Ok, I decided to make a post about the subject of showing your face in this community.  I have become seemingly frustrated of the number of comments/request/etc to this matter and I see it all over the community especially for other women.  First off, the people who say this really need to think about what they are saying before they say it.  They are basically asking that person to open themselves up to the internet…the internet for Christ sake.  Where once its on the internet…its everywhere.  You can password protect it, copyright, whatever – it will spread.  For people, like myself, who are in jobs that cannot afford to be ‘unmasked’ so publicly in the ABDL community for guarantee of losing their/my job.  While, yes, I must wear diapers because I am incontinent and many co-workers know – they don’t know I am involved in a community of people who love diapers and some who find it sexually gratifying.

While I will stick up for my fellow ABDL friend – I will not jeopardize my career and my life and relationships I have formed personally and publicly just because a few people want my face shown for whatever reason.  I don’t mind taking photos where you can see a piece of my face, my hair, my upper body whatever – but atleast understand a degree of privacy in not showing my face as well as understand other people’s reasons.

Some women and people in this community show their faces and may have jobs similar to mine and don’t find a problem with it.  And I say more power to them.  You are welcome to call me a coward all you want and thats fine – I will take that.  But, it will not stop me from blogging and it will not stop me from taking photos and it will not stop me from trying to educate, entertain, and please the readers and fans of my blog, photos, and posts..

By |2017-07-17T21:42:46+00:00October 20th, 2008|Uncategorized|5 Comments


  1. Bill October 21, 2008 at 12:53 am - Reply

    I would not show my face ever.

  2. Don October 21, 2008 at 12:57 am - Reply

    Very well said!

  3. Riley October 21, 2008 at 1:34 pm - Reply

    I “came out” as an AB/DL online a little under a year ago, I’ve been recognized in public by someone who knew me only from my blog, I’ve been worried about stalkers etc, but it’s good to know that I’m basically stuck in diapers now, i can’t hide it forever because someone might find out.

    I told a friend once about how i didn’t want to show my face because someday someone might find out if i have a career in the public eye, and he responded with “I’d rather be in a position where if someone did find out, it would only add to my popularity”… so I took the big step and posted my face. You’re not a coward, and anyone that would call you that is a troll.

  4. Adam October 21, 2008 at 8:04 pm - Reply

    Well written there, i for one have never shown my face anywhere on the net and never plan to. to many ppl could come across photos of me that they need not see and i dont want that. I agree with u 100%

  5. Richard October 21, 2008 at 10:12 pm - Reply


    I can understand you don’t want to show you face because you wouldn’t want to be recognised in the street – but isn’t it a bit risky giving what I assumed was your real name on on this site or is that just a pen name?

    I would never give my full name on this or any web site either, not because it would jepardise my career (as it would be illegal for an employer to discriminate) but because I wouldn’t want people I know finding out


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