I thought I would address what many have been wondering about – how I deal with messy diapers since I do wear 24/7 that is obviously something that comes up.  Well, on average I typically mess once a day and typically it does not usually hit me at work but there have been times when it does.  When I am at work I typically go change immediately…my office has individual bathrooms so I can go in there wipe myself clean and change my diaper.  But, obviously the key is to change as soon as possible at work and I keep a bottle of Febreze and Lysol in my office to help cut down on the smell when it happens.  When I am out and about and I end up messing, usually I am with Peter so he will either check me and change me in the car or we will find a family restroom so that he can come in and change my diaper.  There have been random places here and there other than those such as the beach and grassy areas when we go on pic-nics sometimes.

But other than that – I mean when I mess at home then I will change myself or Peter will do it for me if he is there obviously.  But, smell is typically not a factor with a properly fitted (tight) diaper, work pants or jeans combined with Lysol and Febreze atleast from what I have found.

If I did not cover everything let me know and I may try to clear things up.

By |2008-02-29T11:12:28+00:00February 29th, 2008|Uncategorized|13 Comments


  1. Thomas February 29, 2008 at 12:12 pm - Reply

    thats understandable, sounds like you are very respectfull about it. Not brave enough to do it out in public that much and never never never at work lol. But like a said koodoes for you. 😀

  2. Jimbo February 29, 2008 at 12:37 pm - Reply

    Thanks for sharing! And Fabreze really works wonders – I use it, as well. I work from home mostly, so smell and changing is not a big deal – but I do have people in and out, so smell is something I try to control. I have pooped while out and about, of course. Do you ever wear plastic pants over your diaper?

  3. Nick February 29, 2008 at 1:37 pm - Reply

    You double posted.

  4. Jimbo February 29, 2008 at 2:49 pm - Reply

    p.s. Would LOVE to see a “fully loaded” diaper pic of you (!!). Don’t need to see the mess, just your lumpy diaper seat. =} I think I speak for many when I say that would be a huge turn-on. Thanks!

  5. Richard February 29, 2008 at 4:52 pm - Reply

    Thanks for that – interesting. It is interesting that your anatomy has got into a once a day pooping routine despite the loss of control. Unfortunately I have completely lost the routine and need to poop frequently but I do have control to hang on until I get to a toilet. Are there time you feel rather smug about being diapered – i.e times when you are with friends and they are desparate for the toilet.


  6. lynn king February 29, 2008 at 6:33 pm - Reply

    thank for the great advivcestacey

  7. Vince March 1, 2008 at 5:43 am - Reply

    I second Jimbo’s post…I’d love to see a loaded diaper, too, but of course that’s up to you. I was wondering if you dread having to SIT in a messy diaper for any length of time (like on a drive home or something) or if you enjoy the feeling at all. After all, you appear to enjoy WEARING diapers, something many people wouldn’t enjoy on their own, so maybe you like the feeling of a messy diaper too. Thanks for the blog, keep it up! I think this kind of stuff is the thing many people would get excited about.

  8. Jimbo March 1, 2008 at 3:00 pm - Reply

    And I totally second Vince’s position. This may be something you “have” to wear, but it’s clearly something you “enjoy” wearing and using – even if it’s the whole thing of “if you have to, might as well enjoy it”. Personally, I think a poopy diaper is a turn-on, at least until it gets cold. Would love to hear about how you “feel” when you poop your pants, (diaper under them, of course). Does Peter like to watch you fill them? Does he fills his, as well? I sssume so. Most women – and men – aren’t into anything “gross”; just the feeling and sensations of a heavy diaper sagging on their bottoms and the “naughtiness” of it all.

    Another thing is I notice that walking around with a wet diaper is not as big a deal as a poopy one, which is heavier and its VERY hard to walk normally. Anyone agree? Stacy? Especially at work, or out. It’s also a lot tougher for guys to hide their bulge under pants. Women have a big advantage in skirts or dresses. Though overalls work OK for guys – but not great.

    To me this is the type of topic that we all find interesting. How to deal with this little fetish or reality, depending on your situation, in the everyday world. You touched on it, Stacy, and we’d love to get a thread going on this. A “dauily update” of trials and tribulations of your day – which is what a blog is all about. Like: “I woke up with a poopy and wet diaper this morning. Peter changed me, but we got so turned on he ripped the diaper off that he just put on and we havd insane sex.”. A diary, if you will. Wet diapers are almost.. should I say “boring”? Not quite that, but pretty average to talk about. Not that it needs to be ALL poopy diaper talk, but let’s face it; we all do both every day – in our pants/diaper, or not.

    Thanks for what looks to be a promising blog!!

  9. susan July 26, 2008 at 5:34 pm - Reply

    I am 54 and wear diapers almost all the time. My diapers are easy to hide under street clothes, mostly skirts or dresses, but having to deal with a messy diaper in public is not my cup of tea. I would rather just keep it in my diaper till I get home to change in private.

    Control top pantyhose are marvelous for keeping a heavy diaper up and quiet. I got used to walking or sitting in a messy diaper long ago. I would rather keep a mess inmy diaper for hours than to try to change in some public place. Once I sit on it, it really isnt visable to anyone and really doesnt bother me having it in there either.

  10. David August 27, 2009 at 1:42 pm - Reply

    What about wearing diapers on the beach?

  11. BabyJhonny January 4, 2011 at 6:03 am - Reply

    i third jimmbo’s and vince’s opinions but do not agree with the whol sexual element. Just as feel that there should me no element of sexuality attached to an baby, there should also be no element of sexuality atached to an Adult Baby. Unfortunatly in this world of Infantophiles, Pedophiles, sickos and pervs, babys and Adult Babys alike seem to have both become a source of sexual intrest these weirdos. I find that very disturbing indeed. There is also way to much sexual intrest from guys in females, and if the male population of the world cant see that the female population of the world are, in some cases scared to do anything because of abusive enviroments or in the majority of cases addicted to serratonin, dopamine and adreniline. This is why no one say anything about the continual harrasment and eventual psycological manipulation and perswashion of woman by men. Since i am Anti-sexual i have only ever been in 1 relationship and have only ever had sex 13 times, she insisted on it like it was some sort of drug to her, and i found the entire experiance, icky, gross, yucky and revolting. I always thought of those 2 and a half years more as a getting to know you period sort of like best friends kind of thing, i was 17 she was 21 ewwwwww. Since then i have not tried to have another relationship or eaven looked at a girl in the same way, the only kind of relationship im after now is the Adult Baby, AB Mummy type, marrage dosent appeal to me at all, and while i like kids, emotionaly and psycologicaly im not ready to have children of my own. I would however be very intrested to see a photo of yourself Adrian and a photo of Peter for that matter in a messy diaper each. Out of curiosity you know to see what you both look like after filling up your diapers. If you dont want to post a photo on the blog, you can email me a photo. My mum used to work in the medical profeshion. After school she would pick me up and drive back to one of the clinics were she used to work at, since it was just around the corner, i had to wait in the car for her to finish work at 5:30, mostly i would just play with my knex on the back seat, or list to the cdwalkman i had, or just go to sleep. I cant tell you what the name of the clinic was or what they did there cause its confidential. So you see I certinly understand confidentiality, copyright and dnd, and i can give you my word that i will not distribute, alter, modify or in anyway copy any photo that you send to me via email.
    I will publish my email address because some web-blogs require the email address of a person commenting on an authers blog but do not share the email address with the auther of the blog unless the auther of the blog requests the email address from the site admin, and i have a feeling wordpress is one of those blogging service providers that opirate in this way.
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  12. Nick Naylor January 5, 2011 at 1:51 am - Reply

    wow, what was that?

  13. Tommy In New Hampshire January 5, 2011 at 1:44 pm - Reply

    I am a 52 year-old adult with Cerebral Palsy & Asperger’s Syndrome. I wear/use adult diapers 24/7 around the clock, & am totally incontinent, both my bladder & my bowels. I wear plastic pants over my disposable diapers. I also “mess once a day”, & I use huggies baby wipes for “cleanup”. I will admit to being an ABy, as an adult with lifelong cognitive & physical disabilities.

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