I got up this morning and I have to admit that I usually do not have messy accidents during the night time so this was a rare occurrence for me honestly.  Peter was actually quite surprised when he checked me this morning to find out that I had actually pooped my diaper.  He really didn’t have to check because of the smell but I was sort of surprised myself when I woke up.  I don’t know if I ate something last night at the restaurant we went to last night or what that made me mess at night but usually my fecal incontinence does not “happen” at night oddly enough.  But, times like these remind me that it can truly happen anytime.  It was bad enough that he had to take it off of me in the bathroom and I had to just take a shower because it was easier to get cleaned up after he wiped me down a little bit.  Took a quick snapshot of it – I was honestly stunned because it hadn’t happened at night in awhile.

poopy adult diaper

Don’t mind my random piece of long hair next to the diaper either.  I straighten my hair so obviously it is damaged from that so my hair falls out quite a bit when I brush it.  But, yeh as you can see – no big surprise I wet as I usually have a wet diaper in the morning but wow I cannot believe I pooped in my diaper at night…I honestly don’t think that has happened in literally months.  Anyways the Secure X-Plus diaper I had on held up very well and did not leak anything so I was pretty happy with that considering the diaper was pretty heavy when Peter took it off.  Anyways, that is my random rambling for today – I know its random but I was just amazed that I had a “poop accident” since I rarely have em at night.  But, yeh – yay me I guess lol.  I hope everyone is having a good week and everyone is getting excited for the weekend.  Anyone doing anything fun this weekend?.

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  1. Cute Diaper Boy September 8, 2011 at 7:50 pm - Reply

    Haha, yay you indeed. I suppose if you already wear 24/7, you might as well make the most of it!

  2. Chris September 9, 2011 at 1:06 am - Reply

    What brand of diaper is that?

  3. Deen September 9, 2011 at 1:25 am - Reply

    Seems like anymore I wake up in a messy diaper about half the time anymore and it’s getting worse. Guess MS is like that!

  4. Adrian September 9, 2011 at 1:58 am - Reply

    Chris – it is a Secure X-Plus diaper.

  5. black-dragon September 9, 2011 at 12:57 pm - Reply

    Hey Adrian. I’ll say as far as I know of your blog here, I’m surprised to see you post a picture of a messy diaper here on your blog. Yeah, it is fun to ramble if there isn’t anything big that needs to be said, then a ramble always works. I have time off this weekend and the following weekend as well. Today and this Saturday I’m going to the Lanseville Hertiage Festivale not to far from my part of town. http://www.lanesvilleheritageweekend.org/ Yeah, its very family friendly and very laid back to enjoy walking, tractor pulls, good food, and some shopping.

    The next weekend I’m going to a munch that I’ve been going for almost a year come this October. Here is a link to the munches host website. http://www.liljennie.com/dynalinks.php Oh, you can also checkout the google group as by following the link from this site I just mentioned.

    If anyone here happens to have a Fetlife account, you can check out the HoosierHighChair group if anyone is interested in meeting people out in public at munches. If anyone hasn’t been to any type of munch, they are worth it even if its a one time thing. Well, thats about it for this reply here. Take it easy and have fun!!

  6. beka straley September 10, 2011 at 12:23 pm - Reply

    I wake up alot with messy diapers, like 3 times a week. my mom says im to lazy to use the potty ,but, im not lazy it happens when im asleep and i cant help it..

  7. Pawl September 10, 2011 at 7:05 pm - Reply

    Hi Adrian,
    After reading your blog for a while and this posting motivating me to comment is kinda odd. Odd in that a random viewing of a film scene and your story is oddly coincidental.
    First off the film, “The curious Case of Benjamin Button” (of which I cannot recommend or not recommend since I’ve yet to see but bits & pieces) featured a scene where Capshaw & Pitt shared an intimate conversation. Of interest is the dialog where she asked “Will you still love me when I’m old and wrinkled?” and he replied with, “Will you still love me when I wet the bed?” This led me to wonder how ones desire to hold on to the approval and affection of the ones we hold dear and the things that we perceive that may threaten the continuation of that approval/affection. For the characters played by Capshaw, it was the ravages of age while Pitt expressed concern at the loss of continence.
    Societal norms are that continence be achieved & maintained by age 2 and wrinkled flesh at advanced age….more or less.
    You’d mentioned botox in an earlier post and sometimes I wonder whether the introduction of a foreign substance optionally to oneself is a risk greater than alleviation of the aliment it treats.
    Now bedwetting (nocturnal enursis), U/I, F/I, etc. have been managed, with good success, by donning ‘protective undergarments’. Notice I’ve used the term protective undergarments rather than diapers and waterproof pants. The former denotes age appropriate clothing for ages 2 and later while the later infer infancy.
    In short, how do we see ourselves, our self-esteem, having to don clothing that society deems not needed beyond the age of 2 and more importantly how do we perceive how others, that know, see us?
    Would our vanity and/or desire for approval drive us to seek out alternatives, such as botox, or does management with appropriate clothing cause us unneeded consternation?

  8. andrew September 10, 2011 at 7:58 pm - Reply

    I like black-dragon was a bit surprised to see a messy diaper posted on your site. But from how you described the situation it seems like you were just as surprised to have had a messy diaper as we were of seeing it!!! Your blog is great. While I am not incon. I love your positive outlook towards having to wear diapers everyday. I used to think I wanted to be 24/7 but it was too much work!! I know you not having a choice makes things more tedious but I am inspired by your willingness not to let this get you down. I do consider myself an ab so I also like other aspects of you site too. Keep it up.

  9. Wes September 11, 2011 at 12:30 am - Reply

    Its always great to read about how well Peter and you handle these situations and care for one another. The x plus is a great diaper for any situation anywhere.

    Reading your latest post makes me happy that my messing accidents are usually a 50/50 split between day and night. You are more brave than me in that you can handle daytime messing so well, where as i havent got the hang of changing in a public restroom without my heart rate going up. No matter what i have accidents when they happen and i am always doing my best to deal with it as they happen. Thank you for the great blogging and inspiring me to live every day the best that i can 🙂

  10. Richard September 17, 2011 at 3:08 pm - Reply

    yuk! not sure I liked seeing the picture much. It would help me a lot to be able to poop my nappy as I have a quite a few urgency issues but it is just too gross for me to do it.


  11. Elizabeth September 18, 2011 at 1:06 am - Reply

    thank you for this… now I have something to show my bf so he will believe I’m not the only incontinent to mess at night and that it REALLY was an accident – taking six classes, I am exhausted at all points in time.

  12. keith September 22, 2011 at 6:39 am - Reply

    i think your cool to post your messy diaper pics

  13. Steven September 27, 2011 at 11:35 am - Reply

    Woke up to a nice warm wet one.

  14. RockinBaby September 28, 2011 at 5:28 pm - Reply

    I really enjoy the go after breakfast or whenever the bummy moves, just be careful and cleanup real good uti are the pits. I wear a tampn for protection so nothngs grows up there, what do you guys do for protection or do you need it?
    Custard dydees are the best, sweet dreams.

  15. Mike October 2, 2011 at 12:30 am - Reply

    I know you like to wear diapers. But why not try a bowel management plan?

  16. DW October 24, 2011 at 11:25 am - Reply

    Reminds me of a joke I recently heard. I will modify the joke slightly to make it more appropriate for this crowd. Here’s the joke…

    Two guys are sitting around drinking beers one afternoon when one of them turns to the other and says, “Dude, I just farted and I think a log came out in my diaper.”

    He responds, “You sick f*ck! What are you gonna do now? Do you need a change?”

    The first guy says, “No, no. Watch this. I’ll bet you the next beer that I can reach down into my diaper and eat my own shit.”

    He responds, “No f*cking way! You really are a sick f*ck! But…sure, go ahead, I’ll take that bet.”

    So the first guy drops his pants, reaches into the back of his diaper and pulls out a handful of steaming, squishy, brown sh*t, then proceeds to eat the substance out of his hand, even going so far as licking his fingers clean.

    His buddy just sat there completely amazed, then says, “Hey, I bet we could make some money with this trick so we can get more beer.”

    So, the two guys walk into their local bar, then to the first table where two men in business suits are drinking and talking.

    The one guy says, “I’ll bet you guys $20 that my friend here can take a shit in his diaper, then eat it right in front of you.”

    The two businessmen laugh hysterically and look at each other, then say, “Why not? Nobody is that crazy or drunk. Sure, we’ll take that bet.”

    So the buddy grunts and strains, then pinches off a loaf in his diaper and proceeds to eat it.

    “Holy sh*t!”, the businessmen exclaim. “Here ya go! Here’s your 20 bucks. Unbelievable!”

    So, they collect their money and head to the next table where four big, bodybuilder-type guys are sitting, and the first guy says, “Hey, you guys look like you’ve seen some crazy stuff, but have you ever seen someone eat their own sh*t?”

    Everyone at the table stops drinking and talking, then one of them says, “Dude, there’s no way anyone will eat their own shit. If one of you does it, then you both get free drinks all damned night, on us!”

    So, the buddy, again, grunts and strains and drops another load of sh*t in his diaper, then grabs a handful of the steamy mess, puts it up to his face and just before he is about to gulp it down…he projectile vomits on everyone at the table, drenching them completely.

    “What the f*ck?!?!”, say the bodybuilder guys at the table, then they all get out of their seats and proceed to beat the living sh*t out of the two scammers, leaving both barely conscious on the bar floor.

    The one buddy turns to his friend and asks, “What happened? Why didn’t you eat your sh*t? And WHY THE F*CK did you throw up on everyone?!”

    His friend rolls over and struggles to lift his head off long enough to reply…

    “There was a hair in it.”

  17. dylan November 28, 2011 at 10:43 pm - Reply

    Hey I mess my diaper often at night or when km sleeping it’s not that I mess it its only diarrhea if I go in my diaper sleeping. It sucks when it happens cause it fills my diaper full front and.back around my privets when I wake up like this I hate it but im fully incontent like many here so its just part of my life

  18. Gena December 9, 2011 at 2:05 pm - Reply


    I just came across your site and decided to explore a bit. When I read this post I decided I would comment. I too am completely incontinent (due to an auto accident a year and a half ago). I have to say I am a bit jealous you do not “mess” at night. I wake up in a messy diaper 3-4 mornings a week. My husband has been quite supportive of my situation since the accident, but I know this aspect of my incontinence gets to him. As you mention, by the time one of us wakes up, the smell has overtaken the bedroom. During the work week he gets up about an hour before I wake up, so he is faced with a rather unpleasant environment to get ready in. Not that it is any better for me, as the longer it has been since the “mess”, the harder the clean up. Often it is a straight line to the shower. It is interesting to hear your husband will check your diaper and even change you. As supportive as he is, he stops well short of the changing process (even though he does change our children regularly).

  19. Troy January 30, 2012 at 2:59 pm - Reply

    We are all adults here well more or less but you catch my point I hope.

  20. Troy February 1, 2012 at 11:50 am - Reply

    I find this topic of interest as I am dealing with fecal incon. Not totally but enough it is becoming a pain to deal with and seemingly been getting worse. Docs basically ran every test and said your just going to have deal with it. So I started searching was hoping to find what Adrian or others suggest. Now I am thinking of trying the secure xplus or Tranquility not sure. Only concern is I hear that they make alot of noise is this just rumor?

  21. A.J. March 24, 2014 at 1:27 am - Reply

    I wear those same kind of diapers for my bowel and urinary incon. There awesome!

  22. Ryan September 30, 2014 at 9:19 pm - Reply

    That’s funny, you shit your diaper. It must have reaked! It has happened to me before, good thing to wear! It will save your pants!

  23. Chris November 16, 2014 at 11:27 pm - Reply

    Im 24/7 and have been having a bm really early in the mornings lately in my diaper. Its agrivating as my wife has to change me due to a bad back injury. When you have FI theirs no more getting hung up about messy diapers because if you really have it its going to happen. Its just poop!!! Be kind to others. Hugs

  24. A.J. November 17, 2014 at 2:39 am - Reply

    I agree it happens to me usually 2 to 3 times a week, it sucks when I have a stomach bug though.

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