How possibly could an adult diaper help you to live a better life you ask? You are probably dumbfounded by this statement or maybe your not. Oh, but let me show you the ways.

Adult diapers have always been associated with babies because naturally “only” babies wear diapers right? Wrong. You may be surprised to learn that adult diapers are one of the biggest products sold all around the world. Notably in China, Japan, Europe and the United States. Many people don’t consider the benefits behind what an adult diaper has to offer. Believe it or not…there are many.

Below you will find a non-exhaustive list of how adult diapers can help you to live a better life.

  1. Relaxation: Adult diapers have the ability to soothe and relax people. Just ask the ABDL (Adult Baby and Diaper Lover) community. One of the biggest reasons they/we enjoy wearing diapers is that it enables a relaxation effect. No possible way to explain this – just something you will have to experience yourself!
  2. Comforting Feelings: The comfort of a fluffy adult diaper on your bum also has a comforting effect. By increasing your comfort level it will then lead to better relaxation and thus your life will be more enjoyable! For the WIN!
  3. Convenience: Don’t tell me you haven’t thought about it being more convenient if you just had a diaper on…don’t lie…come on. The convenience factor can help to simplify your life!
  4. Feel Empowered: Wearing adult diapers empowers you. Believe it. You will no longer be part of the “everyday” crowd – you will be even more unique and you will feel empowered that you are doing something that not everyone else is doing. Uniqueness is an empowering feeling. Trust me.
  5. Styling and Profiling: Adult diapers just look good! Plus, they are cute. It is well-known that most guys that aren’t into the ABDL scene find a woman or man for that matter attractive in a diaper. It works the other way too! Girls can find it incredibly adorable, cute and even sexy for a man or woman wearing a diaper.
  6. Productivity: Productivity will increase – no more trips to the bathroom when you are working hard. Your attention span will be prolonged and you will no longer be required to get up and go to the bathroom – only to lose your train of thought.
  7. Sleeping: Wearing diapers has been shown in many instances to actually promote and help sleep. This probably has to do with the relaxation effect of adult diapers that many, including myself, speak of.

There you have it. A short list of how adult diapers can help you better your life! By no means is this exhaustive, but it hits the main points.

So, go ahead, go put on an adult diaper or if you don’t have any – go out and buy a pack – give them a try. You may be impressed!

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  1. Gordon March 3, 2014 at 9:22 pm - Reply

    Adrian, do you like seeing men in diapers? Is it sexy to you?

    • Adrian Surley March 3, 2014 at 9:24 pm - Reply

      Yes. I find men in diapers very sexy…especially my husband ๐Ÿ˜‰

      • Bambino March 4, 2014 at 10:27 am - Reply

        Adrian, I think that’s great you find your man sexy and in a diaper. I’m sorry you lost your job. I did too over three years ago and that’s a tough thing. Great post, I wear 24/7 as well so all of the 7 points you listed in your post definitely help with diapers!

    • Kwan Ming September 7, 2015 at 10:45 am - Reply

      Being a man by day & a baby/toddler at night as many of you are aware by now I wear diapers because of my disabilities, but what you may also not know is how I came to this juncture in my life so here is that story as promised.

      This all started way before 2010, in fact my first memories of wearing diapers stem from my early childhood memories from the years 1981-1982 when I was for all intents and purposes a very real life baby/toddler being aged 18 months old at this stage and wearing the customary pampers baby-dry diapers these where plastic backed and had a all white appearance with the exception of the leg gaurds and waist which where baby blue in colour/dark blue and had enormous size sticky labels on each side of the diaper.

      Later in life I got the chance to wear them again as in 1988 I was still quite small for my age and could conceivably double as a baby if I needed to during my secretive age regression sessions when I would put the diapers on by myself and go to bed in them as if I was a baby, however this only lasted until my brother was old enough to be potty trained and my supply dried up.

      Later in 2010 I was diagnosed with a weak bladder and conceqentually chose to return to wearing diapers as per my other stories on various websites, including this one and & http://www.experience

      I now wear disposable diapers when ever I am asleap at night and during the daytime to manage my incontinence problems, I have medication but it doesn’t work because I am allergic to it and so don’t take the tablets, and I don’t mind wearing diapers like a baby for the rest of my life as long as I can be re-assesed by a doctor as being medically incontinent and needing to wear diapers, which buy the way I already do anyway and have no problem with this factor in my life as I want to live life to the maximum at least whilst I still can as I still have my youth as I am only turning 35 years old next month on the 21st October 2015, at this present time I am relaxing on my day off work at home whilst wearing diapers and being totally relaxed in the process.

      Any way got to go now as ever your friend Kwan Ming.

  2. Jason March 3, 2014 at 9:31 pm - Reply

    I agree with diapers increasing productivity. You don’t have to stop and run to the restroom everytime you have to pee, or even poop. I’ve always disagreed with the notion that “only babies wear diapers.” If that were the case, there wouldn’t be any diapers for adults, would there? I do find it more convenient to wear diapers and pee in them than to wait and look for a restroom to pee, and even if you do find a restroom, you find it crowded with people, or even if you’re lucky enough to find a toilet to use, it’s been peed on or pooped on, rather than pooped in or peed in. Ugh! So wearing diapers can be a sanitary solution as well.

    • Eric May 31, 2014 at 7:45 pm - Reply

      I agree, wearing diapers is a plus, because instead of waiting to use the unsanitary toilet, you can just let it go in your diaper.

      • Jason October 13, 2014 at 7:57 pm - Reply

        Exactly! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Kwan Ming August 2, 2015 at 7:54 am - Reply

      Actually Jason, your on to something their as diapers also help me to work better and become more efficient as a result, I have been wearing diapers since 2010 due to a diagnosis of a weak bladder.

      Wearing diapers gives me a sence of freedom and dignity I had been missing in my life since I was a toddler/child all those years ago, and having to wear them again gives me a new sence of peace of mind and tranquillity in my life, I don’t have any regrets about making the decission to wear diapers again as stated in my earlier stories on this website.

      I can’t see why people have a problem with me wearing my diapers in public as I try to keep them conceald under my clothing when I am out at town.

      Diapers/Nappies aren’t just for babies/toddlers anymore!!!.

      Any way if your interested there is a website you can look at with a campaign to end the stigma of wearing diapers it is

      Their is also a website to end the stigma of mental health it is a campaign I am involved in their website is as follows

      I recommend you look at bouth of these websites because they are worthy causes that are in need of support from the public and the more support will meen less stigma & more public acceptance.

      Yours sincerely: Kwan Ming

      • Jason August 2, 2015 at 10:59 am - Reply

        Hey Kwan. I totally agree with what you’re saying. I’m neither an AB nor a DL. I just like wearing diapers. I find them more comfortable than underwear. ๐Ÿ™‚

        • Kwan Ming August 4, 2015 at 3:45 am - Reply

          Good to know you feel the same way as I do, sorry I’ve been out of touch lately I was greiving the loss of my friends from cancer.

        • Kwan Ming August 4, 2015 at 3:55 am - Reply

          I am glad to hear your like me in the sence of what you’re saying, Sorry I’ve been out of touch lately I have been morning the loss of my two friends from cancer.

          The first one was Lisa she was 44 and was a work colleque and the 2nd was My ex teacher Vicki she was 65 years old.

          Bouth tragically young and called to god before their time.

          R.I.P Lisa & Vikki.

          • Jason August 4, 2015 at 11:46 am

            Hey Kwan. I’m sorry to hear about your friends. That sucks. I hope things get better for you.

    • Kwan Ming August 22, 2015 at 5:17 am - Reply

      I agree with you Jason the fact is since choosing to return to wearing diapers my life has never looked so good I am more productive at work & I enjoy working in a busy kitchen environment much more now that I don’t have to rush to the toilet every 5-10 minutes due to my weak bladder.

      I also am sleeping alot deeper than I use-to and this has a relaxing effect on my mind,body & soul, no more worries about waking up in a wet bed or having to make excuses because I had an accident during the night whilst I was sleeping, also less stress due to a more relaxed mind-set and this has alot to do with the comfort factor of wearing diapers virtually 24/7.

      With me I have all but pinned down the reasons I have to wear diapers and it comes down to three kea factors in my life which are as follows.

      1. I was potty trained too early in my childhood and this has caused me no end of problems with a overly constrict bladder.

      2. I use to suffer from childhood epilepsy and this has caused minor but permnant nerve dammage and conceqentually loss of control on a bad day.

      3. I use to be an avid rugby player whilst at school and as a result took far too many blows to the pelvic/abdominal region during tackles and falls on the hard ground and this repeatedly put trauma on my stomach area and bladder until the point where I became increasingly incontinent later in life.

      The third one I can’t conclusively prove as of yet but i suspect it had an effect on me as I was always heavily bruised in that area after sports and it was always painfull, but because I was embarrassed I neglected to get medical advice or help and that was a mistake as if I could have proven it earlier in my life I could have had more support from my doctors and my pearents as to the reasons why I wear diapers in the first-place.

      In any case my life has altered in ways I couldn’t have otherwise foreseen all those years before hand and this is no bad thing because it made me who I am nowadays and this has helped me to become a better person in the whole.

      Yours sincerely

      Kwan Ming

      Saturday 22/8/2015.

      • Jason August 22, 2015 at 8:43 am - Reply

        I agree. I remember going on a road trip from Gig Harbor (Washington) to Grayland (Washington). I needed to pee, but I didn’t want to stop every few miles just to pee. So I wore diapers and I’d use them. It’s the same on the way back from Grayland to Gig Harbor.

        • Kwan Ming September 7, 2015 at 4:51 am - Reply

          Yes I know what you’re saying because I also wear diapers for convenience factors as I work in a busy restaurant kitchen as a kitchen porter & can’t leave my post/workstation as a result because this would infringe on my levels of productivity& would have serious implications in terms of my ability to keep my career afloat so to speak.

          • Jason September 13, 2015 at 5:46 pm

            I know it may seem weird to some people. I’ve talked to my parents and neither of them seemed to either understand or even like the idea of an adult liking diapers. I told them not to try to understand it, that all it’ll do is drive them crazy.

      • Kwan Ming September 7, 2015 at 11:32 am - Reply

        Hi Jason sorry I’ve been out of touch for over a month now as I have been busy working in a restaurant kitchen as a kitchen porter in my local village of Yanwath in Cumbria, anyway just thought I would send you a nudge before I go on holiday in two weeks time to Hong Kong as I’ll be away for at least4-5 months on the vacation of a life time visiting friends in south east asia.

        Anyway if your interested there is a website where you can win a pack of free diapers with no gimmicks or hidden catches involved.

        This website I

        Their running a campaign called the race to dignity challenge and by registering your details in this worthy cause you will stand a chance in winning the above mentioned prize, don’t worry its completely free unless you wish to donate money towards their charity that aims in providing better access to diapers for people who live in 3rd world countries, I am taking part just for fun and to raise awareness towards ending the stigmitizum towards people like us that have to wear diapers.

        I live in the UK as you know so won’t receive the main prize due to shipping costs but maybe if you enter you could take it on my behalf and I would be honoured if you got free diapers, for myself the only way I can get free diapers is to get re-appraised as being medically incontinent by another doctor if this happens at all.

        Or if I can some how qualify for them because of the fact I am on disability living allowance and am highly autistic.

        Anyway good luck and good hunting I you decide to take part in this competition and know I’ll always be your friend and support you 100%.


        • Jason September 7, 2015 at 11:41 am - Reply

          I’m sorry to hear about your friends who passed away. I know what it’s like to have friends and family die. It’s a sad thing to have happen. But there are people who care about you, who love you, and who want to see you happy and successful with your life. ๐Ÿ™‚

          • Kwan Ming January 17, 2016 at 10:39 am

            Thank you Jason sorry I didn’t get back in touch with you it’s been a crazy few months will Christmas and all recently, I am flying back home tomorrow so I won’t be in touch until Wednesday at least as I’ll loose at least 2 days travelling back to the UK.

            Anyway Happy Belated New-Year for 2016.????

          • Tacoma Diaper January 17, 2016 at 11:32 am

            Thank you. Things happen. While it’s nice when someone returns a message, I won’t lose any sleep if they don’t. I’ve never considered myself either an Adult Baby, nor a Diaper Lover. I just like wearing diapers and using them for their intended purposes. I hope you had a happy New Year 2016. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Kwan Ming September 20, 2016 at 1:37 am - Reply

      Hi Jason sorry it has taken a year to get back in touch with you this was due to the fact I need to take some time off this website because of personal reasons.

      Anyway just thought I’d keep you informed as to the latest developments in my life, not that I am a news story or anything.

      From November or December of this year I will be having corrective surgery on my feet due to medical issues that I have suffered from all of my life I will be probably not in touch for a while after my hospital visit as I will be focusing on my recovery process as it will take 6-8 weeks.

      Anyway during this surgery I will fortunately be put to sleep/artificially kept unconscious and will be requesting to wear a diaper because of the fact I don’t know how or what my body will react to the surgery.

      Also I will also be going into care at some point next year due to my disabilities and will probably ask if it’s okay to wear diapers from then onwards for the rest of my life should I get re-assesed and given the green light.

      I’ll let you know if all goes well how things pan out for my future

      Yours as ever

      Chinababy888/aka Kwan Ming.

      • Incontinent Tacoma September 24, 2016 at 1:26 pm - Reply

        I’m so sorry. I’ve had friends and family die in my lifetime, but never in such a violent way as that. That had to have been awful. I wish I could’ve been there to comfort you and to just be there. If need be, I could change your diaper if you’re wet or messy.

        I was in England a couple weeks ago. My dad has some family who live in Plymouth. The last time we were there was in 2005.

  3. Lee Farmer March 3, 2014 at 9:46 pm - Reply

    Just a note to add to this but a lot of truck drivers wear diapers so they do not have to stop there trucks and go to the restroom that takes up time…
    And yes I wear them 24/7

    • Jason March 3, 2014 at 9:53 pm - Reply

      Do they? I’ve read about truck drivers who wear diapers during their travels, but because I’ve never been a truck driver, I didn’t know for certain.

      • Lee Farmer March 3, 2014 at 9:56 pm - Reply

        Yes they sell some diapers in some truck stops and I used them when O drove a truck.

        • Johanna March 4, 2014 at 2:56 am - Reply

          most truck drivers have an empty bottle with them so when they have to pee they do it in a bottle

          • Jason March 4, 2014 at 7:16 am

            I would think wearing diapers and peeing in them would be easier than peeing in a bottle.

  4. Earl B March 3, 2014 at 9:54 pm - Reply

    I put a diaper on after I got done reading this. I feel very comfortable, secure, and safe! It helps me in lots of ways. For one. I feel when I’m wearing a diaper I feel like a good boy. And I stay out of trouble.

    • Eric May 31, 2014 at 7:49 pm - Reply

      Yes, wearing a diaper is Very comfortable

      • Pamperlover2 May 31, 2014 at 7:51 pm - Reply

        Even a wet one feels good

  5. Diaperwill March 3, 2014 at 10:48 pm - Reply

    Well stated, Adrian. ๐Ÿ™‚ All true.

    While my wife has expressed early in our marriage her desire for me to find a cure, I think that had more to do with care for my health. She has a very childish personality that she only shows with me, and one where she loves to grab me inappropriately, or pat my diapered bottom while we are in bed.

    Once she put her hand down the back of my diaper and I asked, “What are you doing?”

    “I am freezing and you’re so warm” (It was dry back there at the time)

    I think she thinks it is cute, but doesn’t say so because I try to appear masculine and confident around her. I have never told her I love my diapers, but I don’t feel I need to.

    After a stressful day, relaxing in just my diaper is the best! And my confidence boost in wearing diapers was a big factor in my switch to 24/7 so many years ago.

    I am loving the frequent updates ๐Ÿ˜€ Keep it up

    • Jason March 3, 2014 at 10:54 pm - Reply

      Hey Diaperwill. I totally agree. I believe diapers can be a stress reliever. Who needs drugs or alcohol, when diapers can do the same thing without the harmful side-effects. I love this website. Thanks for updating it, Adrian. Keep up the good work.

  6. abdl86 March 4, 2014 at 12:25 am - Reply

    What a nice post and i agree whit every thing you say.

    • Jason March 4, 2014 at 12:30 am - Reply

      I agree. It’s one of my favourite diaper blogs I’ve ever visited. I don’t have to sign up to join. I don’t need to memorize a password to get on. I just visit and comment on what Adrian is talking about.

  7. CD March 4, 2014 at 2:12 am - Reply

    Actually, Adrian, I really thought this post was outstanding. Even though I am incontinent like you, I feel more safe and secure in a diaper or pull-up as the case may be. Only about a year ago did I start wearing 24/7 due to medical conditions but I just can’t sleep without a diaper on now. There’s too much risk of an accident.

    So, I am sold on productivity, relaxation, convenience and styling as I love playtime with my wife in a diaper :). I make it worth her while!

    Safety and security are the main points. I am confident I won’t make a mess, I sleep better, and overall, it saves me washing sheets every other day.

    Great post!

    • Jason March 4, 2014 at 2:17 am - Reply

      Hey Colin. My feelings exactly! I don’t have to worry about having to get up to go use the bathroom when I need to pee. I don’t have any medical problems to speak of, nor do I have a fetish towards diapers. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Kwanming888 June 12, 2015 at 5:36 am - Reply

      I wear diapers 24/7 due to incontinence related problems I have been experiencing since 2010 when I was diagnosed with an over-active bladder for me life has drastically improved since taking the uneasy decission to return to wearing diapers as I am more relaxed and conceqentually don’t have to worry about dashing off to a unhyginic public toilet or stand in line for hours waiting for a cubical to become vacant, also I sleep alot better no more insomnia because of having to get up just to pee in the night too many times during the nighttime as now can go with up to 10-12 hours sleep without being interrupted by my weak bladder.

      Also I am more productive at work as I don’t have to leave my workstation just to loose my train of thought this is important as I work in a busy restaurant kitchen as a kitchen porter and I only get paid on the hour so being as efficient in work is vitally important to me as the saying goes “No work,No Pay” so I am replied on to do my tasks no matter what.

      The other benefits are I am feel more comfort from diapers as opposed to underwear as my diapers provide me with warmth during the cold nights and extra padding when I need it when sitting on hard surfaces such as park benches or metal deckchairs when I am un our garden so yes I totally agree wearing diapers can improve your life.

      Ps- sorry if my previous reply was out of place I just wanted to make a point of trying to address the negative views of some un educated people in society.

  8. Mike S March 4, 2014 at 8:08 am - Reply

    I find adult diapers to be an incredibly important part of my life and the attributes talked about in Adrian’s post are spot on. I need my diapers and they enhance my life. Nothing better than coming home after a long stressful day at work and putting on my diapers until the next day. I am starting to wear them through the weekend to make them more a part of my everyday and find the convenience and comfort of being diapered over extended periods tough to beat. Hurray for adult diapers!

  9. James Jackman March 4, 2014 at 9:35 am - Reply

    I have been incontinent for over 2 years now & wear diapers/nappies 24/7, so I can relate to what your all saying wearing nappies helps me to manage my problems in regards to my OBS condition without them I tend to have accidents often, I am 33 years old and am not a diaper lover/adult baby, but I prefer the one sticky tab/tag system thatโ€™s very similar to baby nappies as opposed to the more complicated ones with multiple tags as they often don’t work as efficiently & tend to leak and in regards to your question my answer is yes they do enhance my life style as I don’t have to worry about dashing to the toilet every-time this is especially true when I am at work as I work in a busy kitchen as part of my part-time/casual work & the fact that I can’t always leave my work to go and deal with my problem as my productivity would suffer in terms of showing I am reliable., Also I tend to have accidents without any urge/pre-warning so wearing nappies is the most sensible solution & donโ€™t have a problem wearing them 24/7 so there is no debate as to whether or not I should wear them even though I live with people who are letโ€™s just say less supportive of this fact and are hostile towards the fact I wear diapers/pads the fact is I keep making the argument that itโ€™s my body and I will deal with it my way.

    • James Jackman/Kwanming888 June 12, 2015 at 5:12 am - Reply

      dear Adrian I am campaigning for an end to the stigmas of wearing adult diapers through a web-site called I just thought your readers may be interested in joining up to this cause on-line and don’t worry they wont ask you to pay any money for doing so all they ask is that you subscribe to their free newsletter or leave a comment on their website.

      sitting here in my house wearing diapers has made me become somewhat a crusader for the rights of disabled people and those who choose to wear them as well I am not usually in recruitment mood but last week I experienced someone who’s narrow minded pre-judgemental statement to a another disabled person who they where making fun of because they had bought some adult diapers from the shops the yobb who must have been aged 16-18 years old went about harassing the person in a wheelchair and calling her a lazy baby naturally my first instinct was to go over there and confront him but I did not know if the yob was armed or not so I just confronted him from a distance saying shame on you sunny for picking on someone who cant fight back I screamed at him go away and some other swar words and even got the shop manager and the community police officer involved in getting this nasty teen out of there so that he could not harm anyone else this also had the effect of shocking me into taking action to stand up for the rights of disabled people not just in the UK where I live but also word-wide, saddly though not everybody is able to stand up to the bullies’ in society and I know how tha’t feels like Is there anyone else like me who wouldn’t let a vanranle person in distress go with out assistance.

      • Jason June 14, 2015 at 6:02 pm - Reply

        If only I can get to the website. I click on the link, and I get “website not available.” I like the idea, and I’d visit if I can get into it.

  10. Gordon March 4, 2014 at 1:58 pm - Reply

    Adrian, do you prefer your diaper to be wet or dry? Many of us find that a wet diaper is more relaxing and more of a turn on. I sleep better when my diaper is wet.

    • Jason March 4, 2014 at 5:14 pm - Reply

      I find it more relaxing, knowing that I don’t have to get up to use the bathroom. I can just pee and not worry about getting my bed wet.

      • Kwan Ming January 27, 2016 at 1:30 am - Reply

        Actually Jason your statement about why you wear diapers sounds a lot like my own experiences since starting to wear diapers again in 2010, almost 6 years ago this coming march.

        I live in a family where wearing diapers is forbidden so I have a lot of added stress when they rummage through my bags as the inevitable arguments always flare up, I am sick of the constant arguments and accusation’s every time I go out to town as they get suspicious of my methods.

        I know sooner or later I’ll be looking for a new house of my own to live in once I find a job that pay’s me enough to cover the mortgage and all the bills associated with Indipendant living, I might even invest in one with a garage for extra storage even though I don’t drive myself I do think the added storage would come in handy as I would have somewhere I could perhaps convert into a guest room/nursary so I could have somewhere to go to when I needed to be in private.

        Whilst I am not an adult-baby or diaper lover I do think that I need somewhere I can relax in peace in the knowledge that I won’t face any stigmitizum or negitive attitudes as to why I am doing what I am, by the way this wasn’t a choice I had to start wearing diapers because of my disabilities, I might also look at getting a full/part-time carer to look after me as I know my pearents couldn’t cope with this situation by them selves not that I would ever ask them as it would be selfish and wrong to ask them to do that.

        The other day I tried a new product from ABENA for the first-time called delta form L2 they where as you might expect quite comfortable and very absorbent although they where a little bit like the old hospital grade ones which where either green or blue.

        They come as your probably aware in packs of 20 pcs in large as the large ones are green in colour, I don’t personally bother about the colour as I was desperate for a diaper at that time as I was having a bad day in terms of my bladder problems, I as you are aware am also highly autistic and suffer from incontinence problems.

        It’s good to know on a less personal basis that there are celebrity ‘s out there who are challenging the notion that diapers are only for babies/the in-firm and I do like the fact that their is a website out there called that was set up by someone not unlike myself who wanted the stigma of wearing these products to end, I think I already mentioned that website before in my previous replies so sorry if I happen to be repeating what I said earlier.

        Anyway must go now as I have to catch up on my sleep ?. So I’ll be in touch later today/later in the week.

        Yours as ever
        Kwan Ming

        • Incontinent In Seattle January 27, 2016 at 1:50 am - Reply

          I can relate to the stress of having parents looking through my bags and wondering whether they will find my diapers. My mom is the worst. She demands an explanation as to why I even want to wear diapers. If I can’t come up with an explanation, she’ll demand that I throw them in the trash and that’d better be the last of this “sick” sickness.

          • Lovestowet January 27, 2016 at 5:57 am

            Quite candidly, I think your mother needs counseling–not you! She needs to realize your love of diapers is not going away…probably ever. And to constantly harangue you is doing you harm. Period.

            I’d be a little more forceful with her and tell her yo keep her snooping hands out of your stuff.

            In support,


          • Incontinent Seattle February 7, 2016 at 10:37 pm

            I have to agree. I love my mother, but I’m an adult, and not a child. And therefore, I should be allowed to decide whether I want to wear diapers or not. And should I decide to wear, and to use my diapers for their intended purpose(s), she should respect my wishes.

          • Kwan Ming January 27, 2016 at 1:58 pm

            Firstly may I say thanks to you for your understanding and supportive words, in regards to my situation, currently as I told you I live with my pearents as I can’t afford a place of my own on my limited budget and living with unsimpatic pearents is a nightmare to say in the least, as specially when they make me promis something I can’t deliver on as I cant stop my incontinence problems.

            Diapers have given me the freedom and Indipendace of not having to worry about accidents as I often can’t feel my bladder emptying and this causes me added stress and embarrassment so wearing them is my only sensible option, my doctor is also unsimpatic as to why I wear diapers and this really hurts me as I feel everybody is against me except for my friend in Hong Kong who has known me since primary school and knows why I wear them as he witnessed my two epileptic seizures that led to myself having permnant nerve damage.

            He knows I am disabled and need to wear them and doesn’t mind one bit and if I could have more people like him it would be better than the situation I am in currently as I really hate being told I have a disease in the head or am lazy just for wearing them as this really gets me depressed and I hate the stigma surrounding this subject.

            And to that end I have become a crusader for the rights of others like me who have to wear these means of protection to live their lives to the fullest extent on a daily basis and who also are targets of bullying or teasing because they are different I myself have battled this all of my-life even before I choose to wear diapers again as I have severe learning difficulties in the form of Autism and Dyslexia of which I have had for the whole of my life as in the 35+ years since I was born in 1980, now I am showing my age although to me it’s just a number.

            When I was younger I had to go through the hell of specialist schooling and of cause bullying although I have no ill feelings towards my education except for the experiences I suffered from due to my weak bladder which at that time was manageable but embarrassing and no I didn’t wear diapers then although I wish I should have because I could have been assesed as being medically incontinent and needing diapers instead of battling years later.

            Anyway If you want to chat to me my email address is [email protected]

            I don’t give this to everybody as it would be foolish of me as the last time I tried to open out to other people on-line all I got was abuse and bullying.

            So please don’t send me any spam as I will delete it and block you if you do send me this, although I am not accusing you of any thing I am just being protective of my self.I hope you understand it as the last thing I want to do is offend you as I need all the friends I can get on-line as I feel lovely with out friends in life as specially given I lost 3 good friends suddenly to deaths embrace one to pneumonia and two from cancer and I really don’t like this.

            Anyway got to go now


          • Seattle Diaper January 27, 2016 at 2:19 pm

            My parents are nice people, but when it comes to diapers, my mom can be like a pit bull. She absolutely forbids it. She believes that anyone older than 3 yrs old should be out of diapers and be growing up and become more independent. While I’m all for becoming independent, I’m also of the belief that however independent one may be, however grown up one may be, no one can hold on indefinitely, and needs to relieve themselves sooner or later. The problem usually is that it’s not always possible to be near a toilet when you need to go. If you’re on a road trip and you need to poop, what do you do? Wait until you come to a rest stop? The toilet could be closed for the winter, or closed for maintenance (oh shit!) Or how about you’re at a theatre watching a movie? You need to pee, but you don’t want to get up to run to the head to pee, missing the most exciting part of the movie. What do you do? Both sound like good reasons to wear diapers. If you’re driving and you need to poo, you just poo in your diaper, and then change into a clean diaper when you see an open rest stop.

            The same is true with going during the movie. You can pee in your diaper and then change when the movie is over.

            It’s not about ability vs disability. It’s not about being lazy either. It sounds more like being productive. You’re being independent, taking care of your own needs, rather than relying on someone else to take care of your needs for you.

            That being said, there’s nothing wrong with having someone help with *some* things.

    • Adrian Surley March 5, 2014 at 7:43 am - Reply

      I prefer a dry diaper.

      • Jason March 5, 2014 at 10:34 am - Reply

        So do I, but I know that it’s not going to remain dry forever. Sooner or later I’m going to need to pee, and I might as well pee in my diaper. So,

      • Bambino March 6, 2014 at 1:36 pm - Reply

        Hi Adrian, when I reply to messages on your site with my iPad. It’s slow to respond. If I back space, same thing. If I try to re-type then it won’t let me until I click the notify buttons. Sometimes I may need to do this more than once. Also your page will blink periodically like glitches. I don’t have this issue when visiting other web pages. Are you getting any other concerns like this. On a positive note, I like the front of your website and all the pics it looks great! Nice work!

      • Kwan Ming August 2, 2015 at 8:19 am - Reply

        Me too Adrian. I also prefer dry diapers vs wet ones.

  11. jack March 5, 2014 at 10:10 pm - Reply

    I am contemplating using them for my daily commute. Going from NJ to NYC everyday I have come very close to an accident. Also holding it in starts to hurt after awhile. I heard you can get UTI if you hold it in a lot. The issue is sometimes I wait in line for an hour and a half with no bathroom to go to. Then when on the bus or train you are forced to hold it until you get to your destination. Luckily it is more trouble going home then it is going to work. What do you guys think? Should I start packing a pair and use them when going home?

    • Jason March 5, 2014 at 10:58 pm - Reply

      I believe it’s a good idea, taking some diapers with you, that way you can change into a clean diaper after you’ve used one. No one can hold on forever, nor do I believe one should even try. I remember reading somewhere that wearing diapers 24/7 can actually be good for you, because it allows you to pee, and in some cases poop, at will, by letting nature take its course. I’m not sure whether I’d want to wear 24/7, but certainly 7 days a week.

  12. CD March 6, 2014 at 2:56 am - Reply

    Hi Jack,

    Honestly, I’m glad you posted. I am incontinent due to nerve damage and pretty much need to know where every bathroom is wherever I go. I know the commute from NJ to NYC. If you like pull-ups, wear the Abena Abri-Flex M3s…they hold a good deal (possibly two voids). If you’d rather have a diaper, try the Abena M4s. You can place a booster in both to make them last longer, If you have issues, don’t suffer…get the right protection and use it. You’d be surprised how many other people do!

    Take care,

    • Jason March 6, 2014 at 9:22 am - Reply

      I agree. This is a good place to come to talk about wearing diapers, whatever the reason.

    • Kwan Ming September 7, 2015 at 11:05 am - Reply

      Hi CD , I also suffer from neurological damage due to past childhood epilepsy, I live in the United Kingdom In a place known as the lakes district in Cumbria, I am going on holiday to Hong Kong in two weeks time so can’t wait to see my friends again, but will probably buy some diapers from the nearest store once I arrive as I need to wear diapers or I’ll be rushing around looking for the nearest toilets/rest room like yourself, I am called Kwan Ming and am writing to you to let you know your not alone in your struggle with incontinence problems And I support you 100% for taking the courage to find other people like yourself on this website.

      Did you know there is a website where you can win a free pack of diapers, no gimmicks or catches involved its called

      On this website you can participate in the race to dignity challenge and win the above prize it runs from Sept 2nd to September 30th 2015 and is well worth a go if you live in the U.S., I live out side of the above mentioned country/nation but am taking part for fun and to raise awareness of a need to end the stigmatism associated with the need to wear adult diapers.

      Any way good luck and good hunting if you enter the race, don’t worry its free unless you want to donate money towards their charity that helps people in 3rd world countries get better access to diapers in cases where they have people who genuinely need them.

      Anyway must go now
      Yours sincerely

      Kwan Ming.

  13. Alex March 6, 2014 at 11:02 pm - Reply

    I find I’m much more relaxed wearing a diaper in bed than during the day, so I tend to reserve my diaper time for late at night. It definitely does help me sleep better!

    • Mike S March 7, 2014 at 9:21 am - Reply

      I find wear diapers at night very relaxing as well as wearing during the morning. I have heard from some that they have a hard time sleeping in diapers, but not me. I sleep and feel like a baby when diapered.

      • Jason March 7, 2014 at 11:53 am - Reply

        I prefer to wear at night as well. I sleep like a baby when I don’t have to get up every hour to pee. I also like wearing during the day.

      • Jason March 7, 2014 at 12:10 pm - Reply

        Hey Nicky. I know the feeling. Even if I know where the nearest toilet is, I can’t always stop to use the toilet, because I’m busy doing something, and I can’t just stop what I’m doing. I could be at a movie theatre and I need to pee. What do I do? Get up and go to the restroom, and miss much of the movie? Thanks, but no thanks. If I were wearing diapers, I’d be able to watch the movie and not miss the movie just to pee. ๐Ÿ™‚

        • Nicky March 7, 2014 at 1:10 pm - Reply

          It’s like many people don’t know that Diapers have a good benefit such as being able to take exams such as LSAT,GRE,MCATS,SAT & ACT without having to take a bathroom break.

  14. Nicky March 7, 2014 at 11:48 am - Reply

    Having diapers for me, takes the stress out of the Modern world for me. It even calms me down when I am taking test & final exams. Diapers simply let me get through the day without ever having to worry about finding a toilet. Even though I am able to use the bathroom, I like having a diaper on because of the security blanket feel and relaxation of the stress as well.

    • Josh October 26, 2015 at 6:26 pm - Reply

      Me too

  15. Spargano March 7, 2014 at 4:19 pm - Reply

    Hey Adrian, love the new pics on the premium section! It’s so sweet to see the two of you together ๐Ÿ™‚

  16. Baby_Nick March 7, 2014 at 9:48 pm - Reply

    Hey Adrian, I totally agree with this post, especially items 1, 2, and 7. I really feel I get a betters night sleep when I’m diapered.

    • Jason March 7, 2014 at 10:29 pm - Reply

      I wish I could wear 24/7. I wouldn’t have to look for a toilet when I’m out and about, nor would I have to get up at night when I need to pee.

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  18. Dragon-Knight March 8, 2014 at 10:19 pm - Reply

    Hey everyone. Been a while since I posted a reply to any topic here. Been busy with work and things related. I was a truck driver for 7 months. Lost my job because of safety and inexperience on the east cost and had a lot of bad luck and that was Nov and Dec 2012. Anyways, to those that have posted about truckers wearing diapers I can say that I did do so because I had prior reasons due to AB/DL when it comes to diapers long before I drove a truck. I’ve never seen pee bottles around any truck stop or rest areas.

    Diapers on the truck do come in handy if by chance your are somewhere that you don’t know really well when the call of nature comes calling. Just make sure to dispose of your diaper asap to avoid smelling up the truck. On recent post here that I saw mentioned ab/dl gone bad as for the things that we don’t want other to really know about in terms of a bad image and such.

    The same can be said for truckers. Lets say cleaning out your truck in a Wal-Mart parking lot or truck stop and leaving it all on the ground verus putting it in a trash can. That same line of thought goes for AB/DL’S as well for public image and such. I can’t say that I’ve never seen adult diapers in any FlyingJ’s, Pilot, Petro’s or any truck stop for that matter. Maybe baby diapers if a family taking a road trip needs to stop and stock up on supplies. I think that’s it for this reply for the moment. Take it easy. Dragon-Knight

  19. jim March 9, 2014 at 2:58 pm - Reply

    Hi I am 22 and still wet at night so am in diapers and baby pants every night still. I actually became a dl several years ago and even though the bed wetting is inconvenient it keeps me in free diapers as I live at home and my Mom still takes care of my wetting

  20. Chris Bruce October 28, 2014 at 11:57 pm - Reply

    Im a 37 year old male and am 24/7 due to a back injury. I have always loved diapers from a young age and would take some of my younger brothers and sisters diapers to play in when I was a kid. Being 24/7 was hard at first but I will never go back to not wearing. I just love them to much. Be yourself and enjoy your diapers!! (Abena L4’s Rock)

  21. shawn January 29, 2015 at 9:42 am - Reply

    i am having a hard time being I diapers I have to wear because of a somotoform disorder
    I was abused as a child severely and my body has made me have to wear them 24 7
    having a hard time I thing god is disappointed In me at least I think so. every time I go to the hospital they try to find out why im incontinent and I have learned to live with it for some reason there for me is a shame in pooping and wetting myself how can I axsept and cope

  22. heisenberg February 23, 2015 at 11:23 pm - Reply

    I drive a truck and i started with depends protection with tabs and ill admit to feeling incredably comfortable and secure for some reason. I love driving trucks i looked up to it since i was a small child theres just something about the solitude and freedom. This diapered thing has got me feeling the same way. At first i did to for convienence to make my deadlines and such… Now i Swear by it it. Also i have some gastric issues that are caused by some type of problem said to be chrones disease but im not diagnosed. I have recently started ordering online from abdl friendly websites and there diapers are supposed to be much better than store bought. I ordered some that have this awsome pattern with little rabbits on them that are super absorbant. I dont care who judges me the way i see it any woman willing to accept me in bed will see past the diaper thing. Ive come to accept it. The benefits outweigh the risks by far. Ive never been able to use public restrooms. If any one has a problem with it f off.

    • Jason February 27, 2015 at 5:53 pm - Reply

      I don’t drive a truck, but I know the feeling. I can’t always make it to the toilet when I need to pee. I don’t mind wearing diapers. I find it more convenient than looking for a toilet to piss in, only to find the toilet closed for maintenance, for the winter, etc.

  23. A.J. March 11, 2015 at 9:06 pm - Reply

    Since I’ve been wearing diapers my whole life for my incontinence I can agree every topic on this list. I found that I can easily relax in a nice fresh diaper after a very stressful day at work. With my choice of diapers Bambino Classicos and Snuggies being my top favorites I in constant comfort no matter what my mood is. In my line of work being a chef I can constantly cook and prepare orders with out all the worry of finding a bathroom except when I have to change of course. I’ve always felt unique, since I’m the only one among the people I work with or know personally that wears diapers. I’ve found that wearing diapers especially ones with cute designs like cushies or snuggies tend to get me lots of complements especially from some of the girls I’m working with thanks to my shirt riding up revealing my diapers waistband. I sleep literally like a baby each night and I fall to sleep really fast as well.

  24. Kwan Ming July 30, 2015 at 5:15 am - Reply

    Grieving whist wearing diapers.

    This has been a very sad 2 weeks for me recently since my last post, 2 of my best friends died within weeks of each other bouth due to cancer, they where tragically young I had the option to go to their funeral’s but couldn’t because of extreme greif I don’t do well at funerals I go all to prices, sorry if this update is more of a sob story but I just needed to get it out of my system emotionally speaking.

    On a less upsetting note I continue to wear diapers but have the un-amiable task of living my life whilst living at home with unsympathetic pearents who are against me wearing diapers at home/whilst I am out in town, its not all bad though as wearing them has improved my life.

    And I am not ashamed of wearing them in public under my clothing, I have to wear diapers at night because of the risk of having a embarrassing accident whilst I am asleap, I tend to sleep like a baby literally mind the pun, and I haven’t felt this good in diapers since I was a child all those 30 or so years ago.

    Now I am showing my age, serriously I am almost 35 years old/young as I would like to put it and wearing diapers gives me the means to manage my weak bladder whilst living my life to the fullest and that’s gotta be a good thing right?.

    Any-way please don’t be surprised if I am in Comino ado for a few days due to greif over the deaths of my friends, feels like someone wants to take all my friends away from me one by one, I know I am not being punnished by I won’t say who, as I am not religious but I feel why me why now?.

    Apart from the pain I am feeling at this moment I am fine and will continue to live my life as I always have done and not even greif will come between that I. am going to visit a church today and light candells in their memory.

    I now have 3 freinds to greif over Chris who died age 22 due to a drunk driver in 2010, Vicky who was my teacher & freind & Lisa who was my former colleague at work if I had a candle for everyone I’ve lost over the years I would probably create a blazing inferno
    Something I wouldn’t want to do as the church would burn down and I would probebly get arrested for arson.

    And since I am no criminal I wouldn’t want to go to jail anytime soon I only play criminals on my ps3 games I like to play the bad guys without actually being one in real life my are Darth Vader from star wars and John Marston from Red Dead Redemption.

    Anyway just wanted to talk to someone today as I am feeling depressed and unloved as I always do after someone I care about dies for what ever reason.

    • Jason July 30, 2015 at 6:06 am - Reply

      No one should feel ashamed of wearing diapers. Just because other people don’t approve of it, doesn’t mean you should stop.wearing them. We all need some means to escape, even temporarily, from sad moments like the death of friends or family.

      • Kwan Ming August 2, 2015 at 8:16 am - Reply

        Thank you Jason, I’ll bear that in mind thanks for your continued support.

  25. Kwan Ming August 1, 2015 at 12:55 am - Reply

    For me the best thing about having to wear diapers again is the feeling of absolute freedom and the fact that whilst I am laying here in bed I whilst writing this reply I haven’t a care in the world, I am happy given my 2nd chance to wear my diapers like a child once more, I am loving it.

    Diapers are the best thing that has ever happened in my life and I can’t see why more people don’t know about the benefits they provide and start wearing them as their everyday undergarments so it becomes more socially acceptable not just for babies/toddlers to wear them 24/7.

    I am not a diaper lover, but had to start wearing them because of my disabilities and my weak bladder and since then I’ve never looked back.

  26. Kwan Ming August 2, 2015 at 8:11 am - Reply

    Dear Adrian, Just to let you know I won’t be online for a week or two from Monday due to the fact I will be morning the loss of my two good friends who died recently and who’s funerals took place last week,

    Sorry if it seems I am going after your members for my own personal gain, but I was asked to raise awareness of our charity on-line but the only way I can actually achieve this is through the back channels so to speak as getting through the red tape is ridicules and that’s why I’ve been trying so hard to do my part.

    Unfortunately I have already been banned by one website who thought I was a internet troll/door step seller which I am not, the sad thing in life nowadays is to do what’s right you now have to break some rules and that’s just not fair.

    Anyway I thought I must apologise in person if I have breached any of the terms of conditions on this website.

    I also think I best if I part ways for the time being as I need to morn my friends and start the grieving process as ai need to have some time alone hope you understand

    yours sincerely Kwan Ming
    Sunday 2nd August 2015.

  27. MY September 10, 2015 at 9:40 pm - Reply

    I am 38 years old, am married and have 2 kids. I am also successful in my career. I wear adult diapers and have for many years, I am a diaper lover. I wear them for two reasons, one is that I just like the feeling of wearing and wetting them and the other is that I work in the pest control industry. I spend many hours on the road driving, I am in and our of peopleโ€™s houses all day and my hands are usually dirty. As a service provider it is very inconvenient to stop and ask a client to use their washroom and annoying to stop what I am doing for a little pee. Diapers allow me to be more productive, more professional and enjoy my day just a little more. For this who are wondering, yes my wife knows and is ok with itโ€ฆlol

  28. Kwan Ming September 18, 2015 at 7:08 pm - Reply

    Living with PTSD & wearing diapers

    In 2010 myself and my best friend where volunteers at the local animal shelter/zoo in Cumbria UK.

    Then one day in July Tragedy struck when my best friend was struck down and killed by a crazy drunken driver who impacted with my friend at high speed and flung him a meter up into the air and then my friend hit the ground with a sickening sound and with blood all over him, I witnessed the whole incident as it happened 100 yards away from myself and was left with life long psycallogical scars from Post traumatic stress disorders.

    About the same time I went into a catatonic state of what I can only describe as survivors guilt which still effects me to this day, I also had a severe case of depression and attempted suicide to end it all, fortunately a member of the public who was a retired nurse noticed something was wrong with me and got me in touch with professional help and who after diagnosing me with PTSD helped me get my shattered life back together again, if it hadn’t have been for that stranger I would have died 5 years ago.

    Also about that time I started having problems with incontinence and other issues of which I have no control over, I now wear diapers virtually all of the time and have to wear them at night to prevent any bed wetting accidents.

    And whilst I cannot be sure my suspicions are that it was all triggered off by the incident I witnessed as well as myself developing a over active bladder.

    I now wear these means of protection just like a toddler or infant but I won’t let it take over my life and I accepted long ago that if I where ever to return myself to wearing these products then it would be for the rest of my life and not just a temporary mewp_e.

    But I also feel since taking this decision I made the right call because my quality of life and dignity has drastically changed and all for the better as I feel like I’ve been born again as I have become a much better person than I ever wad before and for this I can’t thank people like you who supported me through hell and back again.

    Yours sincerely

    Kwan Ming ?

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