Wearing diapers is not a completely natural thing in everyday society even though most of us truly want it to be. You have to truly get used to wearing diapers to be fully comfortable with it. I have been wearing diapers since I was a baby and even then it still took some getting use to as I went through the various phases in my life. When I was in the later stages of elementary school and kids started to develop a sense of “douchebaggery” (pardon my french) they would make fun of me if they discovered me wearing diapers but it was not a huge thing because obviously in elementary school, teachers are still very protective. So, that took some getting use to. Β Then, as I moved onto middle school and high school – things happened and you learn to deal with them. You adjust and you develop a thicker skin through each phase. I told myself all the time that this is what life has dealt me and many people had been dealt worse things in their life.

Developing Thick Skin

Being comfortable wearing diapers requires a bit of thick skin because wearing diapers at first requires some bravery and confidence in yourself. Naturally, at some point in your life someone is going to say something or make you feel uncomfortable. Β It is going to happen and if you just expect it then it may be easier to handle and you will be ready for it. Have an answer or comment prepared. But, over time you will develop thick skin to people that feel they need to judge you.

Have Confidence

Confidence is key when it comes to being comfortable wearing diapers and comfortable with yourself. After a while of wearing diapers for such an extended period of time – one becomes more and more comfortable with the idea of it. Confidence is a key factor in many things through out life but especially with things that are or appear to be a bit abnormal to the everyday things. If you don’t think its a big deal then others are less likely to think its a big deal.

Wear More

The more you wear diapers the more comfortable you will be actually wearing diapers…I know imagine that. But, its true – the more you wear diapers the more natural and comfortable you will become. Β You will notice yourself taking more and more risks and before long what use to be something of a big deal to you will be an everyday occurrence. Β The hardest part is taking that first step!

Wearing diapers is something that many people taking getting used to. Unless you have been the rare person that has worn diapers their entire life – it will take some getting use to and being more comfortable with yourself. Don’t judge yourself or think of yourself as a freak! Don’t! If it is something you truly enjoy and makes you “tick” then it is a good thing because it helps you and does not hurt anyone else. Just do what you love and don’t give yourself such a hard time over it. Becoming comfortable with wearing diapers takes a bit of time, experimenting and bravery – but I have faith in YOU. Take joy in knowing there are thousands if not millions of other adult babies and diaper lovers out there with you..

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  1. Rachel April 29, 2013 at 3:16 am - Reply

    In retrospect, I don’t think I would have minded going through school in diapers. I’ve loved them since age ten, possibly much earlier, so it might not have been so bad for me. As far as ridicule is concerned, I pretty much got harassed non-stop going through school anyway, so I doubt much would have changed.

    In fact, wearing diapers might have prevented two of the most embarrassing incidents I ever had to endure growing up. In fourth grade, I had a teacher who refused to let me use the restroom. My bladder then, as now, was weak, so wetting myself was inevitable. Both times this occurred, I had to walk in front of a classroom of giggling, snickering kids to tell that witch of a teacher I had to go home to change. (Fortunately I lived just one building over, but the trip was still miserable).

    I know youth diapers existed in the early seventies (I’d stare at them in the Sears catalog for hours) so it’s not as if they weren’t available. They would have helped me get through that horrible year.

    • ericklydiaperman2 June 8, 2014 at 12:37 pm - Reply

      I didn’t either, I wore diapers a few weeks left of junior collage, and I just started wearing 3 or 4 weeks ago. I wear 24/7 and i’m just starting to get comfortable in them. I’ve been brave, been wearing under my clothes out and about. I’m proud of myself with diapers.

      • Jason June 8, 2014 at 1:18 pm - Reply

        Or even if you only wear some times and not 24/7.

    • A.J. December 17, 2014 at 1:45 am - Reply

      Going to school diapered was a challenge at first but overtime I got used to it, I remember one embarrassing moment in the fifth grade it was during recess I was sitting on a bench talking with two of my friends and me not being able to tell if I pee or poop let my diaper get so soaked I leaked and with jeans it was pretty noticeable to, luckily my friends noticed just in time and I quickly ran to the restroom to changed. And of course some kids saw my wet jeans as I ran inside but no one said anything when I came back outside.

      • Jason December 17, 2014 at 2:13 am - Reply

        I’ve never worn diapers to school when I was a boy or as a teen. Sometimes, though, I wish I had. It would’ve saved me from having to wait until class was over to rush to the restroom and then head to the next class.

        • auairman December 17, 2014 at 7:19 pm - Reply

          im 64 been wearing cloth diapers for 64 years

          • Jason December 26, 2014 at 7:12 pm

            I’d wear diapers 24/7 if I had someone to help diaper me.

  2. Amanda April 30, 2013 at 7:48 pm - Reply

    Growing up incontinent in a tropical island (yes), I had to wear a very loose sundress as a school uniform. I wore shorts underneath to prevent upskirts and hide the bulge. This of course was uncomfortable. So i latter ditched that and accepted the barrage of laughter.

    • Kwan Ming September 14, 2014 at 7:09 am - Reply

      I had a simillar experience when I wad a child, As I spent the first 4-5 years of my life living with my pearents in the Cayman Islands.

  3. James Jackman October 7, 2013 at 2:37 pm - Reply

    I am 32 years old & male I have had a normal upbringing as a child and was potty trained at 1& ahalf in age back in 1982/1983 have worn nappies/diapers for over a year now when I started having problems with incontanance I use to wear normal clothing until I started having problems & was a little bit nervous about taking the step of returing to nappies but I am now not only wearing them 24/7 but with comfidance, so I do apprechiate what you are saying I have tried Tena Slip maxi’s, But they leaked alot from the sides so I was until recently wearing Drydayz/Cludlez nappies which were alot more absorbant but stopped useing them due to the cost as they cost a fortune to order on-line and now I wear boots stay dry slips which I can buy from boots they are more or less comfitable but are less absorbant so occasionally I have to double up & make sure they are sealed tightly so they don’t leak.

    I don’t see myself as an adult baby but take the view that I have to wear them due to my disabilites/medical needs
    so I am not one who chose this option likely as It was a big step but

  4. James Jackman October 7, 2013 at 2:41 pm - Reply

    Sorry about not completing my post I was interupted by a computer glitch
    what I was going on to say was altough It was a big step but I feel comfitable in them.

  5. Jason February 26, 2014 at 3:12 pm - Reply

    I’ve never understood why the hang-up people have with wearing diapers. Whether it’s for need or choice, people should be allowed to wear diapers. Whether it’s for road trips or work, or for watching a movie, however healthy one is, physically, mentally, emotionally, or even psychologically, one should wear diapers.

  6. LINDA July 2, 2014 at 10:36 am - Reply


    • Jason July 2, 2014 at 11:41 am - Reply

      I know the feeling. Some diapers I’ve worn I’ve found to be quite comfortable, while others are the most uncomfortable.

    • A.J. July 2, 2014 at 8:49 pm - Reply

      They can get uncomfortable sometimes it all depends on what kind of diapers you wear, I know they get really uncomfortable in extreme heat.

    • Justin December 4, 2014 at 5:39 am - Reply

      If you get scratchy and lotions aren’t helping try using desitin max strength. I have incontinence and get some rashes due to my warehouse work. Believe me it helps.

      • A.J. December 17, 2014 at 1:30 am - Reply

        It helps out a lot, makes working in a restaurant kitchen more bearable.

      • auairman December 22, 2014 at 2:42 pm - Reply

        well i dont think you will get used to ,them cloth are the best ones i use them all time ive been in diapers since i was here on earth gary coffey

  7. toodles July 8, 2014 at 5:47 pm - Reply

    yah i agree it depends on what diaper you wear i wear dry 24/7 diapers to work and abena m4s at home and put poise hour glass pads in side for added support and comfort and sprinkle baby powder in there and i stay dry for hours

  8. gary coffey December 2, 2014 at 10:54 am - Reply

    i am in diapers 24/7 and people treat you like why u like diapers not like but need them i wear cloth mostly but the are real bulkey ther cooler thow and you dont have to change as much eather gary

    • Jason December 2, 2014 at 2:02 pm - Reply

      I’d wear cloth diapers and plastic pants if I had someone to help pin them on me.

    • Jason December 15, 2014 at 12:43 pm - Reply

      What I’ve never understood is why, once a child is potty trained and out of diapers, a parent expects that child to not have any accidents. From experience, I can say that it’s not possible to hold on indefinitely. However well aware one may be that he or she needs to pee, unless you’re near a toilet when you need to pee, you won’t be able to hold on and unless you’re wearing a diaper, you’re going to piss your pants. I’ve had that happen. It’s the same with when you need to poop. It doesn’t matter how old one is or how aware he or she may be of his need to poop. If you can’t be near a toilet when you need to go, you’re going to have an accident unless you’re wearing a diaper.

  9. Sofia December 16, 2014 at 8:57 pm - Reply

    Hey Im there with you Jason.

    Even if your potty trained its always good to wear a diaper.

    If you can’t hold it in or be near a toilet no worries you got your diaper on.


    • Jason December 16, 2014 at 9:13 pm - Reply

      I *totally* agree. I don’t know anyone who can hold on indefinitely before he/she’s able to make it to a toilet. I wore a diaper while I was working this afternoon. It was soaked by the time I was finished working out.

  10. Sofia December 16, 2014 at 9:15 pm - Reply

    So you only wear diapers Jason? No underwear or anything else?

    • Jason December 16, 2014 at 9:21 pm - Reply

      I wish I could only wear diapers. But no, I also wear underwear over my diaper. It keeps it against my body.

      • Sofia December 16, 2014 at 9:24 pm - Reply

        Oh I see.

        Sometimes I don’t wear diapers because I like doing it in my dress to which feels good to me.


        • Jason December 16, 2014 at 9:48 pm - Reply

          Have a fun time in Vegas. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia December 16, 2014 at 10:06 pm

            Thanks Jason I appreciate it.

            I will have a great time. I hope I win some money.

            πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

          • Jason December 16, 2014 at 10:13 pm

            Cool! Does she know that you wear diapers? πŸ™‚

          • Sofia December 16, 2014 at 10:27 pm


            My mom is totally cool with it when I wear diapers and all this weird stuff too. She still loves me and respects me


          • Jason December 16, 2014 at 10:36 pm

            I’m glad to hear that. Have fun in Vegas, and Merry Christmas. πŸ™‚

          • Sofia December 16, 2014 at 10:57 pm

            Thank You Jason

            Merry Christmas to you too.


          • Jason December 16, 2014 at 11:24 pm

            Thanks. I’m hittin’ the sack. TTYL. πŸ™‚

      • Dewaine January 21, 2016 at 12:43 pm - Reply

        I had some adult onezies made by http://www.babykins.com
        And these are what I wear over my diapers to hold them up.
        Easier for changing your diaper too πŸ™‚

        • Seattle Diaper January 31, 2016 at 12:34 am - Reply

          I’ve heard of Babykins. They’re a Canadian company.

    • auairman December 22, 2014 at 2:48 pm - Reply

      hi jayson
      yes im in diapers 24/7 have been long time i really dont no what its like not to be in diapers i use cloth inless dont have any the ill try somthin

      gary coffey

  11. Sofia December 16, 2014 at 9:20 pm - Reply

    I think I have showed you this already before but here is this story of the 3 children going back to diapers.

    Tell me if its funny and if you like it.


    • Jason December 16, 2014 at 9:26 pm - Reply

      I’ve read the story. I also commented as well. Scroll down to where it shows my name, and you’ll see my comment. πŸ™‚

      • Sofia December 16, 2014 at 9:35 pm - Reply

        Oh ok

  12. Sofia December 16, 2014 at 9:47 pm - Reply


    I will leave this Friday to go to Las Vegas so I will not be able respond to any comments/posts such as you or Bryan until like the 2nd or the 3rd of January because thats when I will come back.

    I only have a desktop computer which is why I can’t respond so sorry if I will be gone for like 2 weeks.

    Im going to be diapered there so I can enjoy all the games and casinos without getting up to go to the restroom.


    • Jason December 16, 2014 at 10:04 pm - Reply

      That’s what I’d do. Do you have friends or family who lives in Las Vegas? πŸ™‚

  13. Sofia December 16, 2014 at 10:07 pm - Reply

    No but my mom is coming with me too.


  14. Jenny April 10, 2015 at 12:37 am - Reply

    I am new to wearing adult diapers because of my incontinence Im still getting used to it.

    • Jason April 24, 2015 at 6:47 pm - Reply

      I’ve been wearing diapers on and off since I was a boy. Partly because I still wet my pants, but also because I liked it. I liked being able to pee and to poo at will without having to hold until I make it to the toilet.

  15. Rich April 23, 2015 at 3:09 pm - Reply

    I agree it takes some tome to realize that diapers area way of life.
    For me it started 13 years ago after prostate/bladder cancer surgery.
    When the Cather was removed I put on a diaper. When I stood up pee started to flow.
    It felt so wearied it continued like that for months. Bed time was constant leaking and not waking up. After 2 years of this I new that I would be in diapers 24/7 for the rest of my life.
    I know that diapers are a part of my life and do enjoy them. ,

  16. Alton April 30, 2015 at 8:09 pm - Reply

    My dr told me I needed diapers. What are the most comfortable?

  17. John Sprague August 10, 2015 at 8:17 am - Reply

    I really only wear diapers at night in bed, it just gives me a sense of relaxation and security.

    • Jason September 4, 2015 at 11:55 am - Reply

      I don’t need diapers for medical reasons, nor is there a “fetish” for diapers. For me, it’s simply convenience and security, a “just in case I can’t be near a toilet when I need to pee.”

  18. Brandon Wood August 16, 2016 at 1:02 am - Reply

    Thank you so much for this blog and all your posts that you make for people that are incontinent, adult babies, diaper lovers or both and non adult babies and diaper lovers. I’ve felt so much acceptance and strength from your supportive words. I am in the process of accepting my love of diapers side. Thank you again for your wisdom and encouraging words Adrian.

    • Tacoma Diaper August 19, 2016 at 2:51 pm - Reply

      I agree. I grew up being told that “diapers are for babies, and that if you want to “grow up”, you need to potty train and get rid of the diapers”. I’ve never understood why society places such expectations on children. I would think there’d be more to growing up than potty training. Even those who are toilet trained need to wear diapers. I can’t count how many times I’ve wished that I were wearing diapers, because I couldn’t be near a toilet when I desperately needed to pee, or sometimes poop. I don’t consider myself either an AB or a DL Nor do I have any kind medical problems that would require me to wear diapers. Before I heard about this website, I thought I had gone mad because I liked wearing diapers.

  19. Chris October 11, 2017 at 3:29 pm - Reply

    I try to fight it, yet the last time a part of me wanted to wear diapers I was 14. A few months back I had a dilemma where I was at a crossroads with myself. Now I’m split on whether to buy adult diapers. As it is, I was thinking about it and I’d wear them, and go to the bathroom like any adult would.

    I feel conflicted inside, a part of me is saying you’re an adult don’t wear them. Another is saying”Do what you want, it’s your life, you aren’t hurting anyone”

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