I felt like making a post about the numerous “same ol’, same ol'” diaper paysites that keep popping up.  I think they have to be the most ridiculous sites.  I don’t want to “per se” bash them but everyone knows the reason people pay to see the photos, to see these women (models) in diapers.  These models that 99% probably don’t like diapers and are doing it for a paycheck.  I am not one to say what someone is entertained by but these sites are purely starting to get annoying and they always look the same.  PLUS, they charge and arm and a leg for one measley month of service where you may get 1-3 updates during that month.  Some are worse than that – Aunt Elli, FlBabyGirls, Baby-Doll, and the list goes on.  You pay around $20 for these sites A MONTH.  That to me is sort of ridiculous for what they offer.  I would much rather pay for a site once and be done with it not worry about being charged again or whatever.  Also, I don’t want to see models in diapers – I would rather see a real person that actually enjoys wearing them or has to wear them and has come accustomed to them.  Being a 24 year old girl, I don’t get to see too many variety photos of real, if you want to use the word ‘amateur’ women wearing diapers like me.

Its just truly sad because so many people coming into the ABDL scene see these big name sites like the Aunt Elli and DiaperGal and all that and they believe it.  Which, can be good for your own personal fantasizing, but I think personally it really henders a lot of people’s way of thinking because they see these gorgeous models in them and it makes them really almost feel depressed and sad because they want to have somebody like that so bad.  This causes them I think to lose track of what they really should be looking for in a relationship not just the diaper aspect.  Yeh, I know thats really psychological and all but truly – there are going to be some people reading this and think about it may realize that may be happening to them.

My opinion is that if you have to join a paysite or you want to, try to join one that provides access to amateur photos and is updated a lot more often.  And for God sake, don’t pay 19.95 or more for one month of access, lol.  There are a number of good sites out there that don’t cost an arm and a leg to join that gives you access to huge databases of amateur photos that are neatly organized.  Off the top of my head a major one is IMABDL.com (www.imabdl.com).  There are a couple other ones in which I will have to lookup.  In no way am I saying go sign up there now, I am just saying for people thinking about joining certain paysites, you may want to rethink certain ones and go for a cheaper one rather than a really expensive one that doesn’t offer all that much besides the same ol’ stuff.  I am not looking to get bashed on this post but I have a feeling I will somehow but this is MY opinion as a girl and I can’t really know all the time what a guy thinks so…go easy on me if you disagree lol..

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  1. Jeremy Swill October 16, 2008 at 2:30 am - Reply

    Thank you very much for this post Adrian. You are right, those sites are ridiculously priced and do put up false desires for women who arn’t real in the way they are represented. I think speaking as a guy that i would be real lucky to find a girl who has or is understanding of my incontinence and fondness for diapers. Besides seeing real people enjoying diapers and in real settings is more interesting and desirable anyway. Thanks for this little editorial and for your blog.

  2. Engmojo October 16, 2008 at 4:28 am - Reply

    I couldn’t agree more…thanks for saying it.

  3. Scott October 16, 2008 at 6:18 am - Reply

    I’m so glad you have brought this up. I have been banging on and on about this to and thought I was the only one.

    Why would anyone want to pay $20 a month to see someone that is not AB/DL wearing diapers and acting like a infant. These diaper paysites are wrong and crap.

    Even paying any money to use their sites is a waste of money but if people join a community such as IMABDL or dailydiapers then why not donate instead.

    These paysites are neither AB/DL nor accept us and I bet they laugh at us when they get a paycheck at the end of the day.

    Down with paysites.

  4. Eman October 16, 2008 at 12:55 pm - Reply

    When I read this I just had to add something to it! Stacey, I think you have hit the nail on the head here.

    I remember, not that it was all that long ago, being a young man in some kind of desperate search of people “just like me” and I think I can say that like most new comers, I found DPF first, then the list of paysites. And this is where I completely agree with Stacey’s perspective. In my ignorance of youth, I truly began to feel as though, since these sites exist, then to, do the gorgeous diaper loving girls that are in them.

    Well, was I ever wrong. It didn’t take long to figure out. I think after my first paid membership to diapergal I realized what a joke it was and that NONE of the girls gave a damn about diapers other than it was their way of earning some cash. In my own mind I quickly began to wonder what else they do for cash when the cameras aren’t on… Pretty girls yes, but I needed more than just a pretty girl with a diaper. I needed something genuine, that didn’t look posed with a smile that said “how much longer do I have to wear this?”

    I wish I could say that Diapergal was the only site I wasted money at, but it’s not. When AuntElli crept onto the scene, I once again thought this was the real deal. Surprise, I was wrong again. You can tell in their smile, in their body language, in their movement. It’s not anything their into, or care about, and most certainly not a lifestyle like the site would have you believe.

    Part of me feels bad for those girls… don’t they have anything better going for them? I mean, after all let’s face it folks, it’s porn. They are in the porn industry, and we’re funding it.

    Needless to say, I haven’t bothered wasting a dime on any kind of paysite in the longest time… that is until IMABDL came along. Not that it’s the greatest site ever (sorry Stacey) but it’s content is genuine and I hear that the creator is a pretty cool chick 😉

    So, my advice to those looking for porn, go and look for it, it’s not hard find…. but if you want content, reality, and friends, find a site like IMABDL.com!


  5. superbaby October 17, 2008 at 4:19 am - Reply

    But even IMABDL who advertises an exclusive photo section of real DL’s and AB’s does not update it often either. The amature section isnt HUGE…but it is a nice touch to those of us who like to see REAL AB/DL people. This is by no means meant to bash the web site…i just think that it gets difficult to come up with new content. IMABDL has a photo section for users to upload their pics….but they end up being the same old pictures found around the net…
    The paying once is a great concept, but there are few websites out there that provide quality amature pictures.
    IMABDL is a good start in the right direction though.

  6. Eman October 17, 2008 at 12:48 pm - Reply

    I certainly do not mean this as an attack to anyone but I do feel that anyone who is only interested in the “pics” might as well go buy themselves a membership to Diapergal or some such site. IMABDL is not a “porn” site, the photos, I’ll be the first to admit are nice to look at… from time to time. But that is not the reason I go there. What about you? I love the forum, and the fact that one of us, one of our own started the whole thing. Not some German pornographer that evidently finds hookers as models. In my opinion, if you’re critiquing the photo section, then that must be all you’re interested in, and if you’re not satisfied, then find a new site.

    As far as the user upload section of IMABDL, I’m not surprised it is full of the same old stuff. Take me for example. I could post some wonderful pictures of my wife. Stuff that would have this community abuzz. However, I would never under any circumstance try to exploit that private, innocent part of our relationship. I’m also guessing that I’m not the only one who feels this way, and that’s why you don’t see too many fresh updates. Sorry, but I don’t really like the idea of some overweight, middle age, balding slob rubbing one out in his parents basement while he’s looking at a picture of my wife. If anyone were to look at if from that perspective I think they’d agree with me. You want updates? I hear Baby-doll is doing 4 a month now… enjoy.

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