One of the best experiences an adult baby can have is having their diaper checked in my opinion. There is something very “babyish” about the famous diaper check. It is one of the ultimate signs of dependence that someone else has to check your diaper to see whether it is wet or messy.

Peter always enjoyed the aspect of me checking his diaper. Me, I like it but not like he does. He tried to explain why he liked it and had a hard time putting it into words. I had the same problem so I figured maybe if I tried typing it out the words would come to me and I would be able to better explain the enjoyment in having your diaper checked by another.

Checking Adult Diaper

Checking Peter’s Diaper

Adult babies and diaper lovers are always in my opinion looking for that next thing or that special thing that will take them back to babyhood. For some, that is a babyish print on an adult diaper or crawling around in a thick diaper. Some people enjoy sucking on a pacifier or bottle while others it does nothing for. It is whatever your brain is wired to do in regards to feeling that babyish feeling. For others, including myself and Peter – it is having your diaper checked. Peter always loved when I would come up behind him and pull back his diaper and check him. It brought out the babyish side in him. Which if you knew Peter, you would know that its hard to bring the babyish aspect out in him but checking his diaper will do it.

My other guess why having your diaper checked is so attractive is because it brings on feelings of dependence. Dependence is usually a comforting feeling in general and basically using your diaper for what it is supposed to be used for and then having someone check you puts you in a very dependent mode. I believe that for many people that feeling of comfort and dependence is a huge part of why having your diaper checked feels so good. It is calming and relaxing to many people.

Maybe I didn’t do the best job of explaining it but I am sure others can relate to the difficulty and probably do a better job of explaining why they enjoy having their diaper checked. If you don’t mind explaining I would love to hear people’s experience with this.

By | 2017-07-17T21:42:05+00:00 February 19th, 2014|Uncategorized|14 Comments


  1. Bob J February 19, 2014 at 5:55 pm - Reply

    Thanks for all the info on this incontinence stuff, i would have never thought, just a guy that needs to deal with day to day, due to cancer, but life is good still, just getting my head around being single and wanting to date, yup Yikes. thanks for the in-put, Rob

  2. Earl B February 19, 2014 at 6:29 pm - Reply

    When I was dating my EX-GF and we both rented an apartment. Lived together. She was ok with me being a DL and had rules I had to follow. I’m not a AB but every now and then she would act like my mommie. I remember getting diaper checked sometimes without me telling her to. I think she was curious sometimes to see if boyfriend did really make a mess or pee pee in his diaper just because I’m standing in front of her she might as well do a quick check before she moved around me. Something about that I just like. Having to stop and getting your whole diaper checked out while wearing it before going back to doing what I was doing before by my Ex. I just loved that. It’s so comforting. Or sometimes. I be sleeping waking up cause she be rubbing her hands between my thick disposable diaper to check if it’s wet. What a way to start your day waking up. Relaxing and it just feels like I’m so innocent and helpless and she’s there if I needed any assistant weather it be diapering, changing, diaper checking, even shopping. It’s just mind blowing to me if you have a partner that’s willing to embrace and participate, loves you, etc.

  3. babygary36 February 19, 2014 at 7:32 pm - Reply

    I enjoy having my diaper checked because it makes me feel like a baby and powerless which is a great feeling for me. I love when my ex gf would check my diaper because she loved doing it almost as much as i did.

  4. Mikeabdl February 20, 2014 at 6:57 am - Reply

    I love having my diapers checked by my wife/mommy because it makes me feel so vulnerable and babyish knowing that she is thinking I went potty in my pants. I love the lead up to my diaper checks as a precursor to the ultimate feeling of dependency and intimacy with my diaper change. We love to play cat and mouse where my mommy will ask me if my diaper is wet or messy knowing full well the answer but wanting me to feel little. Having my diaper checked after being asked is her way of exhibiting complete control and initiating our intimate bond of mother child diapering. As an ABDL, I have grown to cherish my diaper time with my wife and diaper checks and changes are the pinnacle of being diapered for me.

  5. Mikeabdl February 21, 2014 at 9:59 am - Reply

    My wife has various diaper checking techniques she likes to use on me to make this moment more intimate for us. She will sometimes come up behind me and check my diapers by pulling them back and looking inside which makes me feel so little. She usually does this when she suspects or knows I am messy. She also likes to check my diaper by feeling my crotch for the level of wetness and usually gets a visual on how swollen my diapers have become from multiple wettings. My favorite is when she asks me in her motherly tone and makes me feel a little embarrassed about going potty in my diapers. I usually deny it and wait until she physically inspects my diapers to confirm her suspicions. By this time, I am feeling incredibly little and a almost naughty.

  6. babyginagirl February 22, 2014 at 1:53 pm - Reply

    I have been getting diapered again since I was about 9 years old.It all started because I was soaking my bed and PJ’s,almost every night agian while sleeping.My mommy couldn’t keep up with all the laundry.So one night after my bubble bath I was diapered again into PAMPERS.She then told me I would be diapered EVERY night before bed,until I could learn to stay dry.My mommy that first night and every night after,would wake up during the middle of the night,and remove my blankets and sheet,while telling me and shhhhhing me.She was just checking to see if I needed to be changed.She would roll me over on my back,if I wasn’t already on my back.She would then slip a couple fingers into the crotch area of my PAMPER,and if she felt wetness.She would tell me I needed to have my diaper changed.She would then start to talk baby talk to me,as she changed me and got me into a fresh diaper.I just felt sooooo at ease and cared for.I usally just closed my eyes,and let mommy do whatever she needed for my diapering.

  7. Jason March 5, 2014 at 10:40 am - Reply

    I’ve not had my diapers checked since I was at least 4 yrs old. I can usually tell when I need to have my diapers changed.

  8. BabySteve March 7, 2014 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    I think it’s the comforting thought of having someone taking charge of your needs. Everyone knows and probably to a degree consciously or subconsciously remembers Mommy doing this for them. I think it’s a subconscious flashback to your very early childhood days.

    • Jason March 7, 2014 at 10:31 pm - Reply

      I can live with that. I just wish I had someone to change my diapers for me, rather than having to do it myself.

  9. A.J. March 29, 2014 at 9:33 pm - Reply

    I haven’t had mine checked in 19 years me being 24 now. I still to this day miss having my diaper checked.

  10. John July 18, 2014 at 3:20 am - Reply

    I agree with Adrian that ultimately the act of checking one’s diaper takes us back to babyhood. What I say next might sound a tad Fraudian, but there is perhaps an unconscious knowledge that having our diapers checked equates to love. While, yes, it could be sexual (physical/sexual love) since checking a diaper of a girlfriend or boyfriend will reveal sexually arousing parts of the anatomy, but on the other hand for the one being checked it may stimulate the idea that the person checking you is being considerate or thoughtful (emotional/practical love) of your own wellbeing. I guess I think of it, in a way, like a kiss: it starts when were young and being taken care of by our parents, then it translates into something different, though similar, when we are courting/meeting our respective partners for life. Checking the diaper of our significant others is similar to what our parents did for us when we were young, but holds entirely different meaning when we’re courting.

    And on a personal not, I rather enjoy it. My girlfriend, however, who is not interested in this lifestyle (AB or DL) always gets indignant if I pull out her panties. She says, “I’m not a baby! Stop checking me like I’m wearing a diaper.”

  11. sawbigwaves September 30, 2014 at 9:15 am - Reply

    I have never had my diaper checked. Though, by the sound of it, I am missing out! Still looking for that guy who would love me that way and take care of me as such..

  12. bbjames December 24, 2014 at 6:16 pm - Reply

    It’s the best when mommy knows you have wet your diaper, is angry you’ve done so, storms over, scolds you for not being a big boy, forcefully grabs you, spanks your diapered ass, pulls back your diaper to see how much of a mess you’ve made and reconfirms her knowing that u need a change. Then drags you to the bedroom where she grabs a fresh clean diaper outta the box, picks u up, throws you on the bed, angrily rips open the tapes of your dirty diaper, wipes you down very fast, grabs the folded clean diaper and spreads it open, then with one hand puts you ankles and feet together, yanks your legs up almost to fast, with the other hand slides the fresh diaper underneath your bum, lets go of your feet as they fall back to the bed. Meanwhile she has already grabbed the baby powder and since she is so disappointed in her big boy, she over powders but doesn’t care, then forcefully pulls the front end of that new beautiful diaper through your legs that she had to fight through because you don’t want her to think you still want to be punished in diapers for having an accident and you have tried to keep your legs together in resistance. When she has spread the diaper across your belly and you have given in knowing that you love every second of this diaper change, she grabs one side and yanks the tape open and straps you so tight then grab’s the other side, rips open that tape and struggles a bit cause it wont quite reach as far to the front because the diaper is your younger siblings disposable, and she over pulled the first side. But she gets it taped and doesn’t care whether the tapes are even on both sides. She is just happy to see you in a new fresh, clean, dry pamper and thinks she is really still punishing you. Yet you have loved it all. She tells you to get up and go play and leaves you in just a t-shirt and not pants or shorts. She still thinks that she is embarrassing you by doing this but you know it is exactly what you wanted. After you get up and start to leave the room she taps your diapered bottom and tells you to let her know if you need another change and that she wants you to try not to use your sisters pampers anymore cause she wants you to be a big boy and stop having accidents in your pants.

    • Jason December 26, 2014 at 7:20 pm - Reply

      No thanks. I’ve never liked sadistic violence.

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