My opinion of people who wear diapers and are not incontinent is not negative at all.  Just because I am incontinent does not mean I don’t enjoy the same thing about wearing diapers as the rest of the community.  While, I came to love diapers probably in a different way than most of you as I grew up wearing them while many other ABDLs stumbled upon them or somehow found a love for wearing diapers.  While, I don’t regard my love for diapers as “fetish” because I do not focus on them or see them as a sexual object or in a sexual way.  I see it as more of enjoyment, fun, comfort, security, and also a little bit of fashion!  But, I recognize many people in the community do not see it like this solely and do see it in a more sexual way or in other ways.  I am a very free and open person and I do not judge others.  My opinion of people who wear diapers that don’t need them is that I am happy for you and glad you found something that makes you feel good, so long as you are not hurting anyone else.  I am a big believer in not letting diapers or any other “fetish” or what not cause a major hindrance on your social life.

I have a strong connection to the ABDL community and I find us very different from other communities.  This adult baby and diaper lover community is different kind of community because it doesn’t completely center around sexual connotations and ideas.  Many people who wear diapers are just doing it for the comfort, security, sounds, etc.  This is a far-cry from many other “fetish” or communities in my opinion because they focus more on the sexual side while the ABDL community does not focus on that as much.  Which, in my opinion makes us special and an outlier among all the communities.  I am honestly proud to be part of the ABDL community and to meet so many wonderful people.  And because I am feeling good – I included a recent photo below!

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  1. Ryan June 26, 2009 at 7:22 pm - Reply

    I was under the impression that the “ABDL” term was always associated with sexual fetishes. As i agree with the post, i don’t think the “ABDL” community necessarily includes the people that wear just for a “childhood-comfort-nostalgia-relaxation”. I thought the definition for a Diaper Lover is someone that has a sexual need for diapers, or see it as a sex object. I guess you ARE in the “ABDL” crowd, but your baby side is pretty mild, and don’t have any sexual need to wear. Still, i bet tons of people in the community envy your condition. Keep up the good work

  2. Mark June 26, 2009 at 9:24 pm - Reply

    Great Blog you got here, The way i found i was interested in nappies/Diapers i was in a bicycle accident Car Vs Bike never goes well and i was in hospital for couple weeks and refused to catheter and the only other option was nappies/diapers so i choice that i had a damaged my spine not broken it or anything i can still walk but because it was so bruised i had to wear them because i was temporally disabled since then I have worn every couple of days for fun nothing sexual

  3. Anne June 26, 2009 at 9:32 pm - Reply

    Would love to see the backside of this picture – with an obvious poopy-bulge there. 😉

  4. wonderboy June 26, 2009 at 11:46 pm - Reply

    im kind of a lurker, and my question is out of the blue. but. do you ever take pictures that include your face?

  5. C Eagle June 27, 2009 at 1:03 am - Reply

    looking cute, glad you decided to keep posting pics, there aren’t that many people that look good like yourself and post pics also,

  6. Andy June 27, 2009 at 5:16 am - Reply

    I think you are right Adrian, diaper lovers are people who enjoy diapers for the comfort and the feel etc which is different to fetish who are people that enjoy for their sexual reasons. I am a 100% diaper lover and enjoy just wearing and using them. I say fair play to the fetish lovers, go for it, its just not my cup of tea.

    Adrian, when you post a picture onto a subject could you also put your picture into your photography section as well. It makes it a bit difficult to find the photo if I want to re visit? Thanks

  7. Herbiec June 27, 2009 at 10:37 am - Reply

    I am happily diapered 24/7 and have been since 1982. I had some “issues” back then that caused me to start wearing diapers full time. I enjoy my thick wet cloth diapers and occasionally get to enjoy a messy one.
    I have to wonder how many people would be more relaxed if they started to wear diapers.
    It should not matter the reason one wears diapers after all it is a personal choice unless a person is incontinent and has to.
    Keep up the great work and give us MORE PICTURES!!

  8. Mark June 27, 2009 at 10:51 am - Reply

    Thanks for your words, Adrian. Good people like you are what makes being in this community worthwhile =] Hopefully many more people like yourself will pop up and give the AB/DL community a better rep.

    I feel bad that the community has such a bad rap despite the fact that it’s not outright sexual in any way. Perhaps that would be a good thing to blog about? I dunno, I’d just like to year your voice on the matter.

    Thanks for the *tasteful* pictures, too. That shows class.

  9. Amanda June 27, 2009 at 11:21 am - Reply

    i’m not incontinent but i don’t wear them for sexual plewp_e. More for just comfort.

  10. SabrinaC June 27, 2009 at 6:01 pm - Reply

    I believe that Ryan is confused…ABDL in the way I have always been taught is viewed as Adult Baby & Diaper Lover not Adult Baby Diaper Lover. The ABDL community is made up of both groups of people.

  11. Tommy June 27, 2009 at 6:23 pm - Reply

    You answered my question! =D

    As I said, your blogs are inspiring and I enjoy reading them, I love nappies for the comfort and joy they bring, its nice to hear your opinions about people like me.

    So thank you very much for answering my question, I love the new piccie, you look so cute in a Bambino, keep on rocking, in the ABDL community, you will always be awesome ^_^


  12. David M. Walters July 1, 2009 at 1:35 pm - Reply

    I want to just weigh in on this, there are two kinds of DL/AB’s and maybe a third of those who have fascination with it. Those who love all things diapers including (using them) is absolutely fine with me. Sometimes we have to back to our roots. (When our moms put us in diapers because it was the right thing to do.)

    Enjoying diapers for sexual plewp_e is a destructive tool that it ends up hurting a relationship. Some may disagree with me and say that such activities help to strengthen a relationship when both participants have the same goals. As for me, I simply enjoy wearing them. The third group who are not yet sure what side of the fence they are on. There are even some people I have spoken with say they are afraid to expose the secret of “Liking diaper”s one way or another. If you have a fear, tell someone. We are to help one another within and outside the AB/DL community to help the issue to be acceptable amongst society as a whole.

  13. Jks16 July 2, 2009 at 9:56 am - Reply

    I just want to say, again, I really enjoy hearing your stories. You have a great outlook in life. Keep up the good posts… I look forward to reading them.

  14. Missy July 5, 2009 at 4:36 am - Reply

    There still are large groups of perverted/depraved ABDLs though. Like the retards who spam bedwetting or incontinence forums. Plenty of perverts wallow in the unmoderated forums where everything they say tends to BE sexual lies and fantasies. The good communities have to fortify themselves against them

  15. darren wilson July 7, 2009 at 8:23 am - Reply

    i wear nappies/diapers for fun i love your web site

  16. Glenn Charles July 29, 2009 at 11:12 am - Reply

    Dear Adrian and Peter,

    For the record I’d like to say “Thank You Very Much!” for your frequent postings and photos which display a genuinely wonderful attitude so neccessary for the welfare of all for whom these websites are created to serve. There is a dearth of poorly presented AB/DL postings on these websites trending towards chaotic thought processes, negativity from low self-esteem and poor self-expression, commonly utilizing poor grammer, which tend to water down the neccessary support for which many of us frequent these resources. Your forum postings and blog compostions though the years continue to consistently contribute to the overall wealth of positive information and emotional support so neccessary for many of us here in order to create lives of general well-being and self-worth which in concert are building a wonderful AB/DL community. A community of which I am personally proud to be part of!

    Thank you both for being a friend…

  17. Danny Lucas August 2, 2009 at 12:42 pm - Reply

    I am diaper lover with a little bit of adult babyness. I am not incontinent and I wouldn’t want to be. Although wetting a diaper is very plewp_able the hassle of having to wear diapers all the time and looking for discrete places to change them would get tiring after awhile. I would like it if I could make myself incontinent for a specified time. For example I am going to be incontinent for 7 days and nights, or I am going to wet my bed tonight and not wake up or remember doing it. I don’t think most ABDL would like being incontinent ALL the time—for the rest of their lives.

    I really like your picture and what you wrote. Thank you, Danny is wet now.

  18. Jason November 30, 2009 at 12:28 am - Reply

    Not everyone who wears diapers are incontinent, and not everyone who likes diapers are Adult Babies or Diaper Lovers. It’s difficult to put a catagory on these kind of diaper wearers.

  19. Luke DJ Trance July 27, 2010 at 8:05 pm - Reply

    I just wanted to point out, how wonderful your blog is. To sum up for Ryan: I have been wearing diapers since 4 years old I think. I say this to all people about my likings for wearing diapers. “The internet wasnt around when I was 4, so that eliminates me “gaining a fetish” from the web”. You dont have sexual tendecies when your 4 years old, it just doesnt happen. Anyways to quote adrian, yes I am the same way. I wear them for comfort, and its fun to be comfy 🙂 People like myself, and others who wear diapers for comfort, are obviouslly needing that attachment in their life they never had, or cannot get somehow. Our type of diaper wearers usually are outgoing, and hold a large social norm. I absolutely hate it when people hear about me and diapers, and they automatically think “fetish” or “sexual kink”. Again this goes back to what I mentioned earlier in this message about being 4 years old. I was told I was adopted,and the fact that I still cant find my biological mom may be a contribution to my diaper comfort. The fact of the matter is my whole “adoptive” family hates me, and abandoned me over the whole diaper thing. One day I will find a pretty girl, and be able to walk around in diapers at our house while we watch TV. One more thing before I end this is that, I dont know if anyone else gets this when wearing diapers, but sometimes I get a weak adrenaline rush type feeling in my lower stomach or something. I guess diapers are an aphrodisiac as well lol.

  20. jerry lynn rickey August 7, 2010 at 12:54 am - Reply

    im incontinent to and i love my diaper im a adult baby to

  21. TeeDee84 August 26, 2010 at 12:34 pm - Reply

    Just wondering..what is your opinion of those non-incos who wear 24/7 and seek to become so?

  22. dan December 3, 2010 at 12:10 am - Reply

    yeah i dont get the fetish of the diaper lover thing cause i just like wearing them and they are great but buying them is an issue for many people and annoys me cause my supplier moved outa town but ill find a way id like some suggestions as well and i think there sjould be a diffrent class for people who dont do a fetish side to diapers

  23. John February 1, 2011 at 1:49 am - Reply

    I love the way these look and feel there is just nothing like these secure X-plus
    and bambino classico I must say nice diaper shot looks real cute.

  24. Leann February 20, 2011 at 11:19 pm - Reply

    I am not, by any means, incontinent, but I do enjoy wearing diapers for the security, comfort and I also find that they are a stress release for me. Diapers are actually very resourceful to me when it comes to having my monthly periods. I don’t want to gross anyone out here, but before I started wearing, I would always get stains on my underwear and occasionally waking up with stains on my bedsheets. Diapers, of course, don’t do that and I just love the crinkling sound that they make. Makes me really wonder as to why I didn’t start wearing earlier.

  25. UncleTeo April 13, 2011 at 4:24 pm - Reply

    I am also bladder incontinent, and I like diapers too because of it. A lifetime of wetting myself has developed into a pee fetish, so for me it’s not so much about the diapers, though they are helpful and very comfortable, but about the the pee. I just LOVE that I can’t help pissing on myself.

  26. michael April 16, 2011 at 9:07 am - Reply

    i must weart diapers,due to a disability from the navy.i get all my diapers sent to me by the case.but before they started sending them to me i hads to either buy them or haul this case of diapers through my building where i live. i will need diapers for the rest of my life that is who i am.if others think it is funny that is their problem not mine.i get more understanding from a child that sees the package in my wheel chair basketinstead of teasing me try and help me change myself once in awhile..have a great day ppl cya later

  27. Justo May 17, 2011 at 4:32 am - Reply

    I for some reason acquired this thing of always wanting to try and wear a diaper, i never had the guts to wear one but today and yesterday i was thinking about a free sample. I remembered my GP had them free for mothers in the toilets for babies, amazingly they fit since i have a small waste, the tapes were to short but i used a bit more tape. I was trying to forget this feeling about waiting to try them cause I thought negatively about it, I tried one and found it comfortable and sometimes I do occasionally find I did wet the bed (I find I sleep through most times) once on Friday night after having drinks at the pub, although I wasn’t drunk I must of slept through. I have come to accept this and ordered a free sample of proper ones. I dnt think I want to wet them yet.

  28. Austin August 28, 2011 at 1:37 am - Reply

    It’s kind of ignorant of others to think that a fetish for diapers is, and I quote, a “destructive tool.” I have a fetish for diapers, and I don’t think this would destroy a relationship, unless it was the only way I could have a healthy sex life, and I’m certain that this would never be the case. If I were to tell any future spouses about my fetish, I would not impose it upon them that it’s diapers or nothing; I would just want them to know this side of me that I think has influenced my personality to some degree, which is what I believe. If they want to get into it so they can help me feel good, then great. Go for it. But otherwise, it’s their choice, and I must respect it.

    So please, don’t label us as individuals who cannot have relationships with non-DL men/women. I hate to point this out because I like to keep AB/DLs a harmonious group of people with the same interests and goals regarding this lifestyle. But I will not be viewed as a negative influence on relationships due to something I cannot help.

  29. Rachel October 24, 2011 at 2:46 am - Reply

    Hi Adrian–newbie here (not to mention a DL who’s slowly venturing into the AB side):

    If I were not incontinent due to cerebral palsy, I doubt I could be as brave about wearing diapers as some of the non-incontinent folks here. That medical excuse is a great confidence booster, and without it, I’m faced with awkward explanations to certain people, like the home-health aides who take care of my needs every day. I rather imagine a scenario like this:

    “That’s strange, there’s nothing in our records that says you’re incontinent….what are the diapers for?”
    “Uh, well….you see….that is….”

    I *could* hide them, of course, but since the aides clean my apartment in addition to assisting me with showering and dressing, they would run across them eventually. (I can’t do the one thing I’ve wanted to do desperately for years–get a pacifier–for the same reason).

    So the medical excuse is, for me, a lifesaver–*that* most folks can understand. They would not, most likely, take as kindly to hearing that I actually *enjoy* weraring them.

    I actually live in fear that my doctor will strong-arm me into taking medication for my incontinence, thereby robbing me of my medical excuse, and relegating me to only wearing diapers behind closed doors, with the shades drawn….

  30. Andy November 5, 2011 at 1:00 am - Reply

    Hi, I’m also a non-incontinent diaper wearer. I’ve been into wearing diapers in some form or other since puberty. Until I could buy them for myself, I had to use stand-ins like my mother’s maxi pads. I, like many of the other commenters, wear to help comfort myself, I stress out easily and wearing diapers does help. As to Rachel’s potential problem, all I can say is that you have the RIGHT to refuse to take any medication that you don’t want to take and if your doctor tries to strong-arm or intimidate you into taking them, it is time to find a different doctor.

  31. dunko April 17, 2012 at 7:05 am - Reply

    Hello – I do not have to wear diapers but I do wear them. I do not class myself as an AB or a DL. I wear them because they make me feel safe and secure. In real life I am an senior IT executive and I find diapers help me de-stress. I use them for their intended purpose and I wear them most of the time I am not at work. Sometimes I wear them to work as well. They are not a fetish nor a necessity – they just make me feel better. I am not even sure I understand why I like them but I know they make me feel better when I have them on. No one but me knows I wear them. I once gave a speech in front of 500 people at a conference and I was wearing a diaper under my suit. No one knew.

  32. david June 8, 2012 at 7:42 pm - Reply

    wow you are soo sexy in diapers 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

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