pat yourself.. it’s not the same but it still feels pretty good.

  12. Akbound January 14, 2010 at 3:16 am - Reply

    I whole heartedly agree. I have always loved it when my wife pats my diapered tush when we lay in bed and I love it even more if she just pats it while we are out walking or in the store. It really is just so calming and relaxing to have her just rub the seat and pat it from time to time.

  13. Bill January 15, 2010 at 3:12 am - Reply

    Oh how much I agree with Adrian and all of the comments expressed here. My wife read the article and ever since she has been patting my diapered butt more often. We agree that it not only comforts me, but in my wife’s way it is a reinforcement in accepting and support of my need in diaper wearing at night.

  14. Moses January 15, 2010 at 10:31 pm - Reply

    I totally love the sound of the diaper period. Crinkle noises just makes me wanna squeal. Personally I haven’t had someone pat my diapered bottom because there isn’t many who know I wear. But I have had some horseplay with friend who will pat my butt and it totally is a rush and also it’s a rush to quickly find an excuse why your butt felt all padded. HAHAH!

    Have a happy new year!

  15. MR R January 16, 2010 at 11:29 am - Reply

    I completely agree with this post. I am a DL, and my wife is ok, but not completely involved in it. I can’t tell you how I love to just be patted softly as well. It’s an indescribable, comforting, assuring feeling that I can’t get enough of.

  16. Logan January 17, 2010 at 11:04 pm - Reply

    i love it!! i can remember when i was little, mom would rock me and pat me on the butt. she had this particular rhythm she’d use.

  17. Todd January 19, 2010 at 1:14 am - Reply

    Ah yes there’s nothing like a pat on the butt especially diapered butt to feel good. Hopefully someday I’ll get to enjoy it with my future lovely lady like you and your man get to.

  18. shydiaper January 19, 2010 at 3:17 am - Reply

    Couldn’t agree more! Unfortunately I don’t have someone to pat my diapered behind, but when I’m lying in bed, I love to just pat it myself to feel the padding and hear the crinkling. Love it!

  19. johnny January 21, 2010 at 5:47 pm - Reply

    don’t think you are weird at all. there are a good number of us that share your love of being patted on the behind while diapered and the crinkle noise that it makes. it certainly is the little things about wearing that are the best parts. 🙂

  20. Amanda January 22, 2010 at 5:52 pm - Reply

    One of the best posts

    Rebeka–care to talk?

  21. vinsdidee January 24, 2010 at 11:58 am - Reply

    Seems to be something we all love! I love for my wife to “Pat the Booty” when i’m diapered,for all the same reasons listed. I’m sure there are a few of us that also enjoy a good ‘swat’ on a diapered butt, you know, for being naughty. And spankings?, for some, total bliss. (when diapered of course!)

  22. Bryan January 26, 2010 at 8:10 pm - Reply

    <3 it is a great feeling, so simple

  23. betty nass March 26, 2010 at 6:35 pm - Reply

    mm love having my but patted lol depends tho on what im wearing lol oh what shall it be ?hmmmmm depends /pullups cloth n plastick pantys ? lo anyone who wants add me on yahoo to chat betty_nass i have a ds acount to

  24. DeucinDydee June 5, 2010 at 4:13 am - Reply

    I just love droppin a deuce in my dydee while I’m wearing Desitin. But always keep an extra wipe on hand. It gets messy. Then I love when my significant other, Big Daddy Deuce Dobber, pats it in. We have such fun together. We were made for each other. We skip through fields of flowers that smell like Summer’s Eve douches. We even shop for Fleet’s & Febreze together.

  25. bigbabyneedsamommy March 26, 2011 at 11:33 pm - Reply

    i will have to agree with all of you but since i am older now and have never found that mommy /wife parner as of yet , i can only live on your lives , thank you for leeting me know how it is, if ever any mommy is out there , please let me know , on yahoo as bigbabyneedsamommy, thank you all

  26. Abg34 February 6, 2012 at 9:10 pm - Reply

    I agree 100%. Love the feeling of having my diapered butt patted. Soothing yet babyish. Speciallyvwhen being held

  27. Dennis August 6, 2018 at 1:18 am - Reply

    Does he also wear a diaper?

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